Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #37 - Page 88

Originally posted by: RandomWaliLadki

ofc situation wise i agree ram situation was much worse, he was going through a lot. thats why i get why he hated priya.

i just find some things very weird. he didnt bother meeting priya until he found out she was pregnant with his child, if he didnt even know about her pregnancy i doubt if he would have gone to meet her for some time again he wanted to meet priya when she fainted i agree but did he actually meet her before knowing she was expecting?!

he still cares for priya like he did years back good to see, that scene i liked. but what doesnt make sense to me is that he hates pihu for his and priya’s seperation, shouldnt he be hating priya or meera maa for this, he keeps on saying its the kid’s fault! and he hates priya for cheating that makes sense but then he got so many hints she never married krish, she fasted for him but he still thinks she loves krish like what on earth, doesnt he have a basic common sense! and i also agree with u it was priya’s ‘betrayal’ that changed him. both ram n priya r to be blamed for this mess, priya for her mahaanta, she is now more of meera maa jnr, and ram didnt use his brains much wonder how he can crack 800 cr deal, his anger towards priya is justified but not towards pihu.

@bold- I do agree to some extent but not fully. Him only going to her when he got to know she was pregnant was insensitive but then his sister had just died that too apparently because of Priya. I know it was accident bjt still his sister died!! We can't expect him to behave very sanely. On top of it we hav Nandi amd Shubu to make him feel guilty 24*7. Moreover if the situation was reversed what would Priya have done? If Akki/Sandy had died due to Ram would she still be the loving wife? Wouldn't she also feel angry?

@pink- this is weird😆 and Ram is dumb. I can never deny that😆 but I guess its easier for him to care for Priya because he loved her very dearly. Even now can't hate her. But he never knew Pihu. She reminds him of Priya's cheating. Reminds him that Priya loved someone else and she is the proof of it. I know this is not logical but a person cannot think sanely in such a mess. He shouldn't hate the child technically but its not easy.

I am the odd one here it was a good epi for me & much needed one if both do not scream & shout their angst & pain out how will it progress & regards to Pihu from her perspective she stated facts that he doing all these for his profit truth are bitter.

Ram was not trying to amend his mistake or be friends with Pihu he was just interested in using her for his profits & Pihu stated facts she just shows him the mirror

Pihu was irritated with him thus the kid react in a harsh manner but when her mother advise she does regret her action. The problem here is how Ram treated the kid on the first meet he was being rude & arrogant to her furthermore he showed her that he is rich & can do anything he has the power so that impression is stuck in her mind & his current behaviour is not helping either

Lets not put this victim card that he is bitter & angry due to Priya's betrayal but accordimg to me its stupid no matter even the kid reminds him of betrayal this is not the way to treat a 5 yrs old kid. You are angry that does not mean you burn the whole🌎. I find Ram was mean & selfish tdy

Furthermore even though 1.5 yrs old when she grew up she got to understand her mom was not with her & she has fear of loosing her mother and has become more posessive for her. She feels Ram will snatch her mom away from her with his power & wealth. He triggered her fears here

Priya was right all Ram needs to give Pihu is time. She is a carbon copy of her mother in nature she does not get mesmerise by materialistic things. Just like how Ram is attached to his father Pihu is also like Ram attached with her mother & she is getting possesive for her

The amount of arrogance Ram & Kapoor🐊clan showing on Priya its better Priya leaves & let them rot in jail with🪰giving company to them. Such a ungrateful pricks they beg Priya to save them but still has the audacity to be rude & arrogant with her

Though we know Priya will help but glad she took a stand for herself when things were going overboard. I hope Priya comes out from the guilt trap that🐍has laid for she is using it to manipulate Priya & trigger her weakess

Originally posted by: RandomWaliLadki

as for the pihu being too rude or too mature

thats what i think

as for too mature

yes i somewhat agree her dialogues r too mature, and this seems to be a common thing in itv show these days, it wasnt as common in the past. but i kinda feel bad for the kid playing pihu, she is doing her job well as a little kid and also from what i seen from some balh2 actor-actresses story that kid is very naive and innocent offscreen, she just wants to hug and play with everyone aww 🥺 i saw a story of how she told manraj hello bday boy 😆 n was playing with him. so i kinda feel bad for her onscreen she sometimes gets scolded by audience cause of this heavy dialogue thing 😒

and as for too rude, i kinda have mixed feelings about this. honestly since the time she has been here, mr khadoos hasnt been very nice, he talks rudely mostly. didnt give her cupcakes as promised, spoke rudely to her in the engagement party when she didnt even do anything, brought the merry-go-round so that she cant ride it, spoke rudely to her mom and then she sees her mom fainting in his arms ofc a kid will be scared of such a guy. if ram was nice to her throughout she would have not even think of being rude to him. she is nice to ppl who r nice to her, and also just one day she is in kapoor mansion she knows all the helpers’ name which is so sweet. but yeah i agree she shouldnt have thrown the spoon away.

