GHKPM & WU Episode Daily Discussion #66 - Page 42

Originally posted by: Nja91

Sai has grown and responded appropriately to every situation. She has been impulsive but her actions have always had a reason. It has been justified. Even if script doesn't fully justify, Ayesha has done so in her performance. When she had issues with insecurities, confusing signals, mistrust she expressed it. It was valid. She apologized for crossing the line in words or behavior or both. When she was wrongly brainwashed into taking sole blame for shruti kaand, she took it - for love. Post remarriage she has had many issues with Vs choices/decisions but she always kept her trust in V and put up with it all purely for love, mutual respect and her marriage while still not compromising her values/ideals. She has dpoken up but compromised ONLY for him... He crossed all limits with surrogacy - she tolerated it only and only for him and because she kept thinking ok whats done cant be fixed so lets focus on baby. She showed incredible maturity in allowing herself to feel uncomfortable but still never mistrusting V over PP pregnancy. She always had valid concerns but it was all ahot down. She still tried to be the bigger person , bury the hatchet, focus on moving forward instead of making things ugly. But all her tolerance threshold was breached when V gave baby to pp- she still forgave him after the truth reveal that she had to do all alone even though it was Vs responsibility as a police officer. She was kind and without ego realizing that their baby needed both parents and she didnt stretch the fight. She forgave him easily even though he gave HER baby to another woman by literally snatching it out of her hands which is unforgivable. And then he goes ahead to still bail pp to bring her back to live with them in same house KNOWING shes dangerous enough to physically harm Sai and obsessive, crazy! He claims pp has already been "punished". And he just does NOT understand her pov despite her clearly stating her reasons. He didn't stop at that - he actually had the audacity to give her an emotional blackmail vaala ultimatum and call her a bojh, samjhauta, orphan, claim she breaks families and was responsible for Sams death. After all this when she finally got in an accident and is presumed dead he has moved on without spending even a full day looking for her let alone using his resources, position. He has SO easily given up on her. And people expect that Sai should have go back to this piece of scum to let him know that hes father again to a baby girl. Does this man deserve to be in Sai, Savi's life?! Does he deserve a chance, trust , love from Sai's side?!

And Sai knows and saw how he behaved with pp, Shruti taking a Stand for them whereas he has only done so in Sai's case when there was irrefutable proof. Even then Sai alone was enough to handle it- whether it is Shivani -amey, education, mohit food denial fight, ladakh, His own accident, harini - devkit issue, NiNi shaadi, her career etc etc etc. None of this was anything mahaan. It was the bare minimum. Many involved helping his family members and rest was Sai's basic human rights- right to education, career etc. Still Sai valued it, tried her best to be devoted, understand him but he has ONLY let her down. Ideally this story is over in terms of Sairat. But because its itv, audience will be willing to give a chance because here things are OTT. But he is so far not getting anything redeeming in the plot. He has had no scenes yet that show us the impact of losing Sai in a positive way. And knowing pp is still around in his life in ANY capacity is a set up for more disappointment only.

Despite everything, Sais love is so pure that behind all her resentment and pain, bitterness, she has buried the love that doesn't just vanish. She had chosen to just not address the issue of father kaun hai with Savi instead of coloring her with negativity and prejudice. She could have easily given in ti bitterness and raised Savi as a man-hater. She could have told her that her dad was horrible and an ips making Savi not wanna be in the police but Sai sets apart all that negativity to focus on raising her daughter to be independent, fearless, idealistic, happy just like her dad raised her. It takes great strength to do so.

Sai is the only character to have any arc , relatibility, depth, perspective and its not due to makers vision because makers have tried to make her come across as immature, ziddi, rude etc etc but its due to Ayesha's mind-blowing portrayal of Sai that they have failed. Rather Sai is beautiful, righteous, fierce, flawed but one to learn from her mistakes and life experiences, pure hearted, kind, brave. A wonderful mother, friend, sister, wife, daughter, doctor and human being.

Well said 👏👏👏👏

Totally agree with what you said about Sai..her reactions and decisions have Been appropriate and Ayesha is doing a fabulous job of portraying Sai.

Calling out Virat for a what he has done is inline with the story. But attributing things and characteristics to him which he is not interferes with viewing experience. Virat could have been a good father, he wanted to have children with his wife who he loved dearly. I feel bad for him that he couldn’t enjoy the birth and initial years of his daughter. That much pity he deserves. :)Reducing him to just a Seed or a lustful person not worthy of knowing the birth of his child is atrocious in my opinion. This kind of opinion of him is not created in the story anywhere, so viewing him like that will cripple us in understanding the plot or narrative. My opinion purely! I might be wrong in understanding him too. But the story justifies my understanding at some point of time. So I feel validated and satisfied, and therefore continue to watch 🤪

For example on episode 546, Virat befuddled me! He made terrible misjudgements starting from that time till separation, questioning my own understanding of him. But looking back at the whole picture, separation looked inevitable. He has been slowing causing resentment in sai since confession. That is what they wanted to show, how he is taking sai for granted. It happens in regular marriages too. But making him a heartless monster or a lustful person is not the correct way to understand him. Nor it will fit in the story.

