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Posted: 3 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

You're right, i was also really surprised by so many calling it bar-raising. Makes me sad to think that's how low expectations are for Indian men

because yaha par bahut log lady ko pair ki juti samajhte h yaha bahut sari families mein male kitchen mein entry tak nahi karte pani ka glass to chodo apne jhoothe bartan uthakar rakhne ke liye bhi nahi bhale hi lady working ho but mother in law yehi expect karti h ki subah wo sara kaam karke jaye aur wapis aakar sara kaam kare aur beta office se aaye to pani ka glass bhi use haath mein pakdaya jata h

lekin bahu aaye to bag rakhkar seedha kitchen mein

galat language aur baato ki to baat hi mat karo kya kya bola jata h biwi ko phir use justify kiya jata h ki tumne majboor kiya

that's the reason jin logo ne apni families mein ye sab dekha ho unke liye ye naya hi h

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Posted: 3 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

You're right, i was also really surprised by so many calling it bar-raising. Makes me sad to think that's how low expectations are for Indian men

Don't be surprised. I have seen many males cooking. But they do cooking either because they just want to cook some particular dish or it is very necessary for them to step in Kitchen. Very few men cook thinking that it is their responsibility also to help the women in doing cooking or other household chores. And also it is very very very rare for men to make tea, even if they help the women in Kitchen.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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So beautifully put G. Both Sanan are hurting and end up hurting each other . Samar has a caring heart. He has been humiliated by his father who calls him a nachinya. taunted by his siblings who call him loser. He has been affected most by how his mother was treated, he sees his bhabhi hurt, his cool dude hurt so when nandini speaks up for her Maasi as a woman( as she claimed today) Samar sees it as the result of Kavya - nandini conversation.

Both have suffered in the hands of their family. Samar has lost his greatest support system his mom.

By dragging Anupama, anuj and mukku for the mess, the boy man Samar is shattered.

He utters the unthinkable and Nandini responds likewise comparing Samar to his father and shatters Samar completely.

Nandini Vanraj conversation though absolutely right likely to ricochet and hurt Samar further.

Though a young man, Samar is a child at hurt but in time anupama can bring him back.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#84

Here I am, again with my long post 🤗😃

Vanraj shah, my opinion is still same an opportunist and self centred person. He can make or break anything for satisfying his ego then it can be any of his child too🤷‍♀️.

Mukku again seems to me more sensible, her character arc definetly has layers and she is much more to be seen. I really really want makers to bring her out an aar paar wala teer the way they introduce her with the song. My point is she will come out as bomb on vanraj. Let c

Right now baa seems to me as she learnt from her mistakes. I like her approach towards the fight between sanan.

This whole new sanan track is all about miscommunication and misinterpretation and out of anger the comparison of one another to the most odd persons. Both are wrong comparing with masi and father. But like father like son is more wrong. See samar meant like masi is she is not seeing and understanding the concern and love of other family member tried to give Kavya which she is not acknowledging. And nandini is here like father is not valuing his wife, he will not too and nandini knew that samar is not a person like still she did. Nandini is actually right with Mr. Shah but she carried away with what kavya said before new years eve, she saw the things through kavya's eyes and all the things are not correct with her. This whole misunderstanding starts from here only. Samar was actually pissed with kavya's wrong misinterpretation and he was trying to reason both the ladies. Right now nandini is not seeing beyond it and she is questioning her own relationship. She is so right when it comes to vanraj. Samar is not feared with marriage. He saw a divorce of his parents and now other of his father, it make him mature enough to think actually, if you are seeing things falling apart either to fix it or if not move out to avoid future destruction more. But dear samar these decisions cannot take in a fit. He needs to learn patience. Both need to communicate, make each other understand their point. Nandini is actually feared of future perspective seeing the past record and samar needs to assure her. What they both need is sincere communications keeping egos aside.

No. Of parallels are shown today. One is with samar again proves blood is not the one make relations real. Biological father didnt budge a little and one by heart is actually trying understand this kidos situations.

Again shahs and kapadias, like they never cared about Anu and here all are making her their responsibilities, never leaving her alone in any trouble, worried about her. One is questioning of how dare you to come late and other is waiting to share her side of story.

The nazar thing, Anu is right, its us who actually caste najar to our own relations. Outsider only tries influence you, they never harm your relation. It is the people involved in it. Person need to understand what an actual relation is. It is not about superiority, but they evolve as equals. A relation get stronger only the two take efforts equally, working on it, how much the relation is precious for them. A relation becomes special not with precious gifts in material but with the small small things in daily lives, with small gestures, minute details of your partner and acknowledging it, Understanding them and vocal about it. MaAn are actually working on their relation because they both want it to work and they know they are precious for each other.❤️

And sorry guys, a guy like Anuj who works in kitchen with your partner, making chores with her or more important treating your wife like queens, put her before you, do exist. I have many in my family, some known in person. But you know these little little things actual make relation worthy and respected.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#85

I agree Samar compared nandini to Kavya as he has concluded Nandinis outburst is the outcome of Kavya - nandi conversation. He concludes Nandini has second thoughts while he has been keen broaching his marriage talk.

