Kinjal doesn't deserve this hate - Page 3

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ab anupama ko Khichdi.day rakhna chahiye

Anupama wohi karti hai jo bacche chahte hai. Anupama apne baccho ke dimag se chalti hai so khichdi day kabhi nahi ayega seeing pakhi and toshu 😆

How is Kinjal planning to raise Pari? She does not want to stay with Toshu. Will she take money from Anupa Maa and Kavya to raise her baby? If she has an ounce of self-respect, she won't take anyone's money to raise her daughter. she will earn for her daughter. I just want to see how, after working 10 hours a day and traveling 3 hours to and from the office, she can give time to her daughter. It's easy to blame working mothers for not spending time with kids, but it's hard to understand how many sacrifices a working mother has to make to keep a roof over her kid's head and provide food for his plate. And yes, Kinjal loves materialistic things. She went abroad for studies; she does not repeat her clothes and accessories; she puts tons of makeup on her face. Where does so much money come from? Rakhi may be a bad human being, but Baa is also not a saint. Still, Kinjal is living with Baa and making tea for her. Why can't she do the same for her mother? And how long is she going to cry "Mummy Mummy" like a 2-year-old? Does she not realize her mommy has other kids, a husband, and a career?

I have sympathies for her, but it's difficult to like an ungrateful daughter and an inconsiderate daughter-in-law. Kinjal is the first woman on Earth who does not want to live in her Mayka after childbirth.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

How is Kinjal planning to raise Pari? She does not want to stay with Toshu. Will she take money from AnupaMaa and Kavya to raise her baby? If she has an ounce of self respect she won't take anyone's money to raise her daughter. She will earn for her daughter. I just want to see how by working 10 hours a day, travelling for 3 hours to and from office, she can give time to her daughter. It's easy to blame working mothers for not spending time with kids, but it's hard to understand how much sacrifices a working mother has to make to keep a roof above the kids head and bring foods to it's plate. And yes Kinjal loves materialistic things. She went abroad for studies, she does not repeat her clothes and accessories, she puts tons of makeup on her face. Where does so much money come from? Rakhi may be a bad human but Baa is also not some saint. Still Kinjal is living with Baa, making tea for her. Why can't she do the same for her mother? And how long is she gonna cry "Mummy Mummy" like a 2 years old. Does not she realize her Mummy has other kids, a husband and a career.

I have sympathies for her but it's difficult to like an ungrateful daughter and inconsiderate daughter in law. Kinjal is the first woman on earth who does not want to live in her Mayka after childbirth.

Haha lol yes she is the first woman on the planet who doesn’t want to live in her mayka after child birth and also who is running away from luxuries 😆

Delivery ke baad Muje toh koi kitni bhi maids de de, kitne helper de mai toh sab luxuries and helpers le lu😆

As a working mother, mera baccha sambhalne ke liye helper mil jaye toh bahot badi baat hai and baccha sambhalne ke liye army bhi kum pad jaye itne kaam hote hai chote bacche ke.

Kinjal ka baccha sirf 6 din ka hai. Career toh chodo Muje lagta hai postpartum depression ki patient hai kinjal isiliye mummy mummy karti sasuma ke naye sasural rehne gayi hai 6 din ki bacchi ko le kar.

Hamare Yaha 6 din ke bacche ke sath ladki either maayke rehti hai or sasural mai rehti hai. Aise kisi bhi nahi family mai 6 din ke bacche ko le kar rehne kaun jata hai ! 🤮🤮🤮

BTW in our home we celebrate Khichdi day on Saturday we eat Khichdi on Saturday . It is auspicious to eat Khichdi on Saturday but we don't eat Khichdi Thursday And tue

In our side we like to eat Kadhi on Thursday hum log generally Thursday ko hi Khadhi banate hai

So Thursday is generally khadhi day

And Saturday is generally Khichdi day

If Kinjal is complaining that her mother din give her time, it means something, right? She must have felt left out and Rakhi might have been emotionally unavailable for her. She doesn't insult Rakhi but speaks against her when Rakhi insults people around her. Everytime we see Rakhi commenting and insulting people. As a daughter, Kinjal would obviously correct her mother. It is not about being 24/7 available for the children. There are many homemakers who have no job but are not emotionally available for their children. They are always busy with their work here and there.

And this Rakhi has always been disrespectful towards others. I still remember that one instance when she made Baa and babuji pick up beads from the floor when she was sitting on baa's jhula. Which daughter would be happy with a mother who only insults her in-laws. Imagine a scenario where Anupama goes to Pakhi's sasural and always insulta people there. Rakhi has never been a good person also. Just recently he comes off as a woman whose hearts aches for the right reasons.

