Kinjal doesn't deserve this hate - Page 6

The point I made with not being available during delivery is that owing to her work schedules Rakhi must have made Kinjal feel neglected as a child that's y she is not emotionally attached. Plus Kinjal leaving Shah house is not for some regular women's post-delivery issue. She is leaving coz she was betrayed and living there is not helping her. She herself needs recovery. In fact, she is trying to be strong for her kid that's y she is seeking help. She isn't going to some stranger. She is gng to Anupama and Anuj. All this time we have seen and we know that Kinjal trusts Anupama a lot. If she trusts her so much, it's normal for her to look for Anupama. She is also going to Anupama so that Anupama doesn't have to come to Shah house again and again. She isn't communicating with Rakhi coz she doesn't trust her as much as she trusts Anupama. Now we can't force someone to trust anyone. Trust is earned and Rakhi already broke her trust again and again and the recent supporting Toshu is way too much.

Lag raha ab writer log aise track dikha ku phir se anupama trp ka record todne ki planning kar fahe hai

Bus bapuji ka ema dikha do phir trp kya jabardast boost karti hai

Bapuji ka ema mein to celebrate karoongi aur kahoongi baa ko dhokha de kar aapne bahut bada punya Kiya

The point is not that Rakhi doesn't love her daughter or cares enough for her delivery. The point is that she wasn't available for Kinjal when she needed her. Delivery ka we can understand coz it can happen anytime. But think ki similar incidents must have happened when Kinjal was a kid too. Usko maa chahiye hogi and she wasn't available.

Don't understand when it is rakhi private coaching centre and more over she is owner of private coaching centre she is not working under any employee so why is it hard for to take some holiday for her daughter .look like rakhi even Don take break even in Sunday also

Originally posted by: Jefen

The point I made with not being available during delivery is that owing to her work schedules Rakhi must have made Kinjal feel neglected as a child that's y she is not emotionally attached. Plus Kinjal leaving Shah house is not for some regular women's post-delivery issue. She is leaving coz she was betrayed and living there is not helping her. She herself needs recovery. In fact, she is trying to be strong for her kid that's y she is seeking help. She isn't going to some stranger. She is gng to Anupama and Anuj. All this time we have seen and we know that Kinjal trusts Anupama a lot. If she trusts her so much, it's normal for her to look for Anupama. She is also going to Anupama so that Anupama doesn't have to come to Shah house again and again. She isn't communicating with Rakhi coz she doesn't trust her as much as she trusts Anupama. Now we can't force someone to trust anyone. Trust is earned and Rakhi already broke her trust again and again and the recent supporting Toshu is way too much.

This is my problem. They are not showing prominent ground for kinjal’s actions.

Kinjal apni mother par trust kare ya na kare that is secondary. Itna basic decency toh hota hai na ki apni maa ko apne choices and decisions ka reason bata kar action lo.

Anupama ke sath kitna bhi comfort ho , comfort se uper sahi - galat jaisa bhi kuch hota hai. Kis tarah se woh 6 din ki bacchi ko le kar Kapadia house rehne gayi woh bahot zyada galat lag raha hai.

Why there is no communication in between kinjal and Rakhi post delivery? Why there is no flashback of kinjal’s childhood where she felt she needed rakhi the most but she was not there ? Sirf baar baar ek he line bolte rehne se kuch nahi hota ki mom ne time nahi diya. Jab communication he nahi hota toh yeh dialogs meaningless dikhta hai.

All said and done, if makers can whitewash this animal, Vanraj then they should also let Kinjal appreciate Rakhi now. But I think they have started Rakhi change for some weeks now isiliye people are emphatizing with Rakhi.

Originally posted by: Jefen

All said and done, if makers can whitewash this animal, Vanraj then they should also let Kinjal appreciate Rakhi now. But I think they have started Rakhi change for some weeks now isiliye people are emphatizing with Rakhi.

Exactly! If kinjal can respect vanraj then why not her mother rakhi ?

If kinjal can understand vanraj’s pain about losing his children to Anuj , why she can’t understand her mother’s pain about losing her?

