Originally posted by: tirchinazar
Ram is not good at reading people. He never had a good opinion about Priya too, right? Right now see how Priya is everything to him. He was manipulated from the beginning. Ritz can throw more light here
Ram is good at understanding the psyche. He chooses to ignore every negative thoughts about people. He knows that people are not positive always and so he bypasses those feelings. That doesn't mean he can't read people. He can.
With Pri, like he mentioned for the first time, he is being selfish because he is choosing his happiness over everything. He was trained to think "family first" where as with Pri in his life, the cloud over his thoughts are being lifted, bit by bit. She is allowing him to be a child giving him not only wifey affection but also motherly care and concern. Fulfilling all his wishes which he had buried under.
I have always emphasized "Stockholm syndrome" that Ram has towards his family and Vedika. He is being rescued now by Pri. She is teaching him to be angry, to be selfish, to love oneself, to want, to have desire, to be mad, to grudge.