Kinjal doesn't deserve this hate - Page 4

How can u say it's partially true? It's just an assumption. Plus, everyone says that Kinjal is emotionally weak. It's just a result of Rakhi's unavailability for her child as a mother. When Kinjal was a kid, she didn't receive the emotionally support from her mom, that's y she comes off as emotionally dependent on people.

Plus Rakhi doesn't have the decency to respect people. It's her nature to insult people. Today she is speaking for women, when she always taunt Anupama who is her daughter's biggest supporter. She always knew that Anupama loves Kinjal, but she never respected Anupama. She never respected babuji either.

However, her concern for her daughter in regards to toxix Shahs was always right. These toxic Shahs doesn't deserve someone like Kinjal.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Please, on this I have no arguments. Toshu is a total useless fellow. Everyone should be ashamed of him. But Anupama saying that uspe apne parvarish pe garv tha or sharam hoh rahi hai doesn't mean only she raised him. Aise toh everyone says that I thought I did a good job raising you. That's just a way of speaking.

I am not saying she is the only one who is responsible for toshu . All I am saying is why she is so delusional that usko apne parvarish par tab tak garv tha jab tak betrayal sa amne nahi aya tha !

Toshu ne apni khud ki maa ko characterless kaha tha usi din uska garv toot kyun nahi gaya ? !!! Toshu jab apni biwi ke bina he penthouse mai rehne chala gaya tab uska garv kyun nahi toota? Toshu ke every male chauvinist actions par anupama ka garv kyun nahi toota ?!

Betrayal stage dekhne ke baad anupama ko realise hua ki uski parvarish garv karne ke layak kabhi nahi thi ?!

Here I am using anupama ki parvarish because that dialog had been spoken by her and she was also projecting herself . Agar vanraj ya baa ne woh dialog bola hota toh unko bhi mere comment mai add kar leti.

Yes, I agree on this. There is nothing in Toshu to be garv about. Ghinona animal hai Toshu even before and after betrayal.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Yes, I agree on this. There is nothing in Toshu to be garv about. Ghinona animal hai Toshu even before and after betrayal.

Aap ne comment mai bola ki anupama did what all mother does usi baat se mai convince nahi ho saki that koi maa kabhi apne bacche ke dimag ke hisab se chal kar bacche ki parvarish nahi karti aur itna sab kuch apni aakho se samne experience lene ke baad delusion mai reh kar lambe Time tak apni parvarish par garv nahi karti .

Originally posted by: Jefen

Give Kinjal some time to find a job. She has just delivered and received the horrible news of betrayal. Rakhi wasnt availat for her as a kid so obviously she doesn't feel attached to her. Plus the recent episode of Rakhi pushing her towards Toshu and not standing up for her has made it even more difficult for her to trust Rakhi that's why she wants Anupama. And yes, life is hard for working women. But dont we expect all parents to spend time with their children? Offices also encourage employees to spend time with their children. Working men are also encouraged these days to spend time with their children. If we r defending working women for not speding time with their children, we have to accept all working men and women not speding time with their children as normal and sympathize with them. It's one thing to be career oriented and earn and another thing to give children time. Children didn't ask to be in the world, we bring them in and it is our responsibility, both to provide then with material needs and emotional support. The dependency of Kinjal on Anupama for emotional support is a result of the lack of emotional support by her own mom when she was a kid. It is said that women who received enough support emotionally as a kid become emotionally independent.

I will give her enough time to find a job. Then see how much time she can give to her kid. Not all offices give ample facilities to working moms. Nobody enjoys working in an office, leaving kids behind. My mom was also a working mom, and when I was a kid, I craved her presence and wanted her to leave work. But with time, I have realized how many sacrifices she made to raise me and give me a better life. Kinjal is a grown-up lady. Can't she understand that it was not possible for her mom to give her time like a housewife? And if Anu gave ample time to her kids, then why don't her two kids have any mental connection with her? Working mothers or housewives both care for their children in their own way. And a child accusing his or her mother of giving less time or being a 12th-pass housewife shows how ungrateful they are. No mother is perfect. That does not justify a grown woman going to stay at her MIL's husband's house and upsetting her mother. How would she feel if Pari did the same to her?

