Mr AK, plz stop setting husband goals- Urs sincerely-Single gal forevr - Page 7

hello hello all lovely people!! Good Afternoon and hope everyone is having a good day so far🤗

Just caught up with the episode and a few posts here and before I get the urge to respond, I thought I will write what I have observed.

I have a different perspective with Samar today. Yes, maybe the screenplay was overdone, but where Samar is coming from has multiple layers and fear and pain. Let me tell you how.

Samar is a very sensitive person. He is more like his mother emotionally. When he loves someone he tries and gives his all. The first shocker he got was listening to Kavya brainstorming Nandu. Kavya anyways is not in his good books and when you listen to that very person instigating your love, you will immediately grow defensive and build a wall. Thats what Samar has done. Secondly, "the life father like son" comment has hit him really hard!! He has taken that comment to heart and knowing that Nandu knows he does not like his father, he still calls him as Mr Shah, has hurt him to the core and he has built another wall. And ofcourse, the fact remains that you learn from what you see. You perceive from what you observe. Both Pakhi and Samar (now), have perceived that Marriage is not for them. This is bound to fail. What Samar needs to learn is - patience, ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and think why is she saying this, not speak in anger as any decision taken in anger is not the right one, take 2 steps back maybe but not break a relation ( as it is very tough to build back a relation), trust your loved ones, make them calm and then have a conversation. Communication is the key and for a successful relation, its not about who wins, who is wiser, who is right; its about how do i keep the relation intact!! How much do i understand a situation and how do i help so that we grow. And this is a work for both the parties involved always. A mere fight can break a relation, but with this bridge of understanding, a big fight can still sustain a relation.

I love the contrast shown here between MaAn and all other relations. Their relation shows what it takes, what needs to be done to keep the relation stronger, intact as its precious. They both are involved and why - because they both want this relation equally and they both are working to make it more precious.

We easily say that we love each other. But we all know that loving someone in the true sense is not easy. Some people make it easy like MaAn and THIS unseen but wholeheartedly FELT quality is what makes a relation precious.

I am with Nandu on many points - but I still wonder why did she pull or blame Anu?? Is it because she expects Anu always to step in and make things right?? No matter what is served to ANu, she always should be the one to act appropriately??? Why behen???? She is already mahaan, what more do you want from this lady who already is a complete giver??? Today also she felt for Nandu, whereas Nandu very easily said that any is Anu aunty not saying anything????

Mukku is seeming sensible to me with every episode, but I will still reserve my comments a bit as I know the approaching scene will again make me wonder when will Mukku turn around. We have seen her unpredictability, she has questioned Anu in that first instance as to when she is staying with her Partner, why cant she stay as well. I still have reservations with Mukku's character arc. Sunny and I were discussing last night that what is going to trigger Anu to confess and mainly who. The only logical ans we got is Mukku. ANu anyways will not confess is any lame person questions her. Only a very close person questioning her will make her talk. And the only close, impactful person is Mukku. So we have to see how the circumstances change for Mukku to be in that position. At the end of the day, I want Mukku to be playing a big game with V. Let her play along, let people misunderstand her, but atleast give audience the hint that she is playing!! I would love to see V's pride being crushed by Anuj's sister!!

V is definitely going to manipulate Mukku. Its evident from today's scene and also from the scene that we might see tomorrow at work between Vamika!!

I like this Baa, hope she stays this logical when her son is questioned!

Finally coming to the "nazar", its true that people involved in a relation are solely responsible - an outsider is not. An outsider can only be an influence and only if we let them be!! Between MaAn, I dont have any worry, their build up is strong and is getting stronger. Yes, with Mukku involved there might be difference in perception, but there can never be any MUs. That will not make sense at all. They both understand each other too well, and they both never react in anger. This is both their plus points. Lets see how the plots are build up from now on.

And sisters, what ANuj did today is really really not that bar raising!! LOL, dont hit me. I have seen many many men who help their wives in the kitchen (in my own extended family), who pamper their wives and who think the well being of their wives before them. So today's acts actually was normal. Yep, it was a big deal for Anu as she has never got this attention and love from V. So from her angle, Anuj is the epitome of goodness for what he did today!!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

hello hello all lovely people!! Good Afternoon and hope everyone is having a good day so far🤗

Just caught up with the episode and a few posts here and before I get the urge to respond, I thought I will write what I have observed.

