Why Sai is not a doormat!!... Part 2 on page 4 - Page 3

Good post I can agree to most of the points here .. let us see how things unfold from next week

I do want Sai to tone down a little ..she’s a smart kid and a super achiever but her ability to do better than everyone may irritate virat .. which is what us happening right now .. a lot of men are egoistic.. ( virat definitely) they don’t like their wife overshadowing them .. so long sai does it in medicine or at home virat is ok .. when she starts interfering in his work space .. he will be resentful .

Sai needs to understand that .. if she wants a future with virat

Originally posted by: Moor278

True...

But yet again, the original post was about Sai.

And I cannot explain myself more than what i already replied to Neerja about what I feel about V.

The conversation is taking a direction aimed at V. Which was not my intention.

So yeah... That's all I can say for now.

See my main point of concern is if V is not seen reflecting a bit while Sai is shown doing everything inspite of facing the most hurt, she would be taken as a doormat only. For us to feel for V or for that matter SaiRat, V needs to be shown realising his mistakes, shown guilty to an extent.

So yeah sorry for diverting towards V when it was not your intention, but the whole thing is interconnected.

Sai has been only called doormat by a few on social media only because she did not behave as how Twitter wanted her to behave. 😆

Sai could never be a doormat.

Doormat 😂😂.. mein toh usey de facto DIG bana rahi thi .. 😂

Originally posted by: msin

Doormat 😂😂.. mein toh usey de facto DIG bana rahi thi .. 😂

Also, the post you made earlier, not just Virat, many men or women would not like anyone interfering in their professional matters. Very valid point raised.

Agreed completely...

He needs to do all that and much more.

I am not at all discounting him of any of acts that caused Sai pain.

All i am saying is, he hasn't yet realised it because he is still hurt. His hurt is that she even thought of leaving him. Once she clarifies it and he realises her intentions, he will shift. Has already in some parts according to me as per yesterday's episode.

And i trust Sai enough that she will not let it go easily. She is patiently waiting for him. Right now he is not in the mode to listen. If she says anything it will drive him away farther exactly opposite to what she intends.

So wait and watch would be my approach.

Part 2...

Since this is continuing to be a discussion where V has been dragged in ... Which is also right because his actions are affecting Sai and vice versa, a few more points I would like to add.

Sai and V are both academically excellent. They have a sense of over achievement. They both have excelled at their respective fields and have been hailed for that. And sweet as children. A typical good boy and good girl.

V is the best cop and Sai has topped her exams.

This to me plays on their minds... Rightly so because they both have been best at what they do. They have not been questioned.

However, because of this, they both fail to see how the other person is right and they are wrong. Both are adamant that way because they have been brought up that way.

Its an ego clash basically.

Add to that the patriarchal mindset V grew up with and the complete freedom Aaba gave to Sai. This is a completely contrasting upbringing that causes their clashes.

I thus believe that if they listened to each other calmly and quietly things work out for them. Like how they planned Harini ka birthday (the example that came on top of my mind... Might be others too)..

The other point I would like to make is V has been purposely made absent from a lot of dramas in the house. And neither has anyone told him.

I am not all in support of the vile language BK PP use for Sai but everyone wondered why V didn't react in Holika Dahan. Should he, when he doesn't know the extent to which they go? Correct me if i am wrong but he doesn't know Pulkit ka kidnapping by gharwale.

Harini ka orphanage kaand is another issue that he is supposed to react. Why? When her own parents are not ready to address it?... Again not saying he shouldn't but how is he responsible for everything that goes wrong. Pulkit doesn't want to file a case and Devi is happy that BK accepted her. Shouldn't they hold a grudge atleast? As parents?

For Sai i can understand, he is at fault when he doesn't take stand for her.... But not for others.

Again... This post was meant for Sai and not V but yes we cannot seperate them.

My only point is... Do not look at it from KD lens because that would mean we are judging everyone with a hint of what is to come. It clouds our judgement. We as audience know a lot of stuff the characters don't. Cut them some slack.

And probably wait for it because i still feel that a showdown will happen and V will sunao CN people to some degree.

Why i feel Pakhi might be the one who will make V realise?

I feel Sai will confess soon. Privately. That will assure V.

Pakhi is growing desperate. So she will definitely do something.

I had an inkling of fake pregnancy but now I feel like it may be that she will create a scenario of Sai having an affair or something.

To me, it will not work either because Pakhi doesn't know that they have confessed or she still feels she can break them.

Either way, it might help in bringing SaiRat closer.

But more than that, that will be the final straw for V in seeing the true colour of Pakhi. Even in KD i think, rono tells this to emon.

And depending upon who supports her in this, the true faces of the family members will come to fore.

While in all this, it is only Sai who will be standing by him and supporting him. So here without Sai interfering V will realise how she must have felt and her hurt. That may lead to a heart to heart conversation and eventual apology by V.

I just hope that like they are tweaking some bits. V grows positively from here and not go Rono way.

Jane de. Don’t get Virat into it. The topic will digress further. Let’s just establish that Sai is NOT a doormat 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Moor278

What i feel Pakhi might be the one who will make V realise?

I feel Sai will confess soon. Privately. That will assure V.

Pakhi is growing desperate. So she will definitely do something.

I had an inkling of fake pregnancy but now I feel like it may be that she will create a scenario of Sai having an affair or something.

To me, it will not work either because Pakhi doesn't know that they have confessed or she still feels she can break them.

Either way, it might help in bringing SaiRat closer.

But more than that, that will be the final straw for V in seeing the true colour of Pakhi. Even in KD i think, rono tells this to emon.

And depending upon who supports her in this, the true faces of the family members will come to fore.

While in all this, it is only Sai who will be standing by him and supporting him. So here without Sai interfering V will realise how she must have felt and her hurt. That may lead to a heart to heart conversation and eventual apology by V.

I just hope that like they are tweaking some bits. V grows positively from here and not go Rono way.

I remember him quoting

Trust toh woh hota hai ki saamne ke khilaf sab saboot hai par you still choose to trust him.As in trust is only of value when you trust the person when the circumstances are against him/her