Kinjal Rakhi ko bahot dhutkarti hai uske piche jo bhi flashback hai Woh makers ko dikhana padega because Kinjal looks extremely ungrateful when she can understand animal like vanraj’s feelings but can’t understand her own mother ‘s feelings.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I will give her enough time to find a job. Then see how much time she can give to her kid. Not all offices give ample facilities to working moms. Nobody enjoys working in an office, leaving kids behind. My mom was also a working mom, and when I was a kid, I craved her presence and wanted her to leave work. But with time, I have realized how many sacrifices she made to raise me and give me a better life. Kinjal is a grown-up lady. Can't she understand that it was not possible for her mom to give her time like a housewife? And if Anu gave ample time to her kids, then why don't her two kids have any mental connection with her? Working mothers or housewives both care for their children in their own way. And a child accusing his or her mother of giving less time or being a 12th-pass housewife shows how ungrateful they are. No mother is perfect. That does not justify a grown woman going to stay at her MIL's husband's house and upsetting her mother. How would she feel if Pari did the same to her?

Sorry, she has never acted her age either too mature while justifying Vannu's emotions or behaving like cry baby.

Yes, before marriage she was portrayed as a strong independent lady, who supported Anupama for dance classes, driving, and divorce. The sudden change in her arc is not digestible.

No parent is perfect and they can't give time and facilities both together. for this , kids argue become angry with their parents but not starting hating or insult parents.

Her going to Kapadia mansion. A person can do such thing only she/he has the option. otherwise, nothing is seen except parents.

Sometimes, even parents do not support ....She is lucky that she has supportive mother, strong financial background, is herself independent.

I want to share experience of my first cousin who left the her sasural with 3-year kid after you can say long battle. she is educated ( MBA) but was not doing job. Her mother is not alive, father bed-ridden, died last month. she did not want to be burden on her bhayia- bhabhi. so living with chacha-chachi. now, she wanted to enroll him in good school, not govt. school. For admission and fees, she needs money. somehow, got him enrolled in school. Taking English tuitions. now her ques to me was Didi, how would I mange kid and finance both. shall I leave him in day-boarding, they are expensive.can I get some part-time job but will I be able to earn so much money in part-time job. what should I answer?

One more point-- I am not in favour of toshu and and dont say what he did to Kinju is forgivable. infidelity or emotional cheating by a man or woman has an everlasting impact on victim along with kids, not only results in profound emotional damage but damage self-esteem also ,and It even has ripple effect to other people living in the home, especially children.

but I have not any sympathy for kinju as I am not able to connect with this character.

By the logic that kinju baby gives for her mother, when was she with her husband. Marriage is a bond bw husband -wife first, after that other relatives.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Atleat kinjal and anupama are not dependent on their mother .they don't behave like pakhi and toshu waise to anupama ki insult karte hai aur Jub khud musibat mein hote hai to yeh anupama ke pass help lene Chale jaate hai

Both anupama aur kinjal don't change their priority with their own mother like toshu and pakhi do with their own mother

If Kinjal and anupama not helping to her mother they are also not even taking help from their own mother and don't run to mother house for their own problem like pakhi use to do

Yeh pakhi toshu to ek kaam nahi uthate pakhi is not even focusing on study nor she is earning anything same go to toshu but attitude to dekho pakhi aur toshu ki

Atleat kinjal anupama are self independent

Who made kanjal independent.it was rakhi who provides everything to her. Anupama and shah's made loosers like toshu samar and pakhi.

Anupama is independent because she was not left with any choice so she opened dance academy but now that is close and she is working in anuj business. If anuj was not there than ......

Now kinjal will go out for work and left Arya with anupama.So now also anupama will do babysitting for her and become dependent on anuj.

Agar kinjal ne padhai nahi ki hoti then how can rakhi made her independent one can give money bit padhna khud padhta hai .to aaj kinjal self independent bani hai kyonki use khud padhai mein interest tha

Agar Anuj nahi aata to ..anupama has already teaching online dance and she already working as s.u.p.w teacher even before Anuj come .Agar Anuj nahi aata to bhi anupama apne online dance class ko expand karti hai