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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Aww.... You used anika's euphemism nostalgia😆 also i am still waiting on that review you promised me 2 months back on IB.


Ok back to raya😆


You know i think what priya did for eshaan was not her brain but her heart. Her entire life she had taken whips from her father and people for her father.

So on personal level she knew how it feels when people judge you for mistakes your parents made and try to type cast to you a box.

Since his grandfather and step father both were arrested for murder if eshaan also had been arrested for murder he would never have recovered from it.

As priya also got to listen from Nandini " khooni ki beti khooni. Tumhara khoon hi aisa hai" and a lot more.

She didn't wanted eshaan growing up listening to these things that's why kept him safe. And that's the reason also why she never wants pihu to know the truth although pihu will always love her even after knowing the truth she doesn't want pihu to feel that burden which she had felt her entire life. The burden of being a criminal's daughter.


And jaha tak bat hai ram ki i have always said he never wanted to believed priya and kept saying sach bata do. Paternity test was also to catch priya in the lie red handed. But he eventually gave up on priya and pihu bcz he realised that nandini won't be able to accept them and live.

She sent him to get priya but when he tried to get priya back she said no to any efforts! And that's when he decided to believe whatever priya told him. It was a survival mechanism for giving up on his family. He had to convince himself somehow that the reason he gave up on his child was priya and not "his" family and guilt.

Now ram says they are the only one left for him. It's the reality for him bcz he knowingly gave up other relationships for nandini and shubham.

All his anger comes from the fact that he never listened to Krish and never got the investigation done, never did that paternity test or tried to convince priya or even didn't tried to find her all these yrs.

Not once he has taunted priya for shivi's death or talked to pihu about Krish's role.

He is still in denial, doesn't want to accept that he made a major goofup by listening to nandu darling. He can see the similarities and her eyes but refuses to acknowledge it bcz then the pain and guilt will eat him alive that he turned on his wife and child bcz of his selfish reasons. He needed to prove himself as a brother so never stood up as a father. Nandini's constant manipulation at that point when he was out of his sorts was you did right as a brother! So all this thought process and feeling went into getting some solace by trying to appease nandini that time. He was in guilt that his one decision costed them shivina.

To get his mother peace he gave his child and wife a life of vanvaas. And to get this realisation he is asking priya questions he already knows answers to.

This is bomb if this was Ram’s thought process!! This is the same feeling I get from some of his actions too. He is trying to still live in farce remembering what Priya said about the infidelity and paternity. He will have a huge breakdown when the realization hits on his face. Today also his monologue ended with the thought of Priya cheating him, Somewhere he knows is not true but is forced to believe due to the emotional blackmail from his step family! But in the end how can one trust him again, he will prioritize his step family over Priya and Pihu if situation demands again…
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

https://www.serialgossip.com/gossip-78912-a

Idk how much of this is true....but if it happens 🥳😆

🤣🤣 Knowing how good the writers are, this will never happen🤣🤣🤣 Remember the recording fiasco that involved MS which fizzled out…
Edited by ajacob31 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Ok just a thought but what if this role reversal is the truth revelation??

Last role reversal was there C&C but before that MS truth came out and they both expressed their feelings.

What if it's a retake on that since pihu is Krish, priya is ram and ram is priya. There has to be some consistency then. Most probably pihu's truth will come out and Raya will have an heart to heart ??

Am I asking for too much??😅

priya ram hai? 🤔 ram priya hai?🤪🤭

kya chal raha hai🤣

7days hone tak gulu gulu karke hi manenge shayad Mia biwi…🤪

By the way, raya’s heart to heart:

1. Mene aapko lagaya balm 😳

2. Pyaar ek sar dardi 😆

3. Deal ya Deal for life? 😕

4. Pankha ghoom raha hai🤣

5. Japanese me baat karta hu kabhi kabhi ☺️

6. Toilet hoke aata hun 🤪

7. Tum Venus ho, jo apni hi Disha me hoti hai🤣

8. Mr.Kapoor, mene kuch nahi dekha.. aap jo bhi dekh rahe the🤣

9. Bed se bandoge muje? Baandke peetoge?🤣

10. Tera Dhyan kidhar hai, Tera hero Idhar hai🤪

11. Hum Dono bahut weird hai. Isliye humari shaadi huyi hai

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanjari7

Lol, You just spoke my heart! I was saying the same thing just a few days back. For a woman who took so much time to trust her own husband, her bond with Krish rather progressed exponentially! It wasn't as if they were even friends in college, they were just batch mates with little crushes that was also more than 15 years ago. How did she entrust a rather stranger with her newborn and not her own family? And she actually communicates with Krish, on the other hand Ram and Priya talk more in their heads than in reality 🤣Where did Priya's actual best friend go? Use de deti Pihu itna hi tha toh. Krish and Priya ke bond ka toh kuch sir pair nahi hai.

