What is true love?

We have various forms of love and infidelity in anupama

Like vanraj loving one woman after another from college till Malvika days for business empire. Its obivous this guy does not love anyone in life and can dump any woman if better one comes along for his profits and benefits. He dumped anupama for MBA Kavya and Kavya for super millionaire Malvika

Samar love where dumped Nandini and threw her engagement ring on floor only because she said lets live seperate from Sahhs because how her masi is treated. Many may think Samar is great human but not really, in 21st century all live as individual family only after wedding if they are financially good off.

Toshu love where all he wants is physical needs to be satisfied by his woman.

But most baffling is Anuj kapadia love. He sauys he worships anupama like Godesses but says he had flings and relationships with woman in USA. First we must understad in USA prom dates start in high schol and there physical relationship before marraige is not considered bad its common. But still is anuj love to anupama real so great as may be Romeo Juliet or Majnu Laila etc

If anuj loved anupama so much how did he date others and get physical with them in first place. Is getting physical with another man or woman before wedding ok and not considered as betrayal to future hubby or wife. There was a time virginity of woman before marriage was considered compulsory and still is in asia country before marriage. So is it ok for anuj to sleep with 10 woman ahve affair with 4 than say i am in love with anupama not you to those woman and walk off.

Yes everyone may say anuj was not committed to anupama in marraige and no scope. But if a girl is expected to not surrender herself to any man other than hubby why different rules for man? Imagine anupama slept with 5 dated 10 men would anuj still have same image of anupama in his eyes and respect her. Why different rules for man and woman?

Here i can say look at famous love stories in history, there lovers go to great lengths like dying for each other but not forgetting and moving on. Or staying alone after their man or woman marries off to another. Usually its parents who force them to marry or circumstances.

If we take history Shah jahan loved Mumtaz Mahal so muchthat he never came out of his room for 6 months mourning her death. Than why did he marry another woman after her death? Is Shah Jahan love still so great to Mumtaz after he married another woman after her death? Is anuj love still so pure and great that he dates 4 sleeps with 20 but says i love only anu. If he love anu than how he had so many flings? Is it not betrayal to anupama love?

In same history if we again go back Salim loved anarkali but after her death married 20 woman had 6 to 7 kids from them. So did he truly love anarkali that he was ready to challenge his father Akbar who was against this? (lets forget its real story or not?) Or can we say a future emperor cannot go crazy in love and not marry like an anuj kapadia as he has to take care of his empire. If he goes mad in love like a majnu where will next emperor like Shah jahan arrive from. Its more of a job to give heir to throne thats why most royal even today marry some princess than love of their life? (like Charles to diana as she has royal links).

So may be a future emperor or emperor cannot have same kind of love as commoner and act majnu kind for long or enemies abound and endanger his empire. Luckily anuj has no such compulsions in life? Nether he took responsibility of Malvika his sister after his parents death seriously he just married her to some brute let her get abused and roam world more than 10 years alone? Which a Shah jahan or Salim cannot afford to do as they have to take care of empire go to wars have to protect empire etc. Same for napoleon etc

Nor after marriage anuj bothered to check where is Malvika? Which men could not do in 16th century may be even if they wanted to go majnu for life?

In 16th or 18th century if you go majnu in love and forget your duty people will abuse and get angry at you or laugh such was society than may be. 21st century is more individual think of yourself like an anuj does

True Love is not a Single Emotion but is a MIX of EMOTIONS ..

True Love consists

Respect, Transparency, Understanding, Affection, Friendship, Being Non- Judgemental, Acceptance and Trust towards other Person..

Originally posted by: vivacious

True Love is not a Single Emotion but is a MIX of EMOTIONS ..

True Love consists

Respect, Transparency, Understanding, Affection, Friendship, Being Non- Judgemental, Acceptance and Trust towards other Person..

Yes but along with that you must not be lusting to have physical or emotional realtion with others too

May be that love can be called pure love that you sacrificed your physical needs for your love too

which anuj and toshu both did not do

Its not like anuj is some emperor or king who has to give heir at any cost as duty

so why he slept with all those woman thats actually not eternal love as decipted in serial

anupama was forced to marry by mother but anuj had no force to sleep with others from parents society etc he did of own will that means his love was not so pure too

So once spouse dies many men do not marry stay alone in wifes memory

thats true love

i know a person his wife died at 39 years he stayed alone with his kids till 82 when he died of covid last year

his kids left him after studies to other places but he stayed alone for 25 to 30 years no kids no wife no parents i mean alone even at very old age

thats true love you can say to wife

not a joke to stay alone 30 years of your life without parents wife or kids or anyone alone doing all house work paying bills tax going to bank etc alone still many such decent hubby are there who took love seriously

thats the kind of love and respect for your lover or spouse thats called real true love

Many men do it

May be after 1980s born this kind of love is rare or do not exist at all

None in the Serial “Anupama” loved other person Truly..