The way people are blaming Kinjal for marrying Toshu is highly wrong.

It's like saying, that if a girl's mother has told her not to go out, and she does and something happens to her,so the girl is to blamed for it,is it?

Kinjal's perception went wrong, like everyone's does, but that doesn't mean what was done to her was her fault or she deserved it in any case.

And as for Rakhi being a good mother, she loves her daughter yes, but she is not a good human being.

Just because someone loves me,is good to me,but rude and bad with others, doesn't make that person a good character and as a loved one it's important to call out on such behaviour.

Please, on this I have no arguments. Toshu is a total useless fellow. Everyone should be ashamed of him. But Anupama saying that uspe apne parvarish pe garv tha or sharam hoh rahi hai doesn't mean only she raised him. Aise toh everyone says that I thought I did a good job raising you. That's just a way of speaking.

Ideally jub kinjal keh rahi thi not to disturb her marriage life to Ideally rakhi ko khuch time me liye kinjal ko apne marriage life mein chod Dena chahiye tha to deal her marriage with her own self

Thoda umke marriage ko time Dena chahiya tha and rakhi fault is that rakhi did no give time to kinjal And toshu marriage

Haan marriage mein log Cheating karte ba log dowry ke liye bahu ko torture karte hai but aise Shura mein koi Halla nahi karta

They try to make understand each other in peaceful manner they try to give time And space to each other ki ho sakta hai hai cheejein Bina kisi tamasha aur Halla ke solve ho jaaye

Originally posted by: Jefen

If Kinjal is complaining that her mother din give her time, it means something, right? She must have felt left out and Rakhi might have been emotionally unavailable for her. She doesn't insult Rakhi but speaks against her when Rakhi insults people around her. Everytime we see Rakhi commenting and insulting people. As a daughter, Kinjal would obviously correct her mother. It is not about being 24/7 available for the children. There are many homemakers who have no job but are not emotionally available for their children. They are always busy with their work here and there.

And this Rakhi has always been disrespectful towards others. I still remember that one instance when she made Baa and babuji pick up beads from the floor when she was sitting on baa's jhula. Which daughter would be happy with a mother who only insults her in-laws. Imagine a scenario where Anupama goes to Pakhi's sasural and always insulta people there. Rakhi has never been a good person also. Just recently he comes off as a woman whose hearts aches for the right reasons.

Yes it means something if kinjal is complaining that her mother didn’t give her time but kinjal looks mentally clingy after marrying toshu so it’s difficult to feel her complain completely true . It can be partially true but not completely , seeing rakhi’s love for her daughter since day 1 of the show.

Since day 1 I have seen rakhi has a eye to see through people’s true character. Rakhi never liked vanraj and Kavya and she was the one because of whom vanraj’s affair came out in open. Rakhi insulted vanraj and Kavya a lot I like her insults towards them. Rakhi knows baa, pakhi and toshu’s real character too so she taunted them along with vanraj and Kavya. Rakhi never liked anupama’s doormat personality so she insulted anupama just like here members doesn’t like anupama’s certain traits.

I have never seen Rakhi insults random people except shahs because she knows ki kinjal ki sasural kitni uncultured family hai and waha bahu ko kaise treat kiya jata hai . Log yahi sochege ki jab ladke ki maa ki halat ki si maid se kum nahi hai toh aisi family humari Beti ko bhi maid jaise he bana kar rakhegi.

Kya impression ayega aise sausral ka jaha ladka baap ki gf ko as a mother introduce karega apni honewali saas ke samne ?!

Kya impression ayega aise sasural ka jaha ladke ki maa ki aukat maid se bhi gayi guzri ho.

Kya impression ayega aise sasural ka jaha samdhan khud apne samdhi ka affair bahar layegi !
Har insult ke piche uncultured family ke kiye hue kand responsible hai.

Give Kinjal some time to find a job. She has just delivered and received the horrible news of betrayal. Rakhi wasnt availat for her as a kid so obviously she doesn't feel attached to her. Plus the recent episode of Rakhi pushing her towards Toshu and not standing up for her has made it even more difficult for her to trust Rakhi that's why she wants Anupama. And yes, life is hard for working women. But dont we expect all parents to spend time with their children? Offices also encourage employees to spend time with their children. Working men are also encouraged these days to spend time with their children. If we r defending working women for not speding time with their children, we have to accept all working men and women not speding time with their children as normal and sympathize with them. It's one thing to be career oriented and earn and another thing to give children time. Children didn't ask to be in the world, we bring them in and it is our responsibility, both to provide then with material needs and emotional support. The dependency of Kinjal on Anupama for emotional support is a result of the lack of emotional support by her own mom when she was a kid. It is said that women who received enough support emotionally as a kid become emotionally independent.