do akshara and abhimanyu really have a traumatic childhood/past? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

The whole premise of YRKKH is dependent on these characters having nothing else to worry about but their love lives😆 So they all have to be from rich privileged backgrounds.

Who will have the time and energy to worry about methi daana romance, being a power couple, PR, dubious second angle women who might be a relative etc when putting food on the table, mortgage payments and so on are a higher priority 🤣

This is a conundrum that puts yrkkh makers in a fix. They wanted grandeur in the show so all families are privileged and well off. But then they couldn't introduce tracks that are popular like the girl being forced to work for the guy or for his family, guy humiliated by girl's family for being poor, girl forced to do stuff because of ghar ke halaat or guy forced to do stuff because of behen ki shaadi..

All these TRP inducing tracks couldn't be introduced in yrkkh..so what do they do? they start worrying about first world problems like Aaj Akshu se mulakaat hogi ya nahi 😆

I just want to put my pov here. We never understand some ones pain unless we wear that shoe..

Abhi might have studied mbbs... he might have become doctor with his dads money... but he equally served him all these years even after so many differences. Abhi wanted to be a doctor he became one if he wanted to oppose his dad for every damn thing he would have failed in mbbs exams to show his father that he is wrong.

He only corrects harsh when he is wrong.

What right harsh have to hit manjari just because there was a tilak confusion?

Is she not a human being... just because she is not mahima.. he has taken her for granted.. this shows how he has treated her all these years when abhi was a kid.

What right harsh have to humiliate akshu who just made manjari feel good with her therapy.. ? Whats that attitude of throwing money?

Abhi stopped it by breaking chairs as he is really disappointed that he has a dad who does not even know how to thank someone who helped his own wife.

What right harsh have on neil to call him orphan... he might be an orphan but even if a orphan stays with some one for so many years people will develop some bondings. But he only knows to demean him and take revenge for spoiling his pr plan.

When manjari fell ill. Harsh was like isse hospital le jane ki zaroorath nahi hai.. theek hojayegi...

Whats that attitude..? As if even if she dies he does not care...

He even tried spoiling abhi's life by supporting arohi..

So regarding the education money abhi took from harsh.. how are you so confident abhi took money from harsh. Was there any mention in the show? What if he borrowed it from his uncle anand instead. Unless its mentioned specifically mocking some ones trauma is not right..

Have you ever faced the trauma that abhi faced? His dad might had EMA or he might have abused manjari to that extent now she is even scared to sing or perform on stage.

His dad might have done many things in past like how he supported arohi which might have impacted abhi's decisions.. he is a manipulator who only knows to make money.

If abhi was not a surgeon then i am 100% sure he would be another parth. He would be facing 100 times more humiliation than he is facing now. And harsh might have taken that revenge on manjari for not raising him properly.

Originally posted by: sidnilove

I still don't get why Akshu needs to be blamed. From what you said, Aarohi asked her to stay home but Akshu didn't listen..so what big deal..kids are like that. So, Aarohi was mad at Akshu for not listening and she blamed her for Sirat's death. That's understandable. But it was an issue that could be easily resolved by elders. It didn't have to fester and become this impossible to resolve. Sirat's death was not compounded by other events that added to Aarohi's anger.it was a single event. Children are moldable..they can be made to understand..this was left unresolved just for the sake of drama.

Losing both parents is traumatic but Akshu is not the only one who lost her parents. Kairav and Aarohi also lost them. However, Akshu is the one who feels bad for herself..Aarohi hates me..I'm lonely..etc. She has so much to be grateful for. She could have been forced to do something else professionally. We've heard so many instances where one sibling does well and the other sibling is forced to compete or get into the same field. Akshu was not forced to compete with Aarohi academically. She wasn't asked to become a doctor..she wasn't belittled..she was encouraged to follow her dreams. She has a family that's mostly supportive. Kairav loves her and is so protective of her. I just feel like non existent issues and small issues are being magnified just to show that Akshu is bechara which is not the case.

I agree with whatever you've said about Abhimanyu and Manjari 👍🏼

Originally posted by: sidnilove

This is a conundrum that puts yrkkh makers in a fix. They wanted grandeur in the show so all families are privileged and well off. But then they couldn't introduce tracks that are popular like the girl being forced to work for the guy or for his family, guy humiliated by girl's family for being poor, girl forced to do stuff because of ghar ke halaat or guy forced to do stuff because of behen ki shaadi..

All these TRP inducing tracks couldn't be introduced in yrkkh..so what do they do? they start worrying about first world problems like Aaj Akshu se mulakaat hogi ya nahi 😆

Highlight-👏this cracked me up.most important problem in the life of doctor abhimanyu birla

I am not at all denying the fact that Abhi did a mistake by proposing Aarohi...but he did that for his mother's health and on his father's insistence.

1.Didn't Aarohi know that Abhi loved Akshu and only Akshu..he told that to her while proposing for marriage.Which woman will accept a mam who loves her sister and confessed it openly?

2.Didn't Aarohi know that Abhi hates lies?yet she told hundreds of lies to get Abhi.Now some ppl will tell she never told any lies...Abhi and Manjri assumed that,but couldn't she open her mouth to tell the truth?

