One sided love- whats the difference? - Page 2

Originally posted by: hinz

Anu’s love for Vanraj was always one-sided, Vanraj was never in it for love, he looked for it elsewhere.

Anuj loved Anu for 26 years but again it was one-sided and Anu wasnt privy to it.

But still her love was right and his is wrong.

what makes it so different?

So it's a bit difficult for her to digest his love

Originally posted by: Meriam25

Par mujhe yeh reaction better laga than confronting him for his intentions.

Devika already said once anu sab ke liye progressive hai aur khud par bohat hi regressive soch rakhti hai.

I jus don't want her to hurt Anuj intentionally or unintentionally. Such a big business tycoon went all the way to make the good for nothing Shah's understand.

Anyways let's see how this goes

Mujhe Anuj ke liye bohat bura laga

He so deserves all the love

I feel so so so bad for him.

Hope makers yeh stretch na kare and they can go back to being frds atleast

Maybe Anuj shd leave to us or so he shd say and then maybe anu will realise his worth

this is her major drawback and time and again people have to preach her to do right!! At one point I hope this stops and she starts thinking for herself. yeah, this should not be stretched for TRPs :( and i still feel he will back off first realizing what he has done/said!!

By the way any inclination whether he knows that she heard???

Anu was never in love with vanraj as she was going to marry vanraj so she start loving him as she thought it's her duty to love him , it's part of her regressive thinking ki patni ko sirf apne pati se pyar karna chahiye moreover it was a crush from anu's side after seeing vanraj

I doubt Anu would had fell 4 d personality like vanraj after knowing him forget marriage pata nhi kavya ko vanraj mein kya dekha I found her first husband aniruddh better. No sane woman will marry vanraj .

More than upset anu is guilty that Anuj couldn't move forward coz of her & now he being insulted mercilessly by shah family. Some where she feels she cannot reciprocate anuj's feelings as she is scared to get commited again.

Anu was made to believe she don't deserve love , vanraj doing some ehsaan on her by marrying her or staying with her for past 26 yrs so when she knew an eligible & rich bachelor had been loving her for past 26 yrs so she cannot process this , she will definitely take time to accept this .

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

From Anu's point of view it can be wrong coz from the day one Anuj enters her life he and she had been accused for the relation they dont have and now all of a sudden it came out like this thar to in front of those reckless shahs who left no chance to demean them. Its a sign of worry for her that their pure relation will again questioned by them and now she cant justify it

Plus any normal person will behave hopeless and terrified and that person will definetly do who was in a abused relation for her life

true, samaj/society bahut hi buri bala hai and not everyone has the guts to stand against a whole mass!! Even though we are thankful that she has started to take a stand.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

true, samaj/society bahut hi buri bala hai and not everyone has the guts to stand against a whole mass!! Even though we are thankful that she has started to take a stand.

If she will behave opposite i will be surprised. This is the most genuine reaction. To accept love you need guts that of 26 year older and still on. And for this society where we live, on top of that at this age. Though Anu won't doubt his intentions but liking it or not all will say this that you got this partnership coz of his feelings for you which have already been told. All the attention care concern everything you just got out of love no such friendship exists where she knows Anuj never crosses his line nor he showed up his love for her to make her doubtful

I don't think so he knows that she knows but eventually he might think since he proclaimed in front of her whole family she might get to know

I dk how both of them are gonna react post this confession let's hope it goes the right way

Thoda doori toh teekh hai aage pata nahi

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

If she will behave opposite i will be surprised. This is the most genuine reaction. To accept love you need guts that of 26 year older and still on. And for this society where we live, on top of that at this age. Though Anu won't doubt his intentions but liking it or not all will say this that you got this partnership coz of his feelings for you which have already been told. All the attention care concern everything you just got out of love no such friendship exists where she knows Anuj never crosses his line nor he showed up his love for her to make her doubtful

Yep, it is to see how she fights this first and how they fight it together after!! This should not end up in a forced marriage for society sake as that is the most common way to escape this!!!! Ok, mind going overdrive again ..hahahahaha...

I really hope this is her take on the confession and not the usual doubting his intentions hurting him by distancing herself

Idk let's see how they take this forward

Prob was him confession to the Shah's

Originally posted by: Meriam25

I don't think so he knows that she knows but eventually he might think since he proclaimed in front of her whole family she might get to know

I dk how both of them are gonna react post this confession let's hope it goes the right way

Thoda doori toh teekh hai aage pata nahi

yeah, distance is good here mainly for her till she understands herself that he is not wrong!! Uske baad i want them to show society that they can just get lost!!! They have no rights to judge or comment on their lives and how to live!! I wish such progression is show, although i know it might not be.

But distance hoga bhi tho interim, nahin tho story kaise badega and also I am assuming parallely woh Karkhana kissa aayega

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Yep, it is to see how she fights this first and how they fight it together after!! This should not end up in a forced marriage for society sake as that is the most common way to escape this!!!! Ok, mind going overdrive again ..hahahahaha...

Hahaha.. this whole week we all will be behaving like this. Cant help it

But it has good signs also she has a son who is trying to make her understand, to make her comfortable with this new found love for her of him, to not do anything wrong out of hopeless and worry with him.. she will eventually come around, will get guts to accept and to reciprocate.

But ya no forced marriage out of society concern.. it wont be justified with both of them