I have a different perspective with Samar today. Yes, maybe the screenplay was overdone, but where Samar is coming from has multiple layers and fear and pain. Let me tell you how.

Samar is a very sensitive person. He is more like his mother emotionally. When he loves someone he tries and gives his all. The first shocker he got was listening to Kavya brainstorming Nandu. Kavya anyways is not in his good books and when you listen to that very person instigating your love, you will immediately grow defensive and build a wall. Thats what Samar has done. Secondly, "the life father like son" comment has hit him really hard!! He has taken that comment to heart and knowing that Nandu knows he does not like his father, he still calls him as Mr Shah, has hurt him to the core and he has built another wall. And ofcourse, the fact remains that you learn from what you see. You perceive from what you observe. Both Pakhi and Samar (now), have perceived that Marriage is not for them. This is bound to fail. What Samar needs to learn is - patience, ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and think why is she saying this, not speak in anger as any decision taken in anger is not the right one, take 2 steps back maybe but not break a relation ( as it is very tough to build back a relation), trust your loved ones, make them calm and then have a conversation. Communication is the key and for a successful relation, its not about who wins, who is wiser, who is right; its about how do i keep the relation intact!! How much do i understand a situation and how do i help so that we grow. And this is a work for both the parties involved always. A mere fight can break a relation, but with this bridge of understanding, a big fight can still sustain a relation.

I love the contrast shown here between MaAn and all other relations. Their relation shows what it takes, what needs to be done to keep the relation stronger, intact as its precious. They both are involved and why - because they both want this relation equally and they both are working to make it more precious.

We easily say that we love each other. But we all know that loving someone in the true sense is not easy. Some people make it easy like MaAn and THIS unseen but wholeheartedly FELT quality is what makes a relation precious.

I am with Nandu on many points - but I still wonder why did she pull or blame Anu?? Is it because she expects Anu always to step in and make things right?? No matter what is served to ANu, she always should be the one to act appropriately??? Why behen???? She is already mahaan, what more do you want from this lady who already is a complete giver??? Today also she felt for Nandu, whereas Nandu very easily said that any is Anu aunty not saying anything????

Mukku is seeming sensible to me with every episode, but I will still reserve my comments a bit as I know the approaching scene will again make me wonder when will Mukku turn around. We have seen her unpredictability, she has questioned Anu in that first instance as to when she is staying with her Partner, why cant she stay as well. I still have reservations with Mukku's character arc. Sunny and I were discussing last night that what is going to trigger Anu to confess and mainly who. The only logical ans we got is Mukku. ANu anyways will not confess is any lame person questions her. Only a very close person questioning her will make her talk. And the only close, impactful person is Mukku. So we have to see how the circumstances change for Mukku to be in that position. At the end of the day, I want Mukku to be playing a big game with V. Let her play along, let people misunderstand her, but atleast give audience the hint that she is playing!! I would love to see V's pride being crushed by Anuj's sister!!

V is definitely going to manipulate Mukku. Its evident from today's scene and also from the scene that we might see tomorrow at work between Vamika!!

I like this Baa, hope she stays this logical when her son is questioned!

Finally coming to the "nazar", its true that people involved in a relation are solely responsible - an outsider is not. An outsider can only be an influence and only if we let them be!! Between MaAn, I dont have any worry, their build up is strong and is getting stronger. Yes, with Mukku involved there might be difference in perception, but there can never be any MUs. That will not make sense at all. They both understand each other too well, and they both never react in anger. This is both their plus points. Lets see how the plots are build up from now on.

And sisters, what ANuj did today is really really not that bar raising!! LOL, dont hit me. I have seen many many men who help their wives in the kitchen (in my own extended family), who pamper their wives and who think the well being of their wives before them. So today's acts actually was normal. Yep, it was a big deal for Anu as she has never got this attention and love from V. So from her angle, Anuj is the epitome of goodness for what he did today!!!

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Originally posted by: docritu99

Thanks for the lovely review as always! ❤️

I would like to keep it short today!