though it is really good to see ram softening towards pihu and genuinely attempting to bond with her, i feel if pihu immediately accepted the cake, whatever he did with pihu would have been forgotten very easily. him bonding with pihu great to watch but he must know it is not that easy to bond with a kid you have been cold too, so i m kinda the minority here. like some were mentioning if pihu accepted the cake easily then ram may think she is greedy then that is another problem, but yeah i do agree they should tone down baby pihu a lil bit. sorry to say but ram himself invited this rude behaviour, what he did all these days was unbelievable , nandini or no one influenced him when it comes to rude behaviour with pihu thats his own fault.

and what doesnt make sense is that ram-priya got seperated cause shivi died (priya was blamed, ram sometimes thinks its meera maa’s fault) and priya lied she had an extra martial affair with her first love krish, so uss hisaab se according to ram either priya or meera maa should be blamed for this mess, how this even pihu’s fault, she wasnt even born!!

and after ram finds out pihu is his daughter, i hope he realizes how krish was ready to accept pihu as his own child unlike him who immediately left priya (though he did leave her cause priya say she loved krish, but then he hates the kid wth) krish doesnt get enough appreciation for what he did for priya and pihu only cause he is not the male lead thats why however yeah it was also weird how he never really tried telling ram about the mess and did what sara dii does stay quiet.

i think after priya’s staircase accident, ram and pihu will start bonding genuinely not for the sake of the deal, i rather wait and then watch their genuine bonding than tolerate the sake of the deal wala bonding

I am not gonna blame that kid. She is a sweetheart and she is doing what she is asked to do. Why did she not yell at Ram when he stopped the merry go round? That was super mean. Krish might have been ready to accept Pihu coz he was a good guy and he knew the truth. That Pihu is Ram's child and Priya lied to him about it. Ram was denied the chance to love that kid.

Ram blaming Pihu - I think I bashed him that day 😆 What does a 4.5 year old child understand about financial losses and gain? This is too much. My only problem is with Priya not feeling guilt at this point. I am not saying she should ask Pihu to be nice to him. Just that one monologue for feeling guilty to land father daughter in this state.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

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You have told everything that I am feeling for Priya especially uselessly praying for Ram just like her mom😡 All her love and prayers seem so hollow. Pre leap Priya was a gem. She was a bit rude to people, never falunted her love for anyone but she showed her care through her actions.

As you said Ram is very dumb and too kind I agree but he was like that to everyone. If he forgave his family or ignored their mistakes he did the same with Priya as well. He even kinds forgived her father for attempting to murder him.

Anyway it all just boils down to the fact that Priya chose all this knowingly 😔 She willingly took blame for Ishan when it was never needed, went to jail, separated father-daughter all by her own. Ram had no say in all this mess. He was forced to be like this.

It hurts more that she is not even shown thinking about how she is responsible for all this or feeling bad that Pihu doesn't have a father with her. She only seems to care about her past being revealed idk till how long can she even protect Pihu from all this. Her past is not gonna disappear if she goes away from Kapoor mansion. She will always have a criminal tag on hwr due to her own stupidity

Pre leap Priya was a badass and I loved her so much. Infact Priya was the differentiating factor for all ITV heroines. Just like how you hadn't seen a Maya from BH, you hadn't seen a Priya in BALH2 before. I get it her love for Ram turned her emotional. I am not blaming Priya for taking Ishaan's fall or for saying that lie coz as a mother she wanted to shield Pihu. But what is the use of praying to God for Ram's well being? Can she not see that Ram has become someone he loathes? Can she not see its killing him from within? That he is living a life not for himself but for his selfish family? If it was the pre leap Priya she would have seen right through Nandu's manipulations. If she had felt just an iota of guilt I would think it was OK. But no, nothing. Instead she thinks Ram loves Vedika. Like really? Did she honestly think she loved a man who would move on from her so quickly and worse hope he is united with his first love even though she is a vile woman? If you truly loved someone but could not be with them for XYZ reasons, you will at least hope they move on with someone good, someone who will make their life beautiful. Not end up with Vedika. I donno. This is just messed up story telling.

