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Posted: 3 years ago

V is out and out evil, pathetic. He is masochistic and loves to be miserable. He loves getting sympathy, claiming self righteousness and mahaanta. He always has excuses ready for everything - blame someone else, claim vaada, duty and how he's not understood.

If he cant move on from Sai, why enter into any marriage with another?! Is marriage a joke for him to fake/make into a compromise?! Is it fair to fake a happy marriage in front of his child when he has residual feelings for Sai. Is it fair to Sai if he gets rid of her memory from CN, marries the woman who ruined her life and violates her last wish. When Sai returns he will be ready with accusations for her but have no valid explanations to offer for his own behavior.

There is literally not one theory that can explain why he married pp even if its "fake" and not registered and not consummated yet.

Theories floating around are-

1. Vinu was found and pp by virtue of birthing him became "mother" so he was asked to marry pp because vinu was attached to her. Well he could have insisted that pp become kaku once he was older. Or he could have sacrificed and become kaka to his child by handing child to pp.

2. To facilitate adoption. He could have married another woman instead of pp or tried as a single parent or accepted that without Sai he cannot be blessed with parenthood. If Sai cant experience motherhood, his punishment is that he can't be father.

3. Mansi dying wish. - mansi should be most upset that pp was cheating her son until and even after death. MB was progressive and compassionate and wanted pp to move on but not with her husband's brother! And if she did also for some twisted reason, he should have refused! He made dying wish to KJ to care for Sai- didn't fulfil that. He violated his wife 's last wish of pp not being in CN. He could've said I'll take care that pp is settled without marriage etc. The least he can do after everything he's erred on , is to not repeat his mistakes. If he agrees that pp can be forgiven, then he should make her move on with someone else. How is it fair to marry pp and bind her to a loveless marriage if he's forgiven her.

4. Family pressure- same reasons as above- makes no sense!

5. Pp mentally ill or suicidal - she needed treatment then, not enabling her delusions.

6. Vinu needed a mother - he has seen enough single parent examples and he had the backing of full family too.

7. Vinu would ask for his mother when older- its better to tell him the truth that his mother is dead. Yes he won't have a mother and would miss that always but he would still have a large loving family. He should raise his child to face the harsh realities of life, celebrate and be grateful for the blessings instead of painting a fake picture of normalcy. How is it fair to show a loveless, fake happy marriage instead of telling him about Sai- hos mother.

So essentially for all the most common reasons cited for this marriage to pp - no explanation is even remotely enough to redeem V or for anyone to sympathize.

Are the audience supposed to pity him when he recalls Sai and looks "sad"while being married to pp?! We might have if he had stayed true to her and been single lifelong, regretted his behavior. If he truly still loves her, he would never even considered getting married to another. But he has done none of these things. He chose to get married to PP of all people. So there's no sympathy or redemption anymore.

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Posted: 3 years ago

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

Thank you... I liked the episode for what it showed but I didn't what it did to V as a character. Horrible writing 👎🏼

Dont you think with that sorry for remembering Sai they showed Virat somewhat moved on.

To me it looked like they implied first he remembers Sai still but that diya scene with him saying sorry to PL showed progression in his married status. He remembers Sai but has accepted PL as his wife and knows mentioning his ex wife will upset his current wife hence he apologized.
Acceptance is the first step in moving forward process and that is shown clearly.

Infact I fell the Virat remembering Sai was added since they had not shown anything yet, so just a bit to imply he had not moved on so far and now he will be ready to as Aai and others ask him.

Edited by Sab04 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

@Sadhika..

Read my comment on page 5 and 7 in case you haven't.


Look at it this way...

V has married P for some vaada/some compulsion/some pressure from the family.

What it is might be disclosed in later episodes when he meets Sai....


So he is holding back the only thing that is within his control. His body. 😔

Rest all doesn't matter.


I am not excusing him of anything. As you can read from my other comments, I am sad to see V reduced to such a simple notion and eliminated all of his characteristics. 👎🏼. Mujhe ab V pe gussa bhi nahi aa raha.

In order to keep P relevant, Vanku has killed V ka whole spirit. There's no going back from this.


For the sake of the story like you said and everyone else is predicting... the family members will force V-P to get intimate 🤢. Feels weird to even type this... but Ghum main bedroom secrets openly discuss hote Hai. For them it's nothing.

Depends whether it happens or not... but Sai ka entry is on hold just for this. Just to show the eternal love for Sai.

Edited by Moor278 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

@Sadhika..

Look at it this way...

V has married P for some vaada/some compulsion/some pressure from the family.

What it is might be disclosed in later episodes when he meets Sai....


So he is holding back the only thing that is within his control. His body. 😔

Rest all doesn't matter.


I am not excusing him of anything. As you can read from other comments, I am sad to see V reduced to such a simple notion and eliminated all of his characteristics. 👎🏼. Mujhe ab V pe gussa bhi nahi aa raha.

In order to keep P relevant, Vanku has killed V ka whole spirit. There's no going back from this.


For the sake of the story like you said and everyone else is predicting... the family members will force V-P to get intimate 🤢. Feels weird to even type this... but Ghum main bedroom secrets openly discuss hote Hai. For them it's nothing.

Depends whether it happens or not... but Sai ka entry is on hold just for this. Just to show the eternal love for Sai.

I have a doubt with Sai entry in CN.