Episode is still not up. Achcha hua I didn’t wAke up early to watch. I was planning to do so. 😆

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Post consummation itself he started feeling more confident and slowly taking over her decisions. Surrogacy and later incidents where he didn’t pay attention was total abuse 😒

I feel from surrogacy there is a shift in writing and the treatment to overall story has changed . For 500 + episodes no one was worried about Virakhi and everyone was confident that Pakhi cannot get Virat but few episodes have created so much tensions among fans that people started fearing Pakhi 😆 .

Where has Virat shown to be lusty? Tell me one episode where Virat was shown as lusty for other woman. 🤪 Aap Twitter pe Ghum ke aaye ho kya?

After the delivery, neither Pakhi nor Vinu went for checkup, even though delivery was at home.

When Virat comes to know Vinu s his own child later, then he may not feel so bad.

Many times children are better off with one parent than in a place when there is always misunderstanding. Even if it's a nuclear family, parents can compromise for the child. But in a joint family like CN, there will be too many toxic scenarios.

Everyone around Sai should praise her for what she has done. UM, and Savi also a bit when Virat meets them. He should not be shown Sai as a villain when he meets her

. Only hope s Sai s new friend tells him the hardships she went through and any FBs in case Sai tried to reach out to him. Sai was not responsible for the accident.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Calling out Virat for a what he has done is inline with the story. But attributing things and characteristics to him which he is not interferes with viewing experience. Virat could have been a good father, he wanted to have children with his wife who he loved dearly. I feel bad for him that he couldn’t enjoy the birth and initial years of his daughter. That much pity he deserves. :)Reducing him to just a Seed or a lustful person not worthy of knowing the birth of his child is atrocious in my opinion. This kind of opinion of him is not created in the story anywhere, so viewing him like that will cripple us in understanding the plot or narrative. My opinion purely! I might be wrong in understanding him too. But the story justifies my understanding at some point of time. So I feel validated and satisfied, and therefore continue to watch 🤪

For example on episode 546, Virat befuddled me! He made terrible misjudgements starting from that time till separation, questioning my own understanding of him. But looking back at the whole picture, separation looked inevitable. He has been slowing causing resentment in sai since confession. That is what they wanted to show, how he is taking sai for granted. It happens in regular marriages too. But making him a heartless monster or a lustful person is not the correct way to understand him. Nor it will fit in the story.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Where has Virat shown to be lusty? Tell me one episode where Virat was shown as lusty for other woman. 🤪 Aap Twitter pe Ghum ke aaye ho kya?

I don’t know people call him out for sleeping his wife. Lusty for her and bhabhi lover etc right 😃. Having lust for your wife is healthy only 🤣

Yeah Twitter is horrible place. No wonder they are all confused with the story.

V is clearly selfish, insensitive. And it is completely reasonable for Sai to not want him to be involved in any part of not just her life but Savi's life after sering how irrational he was. He gave away Vinu to a deranged person like PP. She lost Vinu now. Why would she take the risk with Savi. It was Destiny that she got pregnant and a miracle that it was successful despite her medical issues. So V has played no role in it apart from being sperm donor. He gave up on searching for his wife so damn easily assuming her to be dead. And after everything hes made Sai go through, no reasonable person will want him involved in the upbringing of her child. Despite everything Sai has not colored her daughters opinion of V even though if she did so, it would not be the worst thing. But she opted for good parenting. If destiny doesn't make Savi meet V now, I'm sure when Savi was old enough to understand things. sai would have gradually given her information in a cautious manner. Why should we pity that V didn't get to experience his childs birth when he gave up on Sai too easily. And He got to be a part of Vinu's birth- but he debied Sai from being a part of it. So this is karma.

Despite everything Sai has given her daughter the name Savi which bears her fathers initials too. She has not said/done anything to ruin what could be a bond in future when Savi is ready for it. What is so wrong in Sai choosing mental peace over a complicated relationship. If she had gone back with child/pregnancy it would have been traumatic so she made a completely reasonable choice.

Sai will not stop Savi from having an independent relationship with V but she'd liked it to happen when Savi was a little bit older perhaps.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I don’t know people call him out for sleeping his wife. Lusty for her and bhabhi lover etc right 😃. Having lust for your wife is healthy only 🤣

Yeah Twitter is horrible place. No wonder they are all confused with the story.