That woman never had an ounce of self respect ever but till date I believed she is at least loyal. But today even that curtain of farce fell down. I have never seen any woman shamelessly publicly admit that she wants to balance between her husband and ex husband. Just by writing it I am feeling so nauseous. Today she did not even mention V as her baccho ka pita. She clearly told both her husband and ex husband are her relations and she adores both this relation. This woman has surpassed all levels of hypocrisy. Just two nights ago she boldly admitted to Anuj that she has no relation with V and she has no desire to see his face. She broke down while saying that she is helpless to keep relation with him as he is her baccho ka pita. But today baccho ka pita has been promoted to ex husband who is equivalent to her husband. Even in western countries no woman ever say that she balances between ex husband and current husband. Yes a man/woman can keep contact with his/her ex spouse in regards to their kids. There is no harm in that. But that ex spouse only should be a link to kids just as a parent is linked to his/her kid's class teacher, nanny or paediatrician. Will you ever say that your kid's class teacher or nanny is very important to you and you would always like to balance between your spouse and your kid's nanny? Can you take anyone's name in the same breath as your spouse? How gross does it sound? When was the last time Anu and V actually talked about their kids? Anu asks V if he is coming to her housewarming party by calling him? She gives sad looks to him when he sees her expensive necklace, she asks the guests to apologize to him, she lets him insult her in her house when she roars like a tigress if Rakhi or BB maligns her image. Are any of the above circumstances related to her kids? She always uses her kids as an excuse to run to Shah house when she can meet her kids anywhere. A person does not need to sleep with any other person other than spouse while being married to be termed as disloyal. Constantly thinking about ex husband, his parents, sister, running to his house in all functions while being married to another person is infidelity. Fidelity is not always physical. Emotional infidelity is as worse as physical infidelity. I feel so sorry for Anuj. Yes I know he lacks a spine but still nobody deserves to be treated like a second class citizen by his/her spouse. In the OG, Anupama cut all ties with her ex husband and inlaws after her marriage. She did not ever contact her ex husband to talk about kids.
P. S.: Call me a negative person as much as you like but I call a spade a spade.
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