3.If Abhi had the responsibility of treating his then would be wife decently,even Aarohi had the responsibility of not hiding anything from her would be husband,but she went and did a scam and came back and is demanding respect.Did she carry out her responsibility?

Why is it that only Abhi is blamed for the marriage breaking and not Aarohi?just because she is a girl?

And why should Abhi apologize?you lie to him 100 times and he should sweetly marry her and lead a life or what?Did Aarohi apologize for treating Akshu the way she does,from 12 years?

Did she apologize for the scam she did,nobody even knows about it?

If Abhi running any from marriage ruined Birla family's reputation, then so has Aarohi's MD scam,for the Goenka family.

Bang on!

Exact points put up...just because Abhi works in his father's hospital or stays in the house,doesn't mean he has to bear all his illogical and inhumane behavior towards be it anyone.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Yes Abhimanyu does not respect his father.

He came into this world because his parents had to perform the duty of producing a legal heir. His father is in a loveless, no strings attached relationship. He went in search of greener pastures and Neil is the result.

Abhi witnessed mental abuse. Manjiri has the money but no peace of mind. Ideally she should hage opted for a divorce.

The father son duo, husband and wife relationship is toxic.

Harshavadhan loves his son. Is it without conditions no!! Abhimanyu has achieved everything what he could not. Name and fame. The selfless love comes with certain rules and regulations. Has he ever spoken to Parth Or Nishta?

Good he is not at home the whole time. I cannot stand people who nag, snap, insult or dominate their own loved ones.

Such personality manipulate and use others to their benefits.

Yes, he is worried about Abhimanyu. There is a reason behind the worry..Ie his dignity and self respect.

Words are like swords, they make or break a person.

What is Abhi's age ? Suppose he understood that his parents are sharing a strained relationship at the age of 5. Won't that child end up hating his father. His father stopped his mom from persuing her dreams. Why she cant walk out

Simple, fear. .

Abhimanyu thinks that his father and mother consummated their marriage for the sake of society. Otherwise there is no binding between husband and wife. It is eating him.

This is the reason he ran after a voice. He is finding solace and leaning on to Akshara to extinguish his own demons.

He proposed to Aarohi because his mother had a nervous breakdown. Such kids when they become adults are so attached to the ones showering love on them that they are willing to anything.

That is why Abhi messed every relationship

The same goes for Akshara, Aarohi sent her on a a guilt trip to the moon.

The Goenka's did not correct Aarohi and in the Birla Household, no one really cared to check the mental status of Abhimanyu and Manjiri Birla

When kids are brought up in a toxic environment, either they retreat into a shell or develop violent tendencies.

Has the father tried to mend his ways, habits. Harsh cannot change.

Aarohi too won't recover from rejection.

Wow...just because Manjri is having a queen size life,doesn't mean that she shouldn't feel loved or valued.Her husband abuses her,but she is supposed to only sit back and enjoy luxuries of life?

She is always shown as a family oriented woman just like Akshu.If not unconditional love from them,she legit deserves respect from everyone there,which she never gets.

Mahima,her own sister is there in her sasural as well,bu only namesake.She herself demeans her at every given point.

P.s:the thing about luxuries applies to Abhi as well.Luxuries can never be equivalent to love or respect.

Originally posted by: vismaya

I am not at all denying the fact that Abhi did a mistake by proposing Aarohi...but he did that for his mother's health and on his father's insistence.

1.Didn't Aarohi know that Abhi loved Akshu and only Akshu..he told that to her while proposing for marriage.Which woman will accept a mam who loves her sister and confessed it openly?

2.Didn't Aarohi know that Abhi hates lies?yet she told hundreds of lies to get Abhi.Now some ppl will tell she never told any lies...Abhi and Manjri assumed that,but couldn't she open her mouth to tell the truth?

3.If Abhi had the responsibility of treating his then would be wife decently,even Aarohi had the responsibility of not hiding anything from her would be husband,but she went and did a scam and came back and is demanding respect.Did she carry out her responsibility?

Why is it that only Abhi is blamed for the marriage breaking and not Aarohi?just because she is a girl?

And why should Abhi apologize?you lie to him 100 times and he should sweetly marry her and lead a life or what?Did Aarohi apologize for treating Akshu the way she does,from 12 years?

Did she apologize for the scam she did,nobody even knows about it?

If Abhi running any from marriage ruined Birla family's reputation, then so has Aarohi's MD scam,for the Goenka family.

Yaar these people don't write logically so how can we look for reason and logic in their crazy stories? Akshu and aarohi's bad blood is supposedly based on a single childhood traumatic event.. But then why was it not properly addressed and resolved by a family like the Goenkas who are rich, educated and liberal-minded? It's all very unlikely and stupid.

Did Abhimanyu have a traumatic childhood or not? From what they have shown so far, not really. But they have yet to disclose the entire story. Given the track record of this show its going to be a very silly and unlikely reason. Like they showed for Kartik, his being estranged for so many years and him and his sister being kept in the dark over their mother's mental illness.. I don't know how real that was.. 🙄 But that wasn't questioned so much bcz he didn't have any behavioral issues due to it except his staying away from his parents and home and the family business. Here they are having Abhimanyu behave in all kinds of undesirable ways bcz of his childhood issues. But they won't be showing any really terrible stuff in a show of this sort as the cause for it.

So what is required here is suspension of disbelief 😛😁