Mr AK, plz stop setting husband goals- Urs sincerely-Single gal forevr

Phew man this shayar Kapadia is made of another mould. He doesnt fit in with us mortals! Why why does he have to raise the bar for a man, life partner, friend and a human every single time? I am secretly manifesting an Anuj Kapadia(not so secret anymore🤭🤓) and he keeps adding more qualities to the list! Not fair! Anyhooo moving on to the episode, few things I loved and few things that made me go..uhh? Why?? The intention by makers to once again address an imp social stigma is praiseworthy!!👏👏👏

Episode begins with Samar dancing to thaiya thaiya and Anu and Baa, his strongest support system try and console him but to no avail. He is visibly upset and heart broken with Nandini's allegations. Firstly, I couldnt connect to his pain from a screenplay perspective coz SaNan did not have any huge showdown neither did makers show any build up of misunderstandings between them to justify such an outburst. Yes they had a fight but who decides to not get married just coz of one damn fight?🤔🙄😏 the reason was not convincing enough!! This epi was to address the fear kids in society grow up with regards to marraige and relationships especially when they are witnesses to botched relations at a growing age. The concept is noble and realistic but wish they had built around more elements for Samar to be actually scared of taking the plunge. Here it seemed more like he is being a stubborn a$$ who just cant listen to what others have to say!🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Despite many efforts, Anu's golden gyaan falls to deaf ears and they decide to give him a time out. Btw he is rehearsing for Mukku's event. Upcoming track? Dhekthe hain!

Baa is worried about shah house and its relations. She is old school when she says "patha nahi kiski nazar lag gayi. Takur ji ne kitni achi jodiyan banayi aur phir tu aur Vanraj alag ho gaye"🤦‍♀️. Can someone in the show finally scream and acknowledge that Anu and Vanraj ki jodi achi kya, woh jodi thi hi nahi!!!🤨 Anu makes a sensible point when she makes Baa understand that a 3rd person or entity cannot destroy a relationship. Any relation falls apart when the people involved stop deciding to work on it.

At Kapadia house, Anuj is waiting for Anu and she is touched by his gesture. Her dialogue "Duniya mein aurat ke chehre dhekne waale bahut mil jaathe hai par uske raah dhekne waale koi nahi miltha". A stark contrast to when Vanraj had humiliated and closed doors on her face just coz she was half hr late from meeting her friends😶😑 Anu reminding herself to not cast an evil eye on their relation is cute and beautiful. In her heart and soul she is already tied to him. Previously when he lend an ear to her problems, she used to brush it off by saying mein teek hoon but today she wanting to talk with a cup of chai shows how far this Radha Kishen have progressed🧿🧿🧿 ** I am not sure if its my Itv brain but she saying this "nazar" waali line couple times hopefully is not foreshadowing on MaAn. Kanhaji dhyan rakcho💫🙏

MaAn address the concerns and fear of children so beautifully. Anuj is truly her sarthi when he gives her another perspective on it. His statements are on point when he says mindset and thoughts can change but eventually your values will bring you back to the person you are👏👏 Anu complimenting his chai and him and he returning it by asserting she is the best might seem like small moments but they are profound in building relationships. Its always the small things! There is a quote on marraige that goes " a good marraige is when each partner suspects they got the better deal"🥰❤❤ and MaAn are truly an example for that. They might not be married as per traditional norms but their souls are already home with each other🙌

Back at Tamashah house, Nandini confronts Vanraj about Kavya. I am not a fan of her character but today she does raise valid questions. Nandini is aghast at V's indifference to K's disappearance. He couldnt care less she is gone and infact seems happy about it. Kavya is no saint but trust me she deserves a better spouse than this trash bin!!🤬🤬

Nandini wants to know if he would sit around in case another family went missing and this silly man's justification is no one has committed as many mistakes as K in that house!!! Really Mr shah??? You may have retrograde amnesia but we dont! Baa was a monster for 25 yrs, Toshu and Pakhi were ungrateful wretches for most of part of their lives and abhi suddenly everyone is a saint and K is a blood hounding witch? Waaah!! When Nandini savegely responds that he has committed as many sins as Kavya, I wanted to seeti maaro at 6am in the morning😂😂 and obviously he doesnt have any defense so he yells " Nandiniiiiiiiiii"!! 😆😆

Precap- samar throws the ring and breaks all ties with Nandini. The way Vanraj says Samar is after all his blood looked like he is admitting to be being a jerk! Oh how I loathe him. Anu supports Nandu and locks horns with that devil raj! Anyone else felt samar is over reacting to the whole thing? As Nandini asks why do ppl at shah house have a problem admitting to their own mistakes? She has always stood against K when she was wrong but isnt it Samar's duty to stand by her when she needs him even though some of her points on Anu last week were illogical!! Samar turning into Mr shah is the last thing we want on the show plsss. We already have a toshu, we dont need more clones of that vampire 👺👹

Verdict- a good episode!! MaAn scenes were so soothing and matured just like a husband and wife sailing through challenges together. I loved how he was helping her in the kitchen..kapadia saab ab bass bhi karo!! Aur kitna pyaar karaoge🥺🥺😭💘💘 the entire epi if you observe seemed like a bird's nest. Some building it with care, gentleness and love like a weaver bird and some destroying it in the name of ego and selfishness like a crow or cuckoo!! Point is we always have a choice. Our life and relations are our making. So choose wisely! Gyaan katham! Epi katham!.

