Originally posted by: manny136
Dev and gaumtam arent good husband either they just do the opposite things but they have the disadvantage of having horrible wives lol Dev cant call out rish on her mean behavior and he is only being nice now coz she is birthing his spawn lol
As for gaumbi we know what he is he keeps on falling for bhabhijis bs and then expects everyone else to fall in line for that bs.
Shiva has always been like this but he has potential to be better unlike these two who in garb of being enlightened are as pathetic and problematic on their own.
I do agree dev and goutham are not great husband..they have no sense of right and wrong and dev especially is pretty selfish and a hypocrite..but in that household,these two atleast once in a while(in the case of dev) supports wife..whereas i have never felt shiva fighting back for her..infact he is the one hurting her the most..even if he supported her for this sm work infront of suman, he was never standing against his family for her..rather it was almost like pleading..what if suman refused her to continue with work?..would he have refused to obey and let ravi live her life the way she wants?..dev did when he let rishitha go to her house becz she felt unsafe with pandyas..i know dev has shown several nonsense..he is no good..but atleast that time he stood up for her..i havr never seen that in shiva..
@bold..but i dnt see that potential anymore..the guy during haveli times had potential..but since dishu, this man has only been selfcentered when it comes to ravi.