Nandini's points resonated with me about Vannu. He, of all the people, had no right to judge or question K. He's equally a sinner or even more! He keeps on chanting about how K backstabbed his family in the name of property papers when he went on to do the same with his own blood-related sister. Ittu si bhi sharam nahi hai iss aadmi ko.

Anu vs V toh jab aaega tab aaega, I toh even enjoyed Nandini Vs V today! She had the guts to question him (after Anu and Samar) I don't remember anybody else doing that, not even Baapuji I guess! Correct me if I'm wrong.

Also, am I missing something? All of a sudden Samar is wary of commitment and marriage due to trepidations from his parent's broken marriage? If I could remember, a few episodes ago, he was happily proposing Nandu to get married, weaving dreams about it and excitedly planning to talk about it to his mother and family.

I felt this little out of place.

Acc to me, Pakhi would have been a better child to portray this track of showing insecurities and dilemmas of children who come from broken families.

Samar was the child who never hesitated from forming new relationship, platonic and romantic both, as a part of experience from his parent's relation. In fact, he persuaded Nandini from his side, he initiated it. (Again, correct me if I'm wrong)

I applaud makers for pointing this stigma but I felt they chose the wrong character, and I'm worried they won't destroy the freshness and innocence of Samar's character for this purpose.

Feel free to disagree!

About MaAn, they had long passed the phase of confessions and validations. They are certain they are the end game, even to themselves! And that's saying something. Loving their slow progression and the little things that define their world.

Riya, I feel that Samar has a lot of things laying in his mind and all together has hit him. Read what i ahve written in my post. Yep, the screenplay was a bit too much but from his shoes the reasons have a role. He also needs to grow a lot and that is why they are showing it this way i feel.

Originally posted by: tintin0602

Haan to pri mai ek or baar aa gayi. I am in aww in the morning except the point which i said in the first page.

Well, do Maan needs to get married, really. May be for society but for them they are already husband and wife. Wo bhi pakke wale.

That chai conversation is amazing as well as deep. As he said that no matter Samar is changing his thoughts but no one can change the values. So Samar will again be on the right track. But what was that... Chai achi and chai banane wala? I don't know what to say here... But well she said bahut acha. Ab agar is gadhe ne confession sun ke shocked reaction Diya to mai mukka maar dungi makers ko. Anuj to sirf pyar ke liye hai.

Waise I dint know if anyone noticed that this chai conversation is done after the backlash when Anu n V conversation which was not required. And we fans demanded coffee or chai convo for Maan and see we got it.

And Anuj pahle flirt karta hai and then he checks the reactions and then again he flirts. This is my observation.😆

And yaar subah Aloo pile kar diya bolo. 🤣 Pri u know why the hell i am laughing😆

Matlab koi bhi aloo pike karte huye itna cute kaise lag sakta hai. Matlab what he wants that we single girls ek eligibility test rakhe ab ki jo Anuj karta hai wo karoge then i will get married to u🤣. I feel pity for males now😆

Waise whatever he said that Samar is trying to buy time, this is good that he is understanding Samar man to man.

Chalo for Shah i will comment later abhi i don't want to write in this cute and sweet post

yeah, Samar's core values will remain the same and once he has fully calmed down he will think through again. Momentarily he is too upset and is blinded by Nandu's few dailogs. So giving him time makes sense. But that Vaanraj is going to spoil more tom by looking at the precap!!! This man only knows to break things!!

I found it too funny..iskiliye itna build up tha BTS!! I had tweeted about it. If he went dancing after one fight with Nandini, then me dancing below after a fight with my mom every half hour 😂😂

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I agree to most of your points, G! I'm not questioning Samar's action and his outburst, though it's disproportionate, irrational, immature, guided by rage and blinded by insecurity. He's a flawed human at the end. He's bound to react and even over-react. The pin that has pricked him the most is his comparison with his father whom he absolutely despises and esp by the person (Nandani) whom he thinks knows him in and out.

My problem is the portrayal of the 'reason' behind it. The reason that he's 'phobic to commitment' as a trait imbibed by his familial experiences.

From what I can see, he's fearing the future where he might have been standing at his father's shoes, the fear of becoming another of Vanraaj's clone like Toshu and in his extreme desperation to prove otherwise, he's doing exactly the same.