Have a wonderful day peeps! Let me know what you guys think😊

Disagreements are unavoidable but how we handle the disagreement can make the difference. That is something every couple has to learn to make their relationship a success.

Samar dances angrily at the academy recollecting all of Nandini’s accusations and Anupama tries her best to pacify him. He says his relationship is broken and he doesn’t want to marry Nandini because she doesn’t understand his family. He doesn’t want to be sandwiched between wife and family going forward. Anu tries to make him see Nandini’s POV. She says life isn’t a video game which can be over so quickly.

Other hand, Nandini cries that Samar doesn’t understand her and her concerns.

Both Samar and Nandini have valid points as well as invalid points. But they both are angry and in pursuit to make oneself correct and put other one wrong, they are not able to see the other person’s concern and POV. The anger has clouded their judgement and the relationship is on the verge of break up.

Anu returns back home and finds Anuj waiting for her. He offers her water and also ready to hear her problems if she wishes to share. Just simple gestures are enough to convey love and feeling soo happy about all the love and happiness coming to our ladki❤️❤️

He offers to make chai for her and then they continue chai pe charcha in the balcony… Anu shares that Samar seems scared of shaadi and commitment seeing failed relationships. She suggests that he rather learn from their mistakes not just see the mistakes. Anuj wanted to add many more things but waits till next morning. Ohhh their flirting game with chai bananewala and chai peenewali 😍😍😍🥰🥰

Next morning, both of them are in the kitchen and cooking. Anuj puts forth his opinion that Samar might not be afraid of commitment but maybe wanted to be more sure of his choice and decisions.

Their conversations are always lovely to listen to and I always find something or other to take away from their conversations.. bas nazar 🧿 na lage inko.. it was soo sensitive and sensible of Anuj to wait till next morning and then put forth his different opinion. Anu might have understood previous night itself but given her troubled state of mind, she may not have fully absorbed it. It isn’t always needed to pitch in your opinion right away but better to pitch in when time is right so that the other person can understand and process the thought. Had Samar and Nandini sat down and calmly discussed their concerns, then the issues would not have been this bad.

V- what a father👏👏👏 Son walks in tensed but he says Anu will handle him 🙄… itne acche pita kahan milenge. Oh he and his plans on becoming bada aadmi.. mujhe kuch bolna nahi abt it 😡🤢

I liked how Nandini came in and showed V the mirror 🪞 … V all he could do is shout “Nandini” When nothing works, he is back to his aukaat of shouting and yelling at woman.

Precap- I will reserve my comments on it till tomorrow.

What is this nazar lag jayegi humari by Anu for Maan? Makers you again are trying to play games for Maan then please refrain youself. Ek hi se to Anu to khushi milti hai, aisa karo wo bhi chin lo n ek hi se to hume khushi milti hai i.e. Maan wo bhi destroy kar do, waah makers what a move... Ya Aisa to nahi hai that this is coming from their own Little experience ki kuch din pahle makers to unki hi nazar lag gayi thi that they have to see so much outrage... Amazingly stupid of makers are thinking to saperate Maan in the name of this apni nazar lag gayi hai.... Hmmmm

Will write more for the episode afterwards abhi gussa likala.

Well sorry sunny for saying something negative, it's just that I still don't have trust in makers. So u may understand.

Waise for more, i write after sometime. Bz inhone Mera chai pe charcha ka concept liya hai, well i m super glad bz of that.

And morning me what i had to see, Anuj in my favourite night dress, blue wala. Ohh n in morning ALOO pile kar raha tha... 😆

Cuteness ki koi limit ni hoti Aaj samajh aa gaya.

Someone plzz help me...Ye vannu uncle ko nazar lagaane k liye kya procedure follow karna hai🤔

Interested in maan scenes baki family ke saath 😛

Waise Aaj maan day and today I am waiting for reel

Thank you Sunshine! 🤗

I also find it odd that V is seen partying after Kavya left abruptly. Who does that?

Yep, Samar is def. over reacting. Like you said, their whole argument appears a bit silly that has been going on for days now.🤔

I liked you analogy of nest ❤️👍🏼

btw, back in the days when Kinjal was newly married and V's affair was out in the public, she had also lashed out on her sasur. 😊

I am ROFL that this sasur has been told off by both his DILs!!🤔

Ek katori bhar ke gobar lo aur saale ke mooh pe pheko😂😂😂. Thopda katham, nazar katham😁😁🤣🤣

Originally posted by: shriz

Someone plzz help me...Ye vannu uncle ko nazar lagaane k liye kya procedure follow karna hai🤔

unhi se madad maang

itna mushkil kaam hum insaano ke bss mein nahi hum sirf tere liye dua kar sakte h😳

dekho ji koi bura mat manna

but precap mein jab samar ne wo ring pheki mujhe wo vanraj aur anu ke ghoongroo todne wala scene yaad aa gaya don't know why

i really really hope anu ke sanskar vanraj ke khoon par bhari hi rahe hamesha makers please😭

like you said ek toshu bahut h aur nahi chahiye😵

Was it just me who found Samar’s dance/workout quite funny 🤣🤣… or is it that I couldn’t connect to his dard bhaari kahani 🤣🤣