This has been brought up time and again by many including me. Priya- Krish relationship was never defined properly. It more so seems like they are more compatible than Ram and Priya. Priya talked more openly to Krish without any inhibitions from the start. With Ram she was always hesitant and over analyzing before saying anything which makes me think she never actually fell in love or trusted Ram in the true sense.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

priya ram hai? 🤔 ram priya hai?🤪🤭

kya chal raha hai🤣

7days hone tak gulu gulu karke hi manenge shayad Mia biwi…🤪

By the way, raya’s heart to heart:

1. Mene aapko lagaya balm 😳

2. Pyaar ek sar dardi 😆

3. Deal ya Deal for life? 😕

4. Pankha ghoom raha hai🤣

5. Japanese me baat karta hu kabhi kabhi ☺️

6. Toilet hoke aata hun 🤪

7. Tum Venus ho, jo apni hi Disha me hoti hai🤣

8. Mr.Kapoor, mene kuch nahi dekha.. aap jo bhi dekh rahe the🤣

9. Bed se bandoge muje? Baandke peetoge?🤣

10. Tera Dhyan kidhar hai, Tera hero Idhar hai🤪

11. Hum Dono bahut weird hai. Isliye humari shaadi huyi hai

This is too good 🤣🤣

Inlogo ka sab kuch extra extra kyu hota hai 🤣🤣

And jaha tak bat hai gullu gullu ki uske like Eskimo kiss is enough like before alibaug yrr that has already kinda happened in kitchen 🤣 to chota ram is majorly on the way hai 🤣🤣 kya pata interview me priya gir jay or khush khabri mil jay 🤣🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

This is too good 🤣🤣

Inlogo ka sab kuch extra extra kyu hota hai 🤣🤣

And jaha tak bat hai gullu gullu ki uske like Eskimo kiss is enough like before alibaug yrr that has already kinda happened in kitchen 🤣 to chota ram is majorly on the way hai 🤣🤣 kya pata interview me priya gir jay or khush khabri mil jay 🤣🤣


In BALH1, Ram and Priya did have a gullu gullu on their friends remarriage. Kya pata Vik aur Sara ke shaadi me Yaha bhi Priya ko koi pila de like season 1 🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

BTS raining today

https://twitter.com/iamsrkworld12/status/1556743884004155393?t=KA2YCnvwvpUWyr2F2bSvaw&s=19

Disha 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Koi pls isko ITV Bahu wale roles chorke kuch aur bhi play krne do 😅

Edited by Usg95 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Usg95

BTS raining today

https://twitter.com/iamsrkworld12/status/1556743884004155393?t=KA2YCnvwvpUWyr2F2bSvaw&s=19

Disha 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Koi pls isko ITV Bahu wale roles chorke kuch aur bhi play krne do 😅

I love this. This seems to be definitely precursor to gulugulu.🤣🤣🤣 The blame for Priya’s sudden love for dancing and the dance moves will go to Krish for sure🤣🤣🤣
Edited by ajacob31 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

priya ram hai? 🤔 ram priya hai?🤪🤭

kya chal raha hai🤣

7days hone tak gulu gulu karke hi manenge shayad Mia biwi…🤪

By the way, raya’s heart to heart:

1. Mene aapko lagaya balm 😳

2. Pyaar ek sar dardi 😆

3. Deal ya Deal for life? 😕

4. Pankha ghoom raha hai🤣

5. Japanese me baat karta hu kabhi kabhi ☺️

6. Toilet hoke aata hun 🤪

7. Tum Venus ho, jo apni hi Disha me hoti hai🤣

8. Mr.Kapoor, mene kuch nahi dekha.. aap jo bhi dekh rahe the🤣

9. Bed se bandoge muje? Baandke peetoge?🤣

10. Tera Dhyan kidhar hai, Tera hero Idhar hai🤪

11. Hum Dono bahut weird hai. Isliye humari shaadi huyi hai

🤣🤣This is a riot...

