ZDMN EDT#19| 16/5 - pg 111 - Page 81

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

It really doesn't warrant a breakup. Sid-Sanju have very different point of views aur zaroori thodi naa hai ki har baar doosra agree karna chahiye apne aap se.

Yeh toh yeh ho gaya ki jab tak Sid Sanju se agree kar raha tha, uske nakhre tolerate kar raha tha, tab tak Sanju khush thi, par the first time he put his point of view (about not wanting to take it that fast), wo gussa ho gayi. And when he kept another point of view (about the poverty thing), usne toh seedha break up hi kar liya.
Iss logic par toh Sid usse pit gaya, got accused of wanting to take advantage without any basis (during picnic track), got cheated on, got nearly killed, phir ise toh isko dekhkar raasta badal lena chahiye. Par nahi, yeh toh ek sorry bhi warrant nahi karta.

This is the reason I am not liking the way Sidsa is progressing. Its not a sign of a healthy relationship. I mean , what kind of a relationship is it when one partner puts in all the efforts and other doesn't care about him most of the time. I even found Sid falling for the tattoo girl unrealistic and cliche , even the whole fake engagement track of Simi unrealistic , given that this is an army show.

The makers actually messed up their characters when Sid was taking care of Sanju post Kundan track. He was shot and she was hit by a chair in the stomach but she was being careful while Sid was jumping around. The way she treated him during Kundan's track was really wrong and I don't think it can be justified in anyway even if , its her majboori. There wasn't even one proper apology from her side.

Even this time , Sid was trying to help her despite their fight but she spoke to him like a child who doesn't understand things in front of the lawyer and her own parents. It was acknowledged either but seeing Sid's expression , I am sure it would have been really embarrassing. Sanju did arrange a date for them and tried to make him feel better recently but what's the use when she never cares about his emotions?

I think Sid wasn't wrong at least not completely given that Sanju has said worst things in the past. The breakup on text was really really not right or even fair. Did she really forget how scared she was seeing Sid almost dead ? Sanju needs to get this , Siddharth isn't just what he shows himself to be , he has many layers and he's allowed to have opinions just like she does.

I feel Sid doesn't have a very high self esteem , maybe that's why he can never stay angry with anyone or think he deserves better than all this.

Sorry for the rant but this is what I felt.

Monu Sanju bashing - will write later on them

Regarding ema accusations with a selfie - whatever I followed offscreen since the beginning these two actors always preferred each other for pics iv etc. They hyped each other and one of them trashed their own ship for lulz. You can argue actors aren't public property and they can do as they please, but it hampers fans who want a wholesome atmosphere on and offscreen. The show started as the three being thick friends then one vanished and other two got lost in their louu tracks. Sidran wasn't there much and in some ivs during critical story track it didn't make sense the two giving iv on show. I doubt the actors don't know how this cone across to outsiders, and they don't care. Take whatever you want from that

Now this can be a wholly unpopular opinion but, anyway.

With the love tracks on the show:

Only 2 evidently exist while the 3rd apparently started and blossomed underwraps.

With Karan-Monami and Siddhart-Sanjana, there was one-sided love, followed by persuasion .

3 baatein now:

1. In both cases, there was a disparity, in levels of maturity, social upbringing etc. more in case of Siddhart-Sanjana than Monami-Karan. While there are no rights or wrongs, there has to be acceptance of the other which in this case, would have been more difficult in case of Siddhart-Sanjana than Monami-Karan which was never thought through.

2. The levels of persuasion were also varied. In both cases, their persuasion, somewhere lead the partner into guilt first than of love which eventually, somewhere, formed the base of their relationship. This was perhaps better handled in case of Karan-Monami than Siddhart-Sanjana.

In case of Siddhart-Sanjana, it appeared to toggle between

a. Siddhart would go to any lengths for the sake of his love

b. May be because he always got what he desired and Sanjana was someone who he liked so much notwithstanding reciprocation.

c. Sanjana's indecisiveness leading to false hopes being pinned on their relation.

3. Changing writing styles and inconsistent and patchy vision of the storyline and treatment of characters which has been the most important factor angst among audiences. The need to somehow "fit in" social issues without a proper backing brought down the gravity of the issue. However, they managed to close the tracks with daring comebacks.

In ALL, everyone would have liked the love stories to be more organic and not at the cost of their theme which was: Parakram SAF and #Har Ghar me Soldier.

I guess the makers saw my message of not being able to detach nor watch the show the show in peace. I already told that the only thing I was waiting for is SidSa closure, so they decided to help and spoiled or I would say rushed the story....

High time for me to get over the show now as it seems like they are in a race to butcher every character as the show proceeds. For me,

Moran ended with that terrace convo before the mission and Karan returned safely (in my imagination)

SidSa ended with the date Sanju arranged for him and it ended on a good note (again my imagination)

KoeZi wasn't even there to end in the first place, so yeah!

I don't think the show is worth watching anymore!