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I will give her enough time to find a job. Then see how much time can she give to her kid. Not all offices give ample facilities to working mom. Nobody enjoys working in office leaving kids behind. My mom was also a working mom and when I was a kid I craved her presence and wanted her to leave job. But with time I have realized how much sacrifices she made to raise me and give me a better life. Kinjal is a grown up lady. Can't she understand that it was not possible for her mom to give her time like a housewife? And Anu gave ample time to her kids then why don't two kids have any mental connection with her. Working mother or housewife mother's both care for their child in their own way. And a child accusing his/ her mother for giving less time or being a 12th pass housewife shoes how ungrateful they are. No mother is perfect. That does not justify a grown up woman going to stay at her MIL's husband's house upsetting her mother. How would she feel if Pari does the same to her?

Exactly no mother is perfect! It’s extremely wrong to complain about your mother without any strong background or history.

Rakhi wasn't working in any office. She had her own business. I am not accusing working moms. My mom was a working mom, and my dad too. Plus I am a working woman too. The problem is not being available for the children. It need not be always. Sometimes, parents have to leave their children disappointed. Agreed!!! But too much is not good and maybe Rakhi was too much. She and Kinjal could never establish that connection. Today, she wants to be with Anupama coz she has that connection with her. She wants to be with someone who can give her the support and understanding she needs now. Rakhi supported Toshu, so obviously, Kinjal will feel insecure.

And about Toshu and Pakhi. These two are nobody's friend. They are selfish. They would stab anyone to fulfill their selfish ends.

However, it's high time that Kinjal appreciates Rakhi too. Rakhi did not hurt her intentionally. Maybe she just couldn't prioritise things. She must have thought that she was doing it all for her daughter but failed to realise that her daughter needs her time too, not just money. I have personally heard children say this that when I needed my parents, they weren't available for me so I grew up all alone or with maids or with someone else. Some children get into drugs and other intoxicants coz of that. Some get into unhealthy relationships when parents aren't available. There has to be a balance. No parent is perfect but priority matters.

So Kinjal who is the only one who lived her own childhood needs a history or background of her own childhood to make a conclusion. Rakhi couldn't connect with Kinjal. Even when Kinjal needed her the most, she couldn't understand what she needs. She pushed her further away by supporting Toshu in his infidelity.

There is difference between intentionally not to give time to heer daughter and not giving time to children because that u r so helpless that u have so tight schedule that u want o.give to time to ur children but due to hectic tight schedule u r not able to give time to children

Here I think rakhi intentionally did not give personally time to her daughter ki Haan bus kinjal ko melange menage imported toy dilwa diya imported dress dilwa dya kinjal ise mein khush rahegi aur main chain se apna job kar sakti hoon

Originally posted by: Jefen

So Kinjal who is the only one who lived her own childhood needs a history or background of her own childhood to make a conclusion. Rakhi couldn't connect with Kinjal. Even when Kinjal needed her the most, she couldn't understand what she needs. She pushed her further away by supporting Toshu in his infidelity.

There was no heart to heart conversation in between kinjal and Rakhi post toshu kand revelation.

Kinjal ke Kapadia house jaane ke reason ko justify karne ke liye writer ko rakhi-kinjal ka ek heart to heart conversation dikhana chahiye tha but scene was diverted to anupama’s social message speech.

Agar social message speech ko dikhane ke badle on track storyline par reh kar kinjal - Rakhi ka heart to heart conversation dikhaya hota toh 6 din ki bacchi ko le kar naye logo ke bich Kapadia house jaane ka kinjal ka reason bhi Samaj aata.

Anupama sabka screen space kha jati hai isiliye toh Maine aisa post bhi banaya tha. Track ke according Jo dikhana zaruri hota hai woh kuch nahi dikhate aur Sab focus anupama ki social message speech par divert kar dete hai. Thoda toh track ke hisab se characters ko screen space dedo.