Be it Kinjal Toshu

Baa Bapuji

Vanraj Kavya

Anuj Anu

Anupama’s one side “so called love” towards Vanraj before marrying Anuj

I don’t know why people give so much importance to “SEX”

Wife and Husband Make Love

There are certain moments where you cannot express what you feel in words.. body speaks then with a Hug or Kiss..

When two people love each other so much and wanted to be one soul, two bodies they make love..

A gift like Shirt, Car, Jewelry can be gifted by anybody any number of times.. But Virginity is something you can gift to only one person.. so that person should be someone special.. why not it be a life partner whom you are gonna spend your entire life?? Isn’t that person really special?

To me, Making Love is Divine.. You do it to express how much you love the other person..

SEX is Nothing..

It is nothing but an Emotion like Anger

Wise, Matured people have a control on Anger and so with SEX

Animals don’t make Love.. They do SEX

Humans can make love but sadly most of the humans choose to be animals in this aspect.

Originally posted by: vivacious

None in the Serial “Anupama” loved other person Truly..

Be it Kinjal Toshu

Baa Bapuji

Vanraj Kavya

Anuj Anu

Anupama’s one side “so called love” towards Vanraj before marrying Anuj

I don’t know why people give so much importance to “SEX”

Wife and Husband Make Love

There are certain moments where you cannot express what you feel in words.. body speaks then with a Hug or Kiss..

When two people love each other so much and wanted to be one soul, two bodies they make love..

A gift like Shirt, Car, Jewelry can be gifted by anybody any number of times.. But Virginity is something you can gift to only one person.. so that person should be someone special.. why not it be a life partner whom you are gonna spend your entire life?? Isn’t that person really special?

To me, Making Love is Divine.. You do it to express how much you love the other person..

SEX is Nothing..

It is nothing but an Emotion like Anger

Wise, Matured people have a control on Anger and so with SEX

Animals don’t make Love.. They do SEX

Humans can make love but sadly most of the humans choose to be animals in this aspect.

Exactly so why still anuj after One night stands and affairs is put on pedestal

even toshu did same because he could not have kinjal he did with others but after marraige

how is betraying before marraige by sleeping with 20 ok but not ok to sleep with one after marraige? Is that not wrong too if you truly love someone as anuj claims

anuj did not get anupama so did with 10 to 20 girls in USA

so whys he showing so much attitude to toshu as if hes satyavan

hes done same as toshu after anupama married another man

how would all those 10 to 20 girls anuj had fling with may be diff from a anupama or kinjal or malvika or toshu current girlfriend? i want to know

In those 20 he slept or had fling 3 may have truly loved him were expecting him to take realtion forward or marry him but were betrayed only no

Or are we saying only indian women feel betrayed not american women they take commitment and love causually

did anuj tell them i love only anupama can never marry you yet want fling or sleep with you and they all agreed

you think usa women are fools and taken for granted?

vanraj anuj or samar have no right to question toshu among men

only bapuji and mamaji have rights as they never had affairs in life

anuj was so furious when vanraj was having affair with malvika but he himself had fling with 20 when still in love with anupama yet says hes meera

No parent forced him or put gun to have relationships with all those women he did as rebound to take revege on anupama for marrying vanraj for losing her he removed that anger o those women by having casual flings

men in ego do such things after break up to take revenge on exs or lovers etc

so hows anuj a saint and toshu a demon incarnate?

if anupama truly had brains she would ask anuj that you love me like meera but had flings with so many, dont you think you destroyed many other womens mental health and life by such flings n first place. Few may never love or marry again

Why are we saying that its ok to sleep with 20 and still be called great lover

While toshu slept with one and being thrown off house(yes he should be but vanraj anuj are bigger frauds than a toshu they destroyed many more women life if you think correctly

ideally they should shut their mouths and stand quietly as they have done more kaands than toshu

even anupama should shut her mouth as she is tom toying with ex husband and his parents and siblings etc everyday

only rakhi or kinjal should speak or dolly may be and mamaji and bapuji

Originally posted by: myviewprem

We have various forms of love and infidelity in anupama

Like vanraj loving one woman after another from college till Malvika days for business empire. Its obivous this guy does not love anyone in life and can dump any woman if better one comes along for his profits and benefits. He dumped anupama for MBA Kavya and Kavya for super millionaire Malvika

Samar love where dumped Nandini and threw her engagement ring on floor only because she said lets live seperate from Sahhs because how her masi is treated. Many may think Samar is great human but not really, in 21st century all live as individual family only after wedding if they are financially good off.

Toshu love where all he wants is physical needs to be satisfied by his woman.

But most baffling is Anuj kapadia love. He sauys he worships anupama like Godesses but says he had flings and relationships with woman in USA. First we must understad in USA prom dates start in high schol and there physical relationship before marraige is not considered bad its common. But still is anuj love to anupama real so great as may be Romeo Juliet or Majnu Laila etc

If anuj loved anupama so much how did he date others and get physical with them in first place. Is getting physical with another man or woman before wedding ok and not considered as betrayal to future hubby or wife. There was a time virginity of woman before marriage was considered compulsory and still is in asia country before marriage. So is it ok for anuj to sleep with 10 woman ahve affair with 4 than say i am in love with anupama not you to those woman and walk off.

