Mr.Kapadia's stupidity has no Limits 🙂 - Page 3

you guys have never been in love and it shows lol

anuj dedicated his whole life to his work and it didnt bring him the happiness that she has.

practically speaking, do i think he did the right thing? no.

but i can see why he did it. forget about a husband, i have parents and a family that i would sign everything over to right now if they asked me too cuz i am emotional like that.

with respect to the business going down the drain - it's just in her name, i dont think she is going to be making any decisions...and besides if he died tomorrow, wouldnt everything go in her name anyways as next of kin ??

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

It is foolish to transfer your property to a person who is incapable of handling it.Talking about transfering property in your husband's name& vice versa,if you trust him/her enough & if he/she is capable then do it.The problem here was solely about Anupama's lack of capability to handle this.You seemed to have taken it into feminism direction.

Thats not what feminism means. Feminism just means wanting equality. Let's not use the term feminism in negative way just because some misogynists online try to make it negative

I hope this is not the prelude to Sreemoye track where Anuj character dies and Anupama has to manage business and everything alone

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

It is foolish to transfer your property to a person who is incapable of handling it.Talking about transfering property in your husband's name& vice versa,if you trust him/her enough & if he/she is capable then do it.The problem here was solely about Anupama's lack of capability to handle this.You seemed to have taken it into feminism direction.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

It is foolish to transfer your property to a person who is incapable of handling it.Talking about transfering property in your husband's name& vice versa,if you trust him/her enough & if he/she is capable then do it.The problem here was solely about Anupama's lack of capability to handle this.You seemed to have taken it into feminism direction.

@bold, this makes sense. Agree, noone should transfer it to a person who is incapable of handling things. It is also bad for the person who has been made responsible.

"You seemed to have taken it into feminism direction."

I am not taking it in feminism direction. It is a genuine question, why is it a norm to transfer your bank accounts in husband's name and also change your own name. And when someone questions the norm, why do we always tag them with feminism?

Originally posted by: Koms9

@bold, this makes sense. Agree, noone should transfer it to a person who is incapable of handling things. It is also bad for the person who has been made responsible.

"You seemed to have taken it into feminism direction."

I am not taking it in feminism direction. It is a genuine question, why is it a norm to transfer your bank accounts in husband's name and also change your own name. And when someone questions the norm, why do we always tag them with feminism?

Originally posted by: Koms9

So it is foolish to transfer everything in wife's name but it is normal to transfer everything in husband's name once married? Including your own self?

No it's not foolish to transfer your property in wife's name but yes to that wife who doesn't even read her documents before signing..and she proved it many times that how intelligent she is so this decision of kapadia is definitely not good.. 😆

Originally posted by: Koms9

So it is foolish to transfer everything in wife's name but it is normal to transfer everything in husband's name once married? Including your own self?

Coming to this case, Anuj transferring his hard earned work to someone the second time was absolutely ridiculous. Neither Mukku nor Anu are capable to handle it solely. It isn’t about education or anything. It is purely about capability. And I personally don’t believe in multiple degrees. On the job training works much better than the degrees imo.

Second, Anu giving herself all in to her “better half” is next level BS. whatever happens to individuality? Same goes for Anuj too. And if Anu was rich or had an empire, I would’ve said the same thing. It is her business. Why transfer?

Ok, let’s come to the concept of security. The one thing many on twitter were yapping about. For security, there are diff ways and instruments - FDs, SIPs, retirement funds, life insurance. I’ll also probably agree or be ok with a joint partnership (long term security if something happens to the spouse toh either or survivor par it can work)

This is business/finance. Personally, why give away yourself? Why can a relationship not have sep identities? Does it not make you, you? You adjust to an extent, you learn diff aspects about each other and work on the whole compatibility factor while retaining your individual self. Atma-samarpit doesn’t work yaaaa!!!!!

Really sorry for the rant. But this aspect really annoyed me yesterday.

When I got married, I transferred my stock accounts in his name and made my bank accounts joint accounts. I do not regret and did not care about it at all. Coz what's mine was his. In my head I was expressing that I trust him.

Except I did not change my last name coz it is my identity. It should not matter to him what my last name is.

My intention behind the question here is lost in the discussion. So I will let it be, and will not stretch it further.

Thanks for sharing all of your opinions.