Anupama s upbringing and her talk will bring him around. It was sad seeing Nandi alone and hear broken.

She like Samar have been insulted by Leela and Vanraj and her standing up for her maasi is the parallel to Samar standing up for anupama in my view.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Lovely analysis... I could relate to almost everything here...❤😍

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer

I agree Samar compared nandini to Kavya as he has concluded Nandinis outburst is the outcome of Kavya - nandi conversation. He concludes Nandini has second thoughts while he has been keen broaching his marriage talk.

Anupama s upbringing and her talk will bring him around. It was sad seeing Nandi alone and hear broken.

She like Samar have been insulted by Leela and Vanraj and her standing up for her maasi is the parallel to Samar standing up for anupama in my view.


Correct!! Its so sad that when you raise a voice for a person who is bad, but momentarily is served crap, your intent is also questioned!! Looks like the world starts looking at you with the same lens as they would look at the wrong doer

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Here I am, again with my long post 🤗😃

Vanraj shah, my opinion is still same an opportunist and self centred person. He can make or break anything for satisfying his ego then it can be any of his child too🤷‍♀️.

Mukku again seems to me more sensible, her character arc definetly has layers and she is much more to be seen. I really really want makers to bring her out an aar paar wala teer the way they introduce her with the song. My point is she will come out as bomb on vanraj. Let c

Right now baa seems to me as she learnt from her mistakes. I like her approach towards the fight between sanan.

This whole new sanan track is all about miscommunication and misinterpretation and out of anger the comparison of one another to the most odd persons. Both are wrong comparing with masi and father. But like father like son is more wrong. See samar meant like masi is she is not seeing and understanding the concern and love of other family member tried to give Kavya which she is not acknowledging. And nandini is here like father is not valuing his wife, he will not too and nandini knew that samar is not a person like still she did. Nandini is actually right with Mr. Shah but she carried away with what kavya said before new years eve, she saw the things through kavya's eyes and all the things are not correct with her. This whole misunderstanding starts from here only. Samar was actually pissed with kavya's wrong misinterpretation and he was trying to reason both the ladies. Right now nandini is not seeing beyond it and she is questioning her own relationship. She is so right when it comes to vanraj. Samar is not feared with marriage. He saw a divorce of his parents and now other of his father, it make him mature enough to think actually, if you are seeing things falling apart either to fix it or if not move out to avoid future destruction more. But dear samar these decisions cannot take in a fit. He needs to learn patience. Both need to communicate, make each other understand their point. Nandini is actually feared of future perspective seeing the past record and samar needs to assure her. What they both need is sincere communications keeping egos aside.

No. Of parallels are shown today. One is with samar again proves blood is not the one make relations real. Biological father didnt budge a little and one by heart is actually trying understand this kidos situations.

Again shahs and kapadias, like they never cared about Anu and here all are making her their responsibilities, never leaving her alone in any trouble, worried about her. One is questioning of how dare you to come late and other is waiting to share her side of story.

The nazar thing, Anu is right, its us who actually caste najar to our own relations. Outsider only tries influence you, they never harm your relation. It is the people involved in it. Person need to understand what an actual relation is. It is not about superiority, but they evolve as equals. A relation get stronger only the two take efforts equally, working on it, how much the relation is precious for them. A relation becomes special not with precious gifts in material but with the small small things in daily lives, with small gestures, minute details of your partner and acknowledging it, Understanding them and vocal about it. MaAn are actually working on their relation because they both want it to work and they know they are precious for each other.❤️

And sorry guys, a guy like Anuj who works in kitchen with your partner, making chores with her or more important treating your wife like queens, put her before you, do exist. I have many in my family, some known in person. But you know these little little things actual make relation worthy and respected.


you wrote exactly what i wrote!!!!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: moonwearer

So beautifully put G. Both Sanan are hurting and end up hurting each other . Samar has a caring heart. He has been humiliated by his father who calls him a nachinya. taunted by his siblings who call him loser. He has been affected most by how his mother was treated, he sees his bhabhi hurt, his cool dude hurt so when nandini speaks up for her Maasi as a woman( as she claimed today) Samar sees it as the result of Kavya - nandini conversation.

Both have suffered in the hands of their family. Samar has lost his greatest support system his mom.

By dragging Anupama, anuj and mukku for the mess, the boy man Samar is shattered.

He utters the unthinkable and Nandini responds likewise comparing Samar to his father and shatters Samar completely.

Nandini Vanraj conversation though absolutely right likely to ricochet and hurt Samar further.

Though a young man, Samar is a child at hurt but in time anupama can bring him back.


so true Vidz, both are hurting and both are lashing; Samar more than Nandu

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Did the writers forget she married him to get to Prem they legit forgot that

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