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Monami and Sid both chose very rough and tough partners, but call it character assassination, call it whatever you want, at least Karan has genuine feelings for Monami. Chaahe Majnu Shergill pasand aaya ya nahi, his feelings for Monami aren't questioned.

Sid is the only one who puts efforts into their relationship. Woh toh apni convenience par chalti hai. She told him about being engaged at the last possible second, even intended it at the last possible second. She arranged one date with him, aur us par bhi jhagda karke baith gayi. Why all the understanding from Sid's side?

I do think Koel is the only female character who doesn't get showered with hate, but perhaps that has more to do with her being seen less. Haan, possible hai ki yeh isliye bhi hai because she's a girl, but isne bhi koi aise mahaan kaam nahi kare hain jo yeh kaho ki completely undeserved hai.

I always feel Monami is the one who gets bashed more than she deserves. Haan, woh bhi koi doodh ki dhuli nahi hai par bahut hi milti hai use. Sanju deserves most of the bashing she gets. Log toh waise bhi Sha-Diljot waale drame se zyaada khush nahi hai toh usko uss context mein bhi shayad zyaada bashing mil jaati hai. Sid and Karan both get loathed with praises.

Karans feeling for monu i will never call character assassination cause soft girl and khadoos boy love story has been popular since generation. But I do wonder what he saw in her to love her. The realisation came abruptly, as if the moment she said I love you but you don't like me so I will let you go, he was like oh no wait and he confessed. You are more into Moran and I remember you had written a long post with moments where you think karan showed his feelings beforehand, and it's not as abrupt as rest of us think. But on screen it came rushed.

Karan is the apple of eye of fans and makers hence whatever praise he got. Sid is loveable due to the actor and it's evident he's earnest since day one whereas the other girl didn't give a damn. Regarding monu, she was silly at first - a wide eyed girl who wanted to get into army due to her mother's death, kept her head down and trained herself. She went downhill cause of her love and now life starts and end with Karan. She don't remember her mother or that she needs to prove her dad, or that she wanted to serve country. It's disheartening to see. The actress is lovely though. Ita sad her two shows getting abruptly closed like this.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

koel don't get hate cause she has a sob backstory, she's a mother and she wasn't around to bash much 😂😂😂😂

Karans feeling for monu i will never call character assassination cause soft girl and khadoos boy love story has been popular since generation. But I do wonder what he saw in her to love her. The realisation came abruptly, as if the moment she said I love you but you don't like me so I will let you go, he was like oh no wait and he confessed. You are more into Moran and I remember you had written a long post with moments where you think karan showed his feelings beforehand, and it's not as abrupt as rest of us think. But on screen it came rushed.

Karan is the apple of eye of fans and makers hence whatever praise he got. Sid is loveable due to the actor and it's evident he's earnest since day one whereas the other girl didn't give a damn. Regarding monu, she was silly at first - a wide eyed girl who wanted to get into army due to her mother's death, kept her head down and trained herself. She went downhill cause of her love and now life starts and end with Karan. She don't remember her mother or that she needs to prove her dad, or that she wanted to serve country. It's disheartening to see. The actress is lovely though. Ita sad her two shows getting abruptly closed like this.

I would have loved Karan's love realization to be slower but call it me being able to justify everything, me being able to overthink everything or me just lying to myself, I don't find it as bad as a lot of things. It might have come off as rushed but I still stand by what I had said regarding Karan's love realization, even if I had a hundred ideas of how they could have taken it better from there.

I liked the Monu in the jungle with Balli too. That's the kind of Monu I wanted, fierce and ready to fight.
I love Kaveri. I find her to be a really good actress, especially in emotional scenes and I found her fairly good in action scenes, especially considering she hasn't done a lot of those, from what I know of her.
I love the idea of a strong yet kind female character, because quite often, a lot of people show strong characters to be absolute witches and kind characters to be dumb and idiots and starry eyed fangirls, but I had high hopes from Monami, but inhone toh sab par hi raita phaila diya.

Nikhil's dadi is indeed evil it seems 😈 Koel and Monami are going to expose her , I wonder how she's in the academy all of a sudden

Originally posted by: FairyWings1234

Nikhil's dadi is indeed evil it seems 😈 Koel and Monami are going to expose her , I wonder how she's in the academy all of a sudden

Hain? Kya? Nikhil ki Dadi?

Bas, yeh hi bacha tha. Saas-Bahu academy tak hi le aaye.

Originally posted by: FairyWings1234

Nikhil's dadi is indeed evil it seems 😈 Koel and Monami are going to expose her , I wonder how she's in the academy all of a sudden

ye negative characters la la k expose kar rahe hai aur terrorist ka kya? 🤣 kuchh bhi..

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Hain? Kya? Nikhil ki Dadi?

Bas, yeh hi bacha tha. Saas-Bahu academy tak hi le aaye.

Koezi are going to have a date in their room with no proper progression I guess the writers have lost their plot and hence are complicating things more than necessary.

None of the things make sense now a days.