He fears the fate of an 'end to his commitment' and not taking the commitment per se. And this definitely is the mirror of trauma he had seen and suffered, unfortunately, by his own father.

I know he's gonna come along! He's a sensible kid, he just need to keep aside the blinds of rage and betrayal (he thought he got from Nandini) After all, he is Anu's son! A plant that had been nurtured by her ideologies and sooner or later he's gonna prove it.

I hope I'm making sense.

like father like son ki starting samar ne ki

like masi like bhanji bolkar which was very very wrong

then ye sabki starting tab se hui jab mukku waha aakar ruki nandini ne apna POV samar ke saamne rakha but use samajhne ki jagah samar us par bhadak gaya ki tum kavya ki tarah extreme sochna band karo

ye baat sach h nandini ne hamesha kavya ko sunaya h aur uske khilaf rahi h like aaj baa ne kaha

ye baat bhi sahi h uska koi apna nahi h yaha samar ke paas sab h

uske baad jab usne kavya aur nandini ki baat suni tab nandini ki baat samajhne aur apni samjhane ki jagah wo waha se ye kehkar aa gaya ki meri family se itni problem h to soch lo shadi karni h ya nahi

in sabme na nandini ke paas koi tha use samjhane ke liye expect kavya jo to use samjhane se rahi aur samar ne kisi se baat ki nahi

aur ab bhi nandini ko gussa issiliye aaya ki uski masi ghar chodkar chali gayi aur kisi ko fark hi nahi pad raha everyone is apni masti mein mast

nandini ne abhi tak jo bhi kaha usme har baat sahi thi but phr wo out of nowhere anu then anuj then mukku ko beech mein le aayi aur waha wo sabse jyada galat thi because in sab mess mein un sabka koi lena dena nahi

and samar ko jab pehli baatein galat lagi to yaha to wo kahi na kahi galat thi hi

but today i really felt bad for her samar ke saath sab the but she was all alone aur aaj anu and baa dono ne try kiya samar ko samjhane ka but use kuch bhi nahi samjha

and in last scene with vanraj she was actually bang on

i m really hoping samar ka character sensible tha aur aage bhi rahe and in dono ki problems khatam ho jaye jaldi please

you all are free to disagree😊

Originally posted by: docritu99

I agree to most of your points, G! I'm not questioning Samar's action and his outburst, though it's disproportionate, irrational, immature, guided by rage and blinded by insecurity. He's a flawed human at the end. He's bound to react and even over-react. The pin that has pricked him the most is his comparison with his father whom he absolutely despises and esp by the person (Nandani) whom he thinks knows him in and out.

My problem is the portrayal of the 'reason' behind it. The reason that he's 'phobic to commitment' as a trait imbibed by his familial experiences.

From what I can see, he's fearing the future where he might have been standing at his father's shoes, the fear of becoming another of Vanraaj's clone like Toshu and in his extreme desperation to prove otherwise, he's doing exactly the same.

He fears the fate of an 'end to his commitment' and not taking the commitment per se. And this definitely is the mirror of trauma he had seen and suffered, unfortunately, by his own father.

I know he's gonna come along! He's a sensible kid, he just need to keep aside the blinds of rage and betrayal (he thought he got from Nandini) After all, he is Anu's son! A plant that had been nurtured by her ideologies and sooner or later he's gonna prove it.

I hope I'm making sense.

You did, however from where I see he is not fearing a commitment, he is assuming that as Nandu is not understanding his view point and blaming every member of his family, what is the point in taking this forward. To the extent she asked "what if this happens with me"!! This shows that deep down Nandu does not trust him and that is another point added to his many reasons. If you see that someone can be easily swayed, you will start thinking - do i really know her??? Will we work??? Many many questions might come. Only a very calm, grounded, mature person will stop himself from going into this well, and will talk to himself in a mature fashion. Samar is not that mature yet. So i feel its his time to learn too.

All points has made him this irrational, and has put him in a mode of "I will not listen"!! He is not thinking what Nandu reallly means, he just is thinking what all Nandu blamed him for.

Made sense?

I was just wondering while watching the episode again. Now that Anu is at Kapadia's, she is peacefully ogling..I mean looking at Mr. Kapadia peeling Aloo..at the same time as usual Tamashah house has one more argument going on..Atleast she is saved from the tamasha once in a while