Yes everyone may say anuj was not committed to anupama in marraige and no scope. But if a girl is expected to not surrender herself to any man other than hubby why different rules for man? Imagine anupama slept with 5 dated 10 men would anuj still have same image of anupama in his eyes and respect her. Why different rules for man and woman?

Here i can say look at famous love stories in history, there lovers go to great lengths like dying for each other but not forgetting and moving on. Or staying alone after their man or woman marries off to another. Usually its parents who force them to marry or circumstances.

If we take history Shah jahan loved Mumtaz Mahal so muchthat he never came out of his room for 6 months mourning her death. Than why did he marry another woman after her death? Is Shah Jahan love still so great to Mumtaz after he married another woman after her death? Is anuj love still so pure and great that he dates 4 sleeps with 20 but says i love only anu. If he love anu than how he had so many flings? Is it not betrayal to anupama love?

In same history if we again go back Salim loved anarkali but after her death married 20 woman had 6 to 7 kids from them. So did he truly love anarkali that he was ready to challenge his father Akbar who was against this? (lets forget its real story or not?) Or can we say a future emperor cannot go crazy in love and not marry like an anuj kapadia as he has to take care of his empire. If he goes mad in love like a majnu where will next emperor like Shah jahan arrive from. Its more of a job to give heir to throne thats why most royal even today marry some princess than love of their life? (like Charles to diana as she has royal links).

So may be a future emperor or emperor cannot have same kind of love as commoner and act majnu kind for long or enemies abound and endanger his empire. Luckily anuj has no such compulsions in life? Nether he took responsibility of Malvika his sister after his parents death seriously he just married her to some brute let her get abused and roam world more than 10 years alone? Which a Shah jahan or Salim cannot afford to do as they have to take care of empire go to wars have to protect empire etc. Same for napoleon etc

Nor after marriage anuj bothered to check where is Malvika? Which men could not do in 16th century may be even if they wanted to go majnu for life?

In 16th or 18th century if you go majnu in love and forget your duty people will abuse and get angry at you or laugh such was society than may be. 21st century is more individual think of yourself like an anuj does

Anuj didn't cheat anupama neither any other women. He had given up all hopes of getting her.

Dear,

I already mentioned it in a post that No one in the Shah house has a right to Confront Toshu apart from Rakhi Dave and Kinjal.

1. Vanraj and Kavya did the same thing and everyone in the family accepted them, what message are you giving to your Next Gen Children..

2. Anuj is a WASTE fellow.. it’s better not to talk about him.. Anuj never loved Anupama truly, hence he had One Night Stands.. Anuj is just obsessed with her.

Anuj is as worse as Vanraj.. He never took care of his Sister Mukku and I see no gratitude in him towards his Foster Parents who gave him good education and status in Society..

When he can be friendly with Vanraj, Why should he be upset with Toshu?
Infact Anuj also fulfilled his needs just like Toshu.. If he truly loves Anupama.. it wouldn’t be possible for him to sleep with other women.. he slept to satisfy his needs.. As simple as that!!

And who is Anuj to talk in Toshu’s Personal Life??

TOSHU is DEFINITELY WRONG and Only RAkHI DAVE has a RIGHT TO CONFRONT HIM..

I’ve never seen Kinjal being good to Toshu in the first place..

3. Anupama could have handled this situation in a very better way..

Who in the world, Tells a Shocking News to a Recovering Patient in the Most Dramatic Way Possible..

Anupama just wants to become MAHAAN

4. If I’m in place of Anupama, I would have confronted Toshu and had given him 3 days time to come clean with Kinjal, if not on 4th day.. I would be revealing the truth to her..

It’s always better to know the truth from your spouse than knowing it from third person.. It hurts the person more.

5. No matter, what a big crime it is.. one shouldn’t be revealing it infront of so many people.. By doing so, the person who committed mistake will take it on his Ego and go into Defensive mode Instead of repenting and feeling guilty.

Dear, true love exists. But please don't expect that in our ITV. Here they simply changes the meaning of Love and emotion into Lust or revenge.

Originally posted by: Aarz00_19

Anuj didn't cheat anupama neither any other women. He had given up all hopes of getting her.

Well, Didn’t Anupama lashed out at Paritosh that he cheated Sanjana too.. “You might not be harboring any feelings but that gal might have had feelings for you??”

The same goes with Anuj’s ONS also..

Originally posted by: vivacious

Well, Didn’t Anupama lashed out at Paritosh that he cheated Sanjana too.. “You might not be harboring any feelings but that gal might have had feelings for you??”

The same goes with Anuj’s ONS also..

Yeah. I made a separate topic regarding this. even I feel ki itna good looking, rich ,upar se dil ka saaf Banda kisko nahi chahiye hoga? Definitely many might have fallen in love with him but he didn't