Technically they can not show it till they tell the boy that Sai is his mother.
Both kids assume different woman to be their mothers and would want father to be with them. How come they be in same home, especially when CN created so much fuzz about having parent for the boy(assuming Virakhi married for the boy)


Sai in CN will mess up kids psych so bad!

Edited by Sab04 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Sab04

Dont you think with that sorry for remembering Sai they showed Virat somewhat moved on.

To me it looked like they implied first he remembers Sai still but that diya scene with him saying sorry to PL showed progression in his married status. He remembers Sai but has accepted PL as his wife and knows mentioning his ex wife will upset his current wife hence he apologized.
Acceptance is the first step in moving forward process and that is shown clearly.


Umm no...

It looked liked a sorry because he realised he called her Sai. And yes it can be also because he feels that it will hurt her ...

But I don't think it suggests moving on...


I am looking at acceptance in a different way...


He ACCEPTED P the day he agreed to marry her. Whether fake/sham/real/lie/under pressure doesn't matter anymore. Duniya ki nazaro main they are pati-patni.

He accepted her obsession, her accepted her behaviour towards Sai, he accepted her crimes and still felt enough to forgive her and get married to her. That's acceptance. Ab sorry bole na bole kya farak padta Hai 😔

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Posted: 3 years ago

That 'sorry' was a giveaway that Virat is honoring his marriage with Pakhi - just as he had during his deal marriage with Sai. It may play out exactly like in the promo - Virat meeting Sai but keeping his marriage to Pakhi a secret because he does not want to lose her. And with that, now that Virat as a character is dead, they will be mutilating its corpse (sounds macabre, but the story is taking a dark turn).

My prediction for the future..

Sai may return to CN for the sake of Vinu, but will maintain her distance with Virat. There will be months of tension between Sai & Virat before they reunite. Virat will definitely try to absolve himself by blaming Sai's incognito mode for the chaos.

Pakhi's reaction is 50:50. If she is feeing guilty for her past misdemeanors, she will swallow the pain silently while Sai & Virat will be wrestling with the complexity in their lives. Or the sudden appearance of her rival after years of being in a 'relationship' with Virat may drive her up the wall - she may even pull out the fake pregnancy trick as someone predicted. Which avatar of Pakhi we will get to see may depend on TRP.

Either way, in the end, Pakhi's conscience will take over - she will forsake all claims on Virat and re-unite SaiRat.

After Sairat re-unite, she will start feeling the full impact of Virat & Vinu being taken away from her and she will start losing her mind once again. She might try to pull Vinu towards herself. Virat will once again side with Pakhi since she is depressed or whatever..may even take care of her... he has never realized his mistake anyway..just regretted that he did not stop Sai.

And this will go on for the next 300 episodes...loads of toxicity coming up...can't wait.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

Umm no...

It looked liked a sorry because he realised he called her Sai. And yes it can be also because he feels that it will hurt her ...

But I don't think it suggests moving on...


I am looking at acceptance in a different way...


He ACCEPTED P the day he agreed to marry her. Whether fake/sham/real/lie/under pressure doesn't matter anymore. Duniya ki nazaro main they are pati-patni.

He accepted her obsession, her accepted her behaviour towards Sai, he accepted her crimes and still felt enough to forgive her and get married to her. That's acceptance. Ab sorry bole na bole kya farak padta Hai 😔

😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

The first sorry I understood but the second ine clearly implied it was fir hurting her. That second sorry threw me off.


Thats what I mean, I used wrong word, yes he accepted when he married but clearly he is on path if moving on. Realizing his action causing hurt to PL n avoiding and apologizing is first step.

Whole execution is pathetic, as I always say they clearly rish through or avoid giving Sairat emotional scenes. We never got Virat forget repenting even breaking down for Sai’s death.😔😔😔

This little bit yesterday was added cause they want to show him talk about/agreeing to move on.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

That 'sorry' was a giveaway that Virat is honoring his marriage with Pakhi - just as he had during his deal marriage with Sai. It may play out exactly like in the promo - Virat meeting Sai but keeping his marriage to Pakhi a secret because he does not want to lose her. And with that, now that Virat as a character is dead, they will be mutilating its corpse (sounds macabre, but the story is taking a dark turn).

My prediction for the future..

Sai may return to CN for the sake of Vinu, but will maintain her distance with Virat. There will be months of tension between Sai & Virat before they reunite. Virat will definitely try to absolve himself by blaming Sai's incognito mode for the chaos.

Pakhi's reaction is 50:50. If she is feeing guilty for her past misdemeanors, she will swallow the pain silently while Sai & Virat will be wrestling with the complexity in their lives. Or the sudden appearance of her rival after years of being in a 'relationship' with Virat may drive her up the wall - she may even pull out the fake pregnancy trick as someone predicted. Which avatar of Pakhi we will get to see may depend on TRP.

Either way, in the end, Pakhi's conscience will take over - she will forsake all claims on Virat and re-unite SaiRat.

After Sairat re-unite, she will start feeling the full impact of Virat & Vinu being taken away from her and she will start losing her mind once again. She might try to pull Vinu towards herself. Virat will once again side with Pakhi since she is depressed or whatever..may even take care of her... he has never realized his mistake anyway..just regretted that he did not stop Sai.

And this will go on for the next 300 episodes...loads of toxicity coming up...can't wait.

I agree! Highly possible scenario.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Gosh,😲😯😮 since when have u been employed by Vankaar creatives 🤔


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