Originally posted by: BreezyMeadows

I'm beyond frustrated with Priya today. I agree Ram has been quite stupid in all of this, believing Priya's lie, easily being manipulated by his mother etc. but nobody can deny that Priya messed up pretty hard by lying about the legitimacy of Pihu. Ram's life has been total darkness after that. Before today I didn't feel too bad for Ram when Pihu used to fight with him because the way he behaved with her was rude. But today I felt genuinely bad for the guy. I love Pihu, I really do, but she is being plain rude out of nowhere. I can understand her not liking him but I don't understand where all this hate is coming from. Especially the dialogues about Ram being Priya's Prince Charming. Those dialogues don't even seem to fit in to the situation at all. They just seem so forced, like the writers are just trying to make a point. I hate how passive Priya is being regarding Ram and Pihu's relationship. I've always had a problem with how Priya seems to have no guilt at all for separating a father from his daughter, or for breaking Ram the way she did with her lie. Fine, she took the decision she thought best for her child and for Ram. But wouldn't you feel atleast a little guilty? Especially after seeing how fractured Ram and Pihu's relationship is? Especially after seeing Pihu say to Ram that he is not her father and he never can be? Especially after seeing Pihu say that Ram can never be her mumma's Prince Charming? How can you not feel bad for the person that you claim to love the most when his own child is saying all these things to him and you know how that would make him feel? Pihu's words would have hurt him deep especially because of Priya's lie, wouldn't she realise that? Yet the writers showed no remorse in Priya. She could have done a much better job at explaining things to Pihu. I get it, she doesn't want to make her do anything that she doesn't want to. I respect that. But when a child is wrong, you have to explain it to them in a way they will understand. She can do so much more to make Ram - Pihu's relationship atleast a little bit better. I cannot deal with how passive Priya is being these days. Sorry for the long rant, I've so much more to say but I don't want to bore you guys to death.

Ps: I think Nakuul was fabulous today, both in his scenes with Pihu and in his scenes with Priya. You could see how hurt he was with her 'betrayal' in every word he said to Priya. Nakuul's performance is probably the reason why I feel extra bad for Ram today. How I wish the writers would give him something worthwhile to portray. So much wasted potential.

I agree with you and I was the one to curse Ram when he was mean to a kid. Yes, he needs Pihu to be nice to him for the deal but today when he tried to become friends with her, he was genuinely making an effort. I am not saying Pihu should forgive him. Hell no. But the Pihu we have seen is the same kid who wanted to visit KM just to apologize. And it was the same kid who felt Ram might not be so bad after all coz he saved her and returned her medicine box. Why this sudden change in dynamics? Just coz Priya fainted? OK, if Priya had not explained it to her, I still get her being mean to Ram. Since when did she get to know about the deal and profit and all that crap? Priya never told her any such thing and neither did her family. Ram needs to pay a price for not trusting Priya and I hope he does but white washing Priya is not fair either. She destroyed Ram with her lie and that needs to be accounted for. Priya 1.0 would not have stood there praying for Ram's well being. She would have fought for him. Not abandoned him like this. She would not have let anyone take her self respect for granted. She would never let anyone tarnish her dignity worse do it herself.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Pre leap Priya was a badass and I loved her so much. Infact Priya was the differentiating factor for all ITV heroines. Just like how you hadn't seen a Maya from BH, you hadn't seen a Priya in BALH2 before. I get it her love for Ram turned her emotional. I am not blaming Priya for taking Ishaan's fall or for saying that lie coz as a mother she wanted to shield Pihu. But what is the use of praying to God for Ram's well being? Can she not see that Ram has become someone he loathes? Can she not see its killing him from within? That he is living a life not for himself but for his selfish family? If it was the pre leap Priya she would have seen right through Nandu's manipulations. If she had felt just an iota of guilt I would think it was OK. But no, nothing. Instead she thinks Ram loves Vedika. Like really? Did she honestly think she loved a man who would move on from her so quickly and worse hope he is united with his first love even though she is a vile woman? If you truly loved someone but could not be with them for XYZ reasons, you will at least hope they move on with someone good, someone who will make their life beautiful. Not end up with Vedika. I donno. This is just messed up story telling.

Originally posted by: esprit_00

yeah ... i said it in the beginning ... i could sense where the show makers wanted to take this Pihu kid character and it's beyond rude / disrespectful. It is NOT cute behavior at all. Hence I wish they had picked a separation and kid track similar to (1) Humsafar (w/ Fawad Khan) or (2) Kuch Rang Pyar ke (Season 1).

This whole thing is so stupid and nonsensical and every character sucks. They still continue with plotting and all ... it is like there is no other storyline to explore. Only Saas-bahu saazish. lol.

Wowww...Humsafar and KRPKAB, both my favorite shows...especially post leap!! They really showed how separation affected the lead characters and how the characters changed/learned..the character arc of both leads was great and of course, the bonding with kids..

BALH S2 seems like someone just randomly plants a couple of scenes here and there with no proper story to bind them together...it looks soo scattered and illogical..

Kapoors have hired a help named Mahender 👏They need to hire more named Meera, sarangi, Priya . Sandy’s already working for Kapoors.🤣🤣🤣

But the Pihu we have seen is the same kid who wanted to visit KM just to apologize. And it was the same kid who felt Ram might not be so bad after all coz he saved her and returned her medicine box. Why this sudden change in dynamics? Just coz Priya fainted? OK, if Priya had not explained it to her, I still get her being mean to Ram. Since when did she get to know about the deal and profit and all that crap? Priya never told her any such thing and neither did her family.

Right? Pihu never really liked Ram because he was rude to her, agreed. But why does she suddenly hate him so so much? Just because the writers need her to, for the sake of drama. That's all.