Kinjal doesn't deserve this hate - Page 2

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Who said that they don't want anupama burger coffee

Don't u remember when anupama going to live at Kanta house after then toshu telling ki use subah raat raat mein coffee Kaun dega agar maa Ghar mein nahi rahegi

And anupama woh khuch Kiya apne bachon ke liye Jo uske bachon ko pasand tha .Jo anupama ke bache chahte they wohi anupama ne Kiya

Kam se Kam anupama ne 25 year tuk apne bachon ke wish ke according unko khush karne ki koshish I but still they never value her

Rakhi is bad mother indeed

Jo baccho ko pasand tha , jo bacche chahte the woh Anupama ne kiya isiliye toh anupama ke teen mai se do bacche ghatiya , nikkame aur besharam bann gaye .

Tumne khud he bata diya jab maa bacche ke dimag se chale , bacche jaisa chahe waisa kare tab acche kaise bann jate hai.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Atleat kinjal and anupama are not dependent on their mother .they don't behave like pakhi and toshu waise to anupama ki insult karte hai aur Jub khud musibat mein hote hai to yeh anupama ke pass help lene Chale jaate hai

Both anupama aur kinjal don't change their priority with their own mother like toshu and pakhi do with their own mother

If Kinjal and anupama not helping to her mother they are also not even taking help from their own mother and don't run to mother house for their own problem like pakhi use to do

Yeh pakhi toshu to ek kaam nahi uthate pakhi is not even focusing on study nor she is earning anything same go to toshu but attitude to dekho pakhi aur toshu ki

Atleat kinjal anupama are self independent

Are we watching different show or what?

Kisne kaha kinjal independent hai ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bichare anupama ke pati se pucho ki kinjal kitni independent hai 🤣🤣🤣

Kinjal isn't as independent as she should be but this woman is way ahead in her career than her husband.

It isn't right to put all the blame on Anupama for the way Toshu and Pakhi turned out to be. Look at Baa and Vanraj, it is their influence and the largely their own choices for the way they turned out to be. Now we can't blame Rakhi for Kinjal's decision to marry Toshu. Everyone is a product of their environment and their own convictions. Anupama did what all mothers do, maybe even more. But she forgot that snakes are snakes.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Yes, Rakhi's sacrifices are there. She didn't work so hard with the intention to hurt Kinjal but to provide for her. But she failed to maintain the balance. Kinjal has every right to question her mother why she didn't give her enough time? You think only providing money to buy things is love? Aise toh everything will be so easy nah? Don't give time to ur children and just earn. If your child is sad, give her money to watch some movies and cheer up. If she needs hug, buy her a teddy bear. Rakhi must realise that money doesn't buy affection and money can't feel the emptiness in a person.

Plus, Rakhi hasn't been a good mother after Kinjal's marriage either. She knows that Kinjal lives in that house but she enjoys the conflicts there. She always plots something or the other to ruin her own daughter's marriage. When has she ever advised her daughter to nourish her relationship with her husband and blessed her future? Kinjal went against her mother to marry Toshu but after their marriage, Rakhi shouldn't be trying to ruin her daughter's sasural. It's not important just to be a good mother but also a good human which she isn't.

Plus now that Toshu has cheated on Kinjal, Rakhi is telling her to compromise? She should at least tell her the truth and supported her. She is not giving her the time even to process her thoughts over the betrayal, directly telling her to compromise.

Apni maa ko question karne mai and dusro ko samne baar baar working mother ko taana dene mai bahot fark hota hai.

Kabhi dekha maturity se apne maayke ja kar apni maa se sawal kiya ki kyun ap meri sasuma jaise mera khayal nahi rakhte the 24/7 ?

Jitna bhi writer ne rakhi ko as a mother dikhaya hai usse toh yahi dekha hai ki rakhi apni beti par jaan chidakti hai. Ho sakta hai rakhi ne apni beti ko working hone ke baad bhi jitna ho sake utna pura time diya ho but it’s kinjal’s psychological issue .Writers ne kabhi kinjal ka flashback nahi dikhaya jab rakhi uski bina care kiye office ja rahi ho.

As I said jaise kinjal ne complex situation mai uski maa ke against ja kar bhag kar shaddi karne ka worng decision liya tha waise he rakhi ne bhi complex situation mai dimag bandh kar ke galat decision liye toshu ke sath rehne ka but that doesn’t make her bad mother either.

Kinjal ke bhag jaane ke baad , itne wrong decisions ke baad bhi uski maa ne uska saath nahi choda but kinjal

Ko dekho kitni easily maa ko dhutkarti hai.

Beti ke macchi bazaar jaise uncultured sasural ke jhagde ko enjoy karna is bad trait but THAT DOESN’T MAKE HER BAD MOTHER.

Kinjal was working but they have stop showing kinjal office

I remember when baa said to kinjal ki tum pregame office nahi jaaogi to which anupama told baa ki pregnancy is not disease that she can't go to office

.so going by dialogue kinjal do go office even they Don show kinjal office

But now I think she is on maternity leave

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And pakhi herself like burger .usne to khud burger day fix karke rakha tha isliye anupama pakhi ke liye burger banati thi burger day pe because pakhi want anupama to prepare burger for her on burger day

Wow pakhi ne burger day fix kiya aur uski maa ne hamesha burger day manaya 🤣 Lol yeh koi Independence Day hai jo manaye ja rahe the ! 😆

Lol mera beta aisa pizza day , burger day , noodles day set karega toh mai bana kar nahi khilaugi, khichdi khane ko de dugi 😆

Since she is anupamaaaaa woh bacche ko chahe wohi karne ke chakkar mai burger day, pizza day , cold coffee day kuch bhi celebrate kar sakti hai 🤣🤣🤣

Yes anupama burger day Hota tha shah house mein it was shown in intial episode

Originally posted by: Jefen

It isn't right to put all the blame on Anupama for the way Toshu and Pakhi turned out to be. Look at Baa and Vanraj, it is their influence and the largely their own choices for the way they turned out to be. Now we can't blame Rakhi for Kinjal's decision to marry Toshu. Everyone is a product of their environment and their own convictions. Anupama did what all mothers do, maybe even more. But she forgot that snakes are snakes.

Problem is anupama’s dialog , toshu ka betrayal jab bahar aya tab uska dialog tha ki usko apni parvarish par garv tha !

That means betrayal ke bahara aane tak delusional anupama ko apni parvarish par garv tha !!!! Kis baat ka garv ??! Kis baat ka confidence tha apni parvarish par?!

Please tell me Kis baat ka garv tha anupama ko toshu ki parvarish par till betrayal day ??!

Ab anupama ko Khichdi.day rakhna chahiye