Don't forget they also talk to eo in their own head...thro' monologues🤪

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Aww.... You used anika's euphemism nostalgia😆 also i am still waiting on that review you promised me 2 months back on IB.


Ok back to raya😆


You know i think what priya did for eshaan was not her brain but her heart. Her entire life she had taken whips from her father and people for her father.

So on personal level she knew how it feels when people judge you for mistakes your parents made and try to type cast to you a box.

Since his grandfather and step father both were arrested for murder if eshaan also had been arrested for murder he would never have recovered from it.

As priya also got to listen from Nandini " khooni ki beti khooni. Tumhara khoon hi aisa hai" and a lot more.

She didn't wanted eshaan growing up listening to these things that's why kept him safe. And that's the reason also why she never wants pihu to know the truth although pihu will always love her even after knowing the truth she doesn't want pihu to feel that burden which she had felt her entire life. The burden of being a criminal's daughter.


And jaha tak bat hai ram ki i have always said he never wanted to believed priya and kept saying sach bata do. Paternity test was also to catch priya in the lie red handed. But he eventually gave up on priya and pihu bcz he realised that nandini won't be able to accept them and live.

Totally agree.

She sent him to get priya but when he tried to get priya back she said no to any efforts! And that's when he decided to believe whatever priya told him. It was a survival mechanism for giving up on his family. He had to convince himself somehow that the reason he gave up on his child was priya and not "his" family and guilt.

Now ram says they are the only one left for him. It's the reality for him bcz he knowingly gave up other relationships for nandini and shubham.

All his anger comes from the fact that he never listened to Krish and never got the investigation done, never did that paternity test or tried to convince priya or even didn't tried to find her all these yrs.

Not once he has taunted priya for shivi's death or talked to pihu about Krish's role.

He is still in denial, doesn't want to accept that he made a major goofup by listening to nandu darling. He can see the similarities and her eyes but refuses to acknowledge it bcz then the pain and guilt will eat him alive that he turned on his wife and child bcz of his selfish reasons. He needed to prove himself as a brother so never stood up as a father. Nandini's constant manipulation at that point when he was out of his sorts was you did right as a brother! So all this thought process and feeling went into getting some solace by trying to appease nandini that time. He was in guilt that his one decision costed them shivina.

To get his mother peace he gave his child and wife a life of vanvaas. And to get this realisation he is asking priya questions he already knows answers to.

Excellent points and clarity provided. I missed your analysis on this forum. Ppl blame Priya but Ram was equally if not more to blame for the separation. Despite his numerous declarations of eternal love for Priya in the end he always chose his step family over her. Priya lost everything, the love of her life, she broke all ties with her family, suffered a jail sentence while pregnant, missed out on being a mother to Pihu during her infancy, forever has to wear the tag of being a murderer and jailbird while Ram has blinkers on and continues to be emotionally manipulated and abused by his step family. I feel even when the real reason for Priya’s lies are brought to light and he finds out about his relationship with Pihu and that N is faking her illness he will still justify Nandu’s actions. He is so emotional dependent on the approval of 🐊s that despite what he claims that he will stand with what is right he will not be able to do it. He will still side with Nandini and Shubham. Eg : Sandy accident/ Anjali Kand. , without a seconds doubt he sided with them despite having proofs.
He chose to believe Shivi lies and manipulations vs what he himself observed numerous times both at SH and KM. Shivi was given more love and respect in the Sood house than in KM. However in the end material comforts proved more important to her. She did not once consider what impact her words would have on her husband and his family. Yes MM and Sara did Ram dirty but they never mistreated Shivi ever. Maybe Shivi was a redeemable character but she was shallow and easily swayed and manipulated. She was an adult who knew full well that accusations of domestic abuse has serious consequences. It would have landed her husband along with the Sood’s in jail without bail.Knowing Ram’s blind love and trust in Shivi he would have made sure they never got out of there had Shivi lived . Unfortunately Shivi died and no one can deny her and her mother’s and brothers role in her death. Yes Physically Ishaan pushed her but she is the one who pushed Priya. Would Ram have put Shivi in Jail if Priya had been the victim? Off course not, he would have done everything in his power to save Shivi. Ram’s double standards are the real reason why he missed out on living a happy life and P’s lies were just the excuse . Mind you I don’t support Priya’s hiding the truth but I get why she could not trust Ram to do the right thing.

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