No more Baa- Put the Maa back in Anupamaa

Signing the house papers away to Baa was an extremely stupid move on Anupamaa's part. Her mother was right in telling her to stay away from that street, she probably knew what her daughter was capable of. That house portion in her name would eventually go to her kids only, which she declared when she got it itself. In order to protect them atleast, she shouldn't have signed. But Baa ki chamchi that she is, mahaan Anupamaa has poured her children's security down the drain.

For a second she should think, if Kavya and Vanraj have a kid together, how would she secure her children's rights? Vanraj is already a terrible father. With a new wife and new kids, he'll easily forget even his current favorite children. He'll give them the Samar treatment even. They're already manipulating Baa and Bapuji to sign everything away from Anupamaa. Kavya can easily manipulate this all in her name soon enough. And if she drags Vanraj down with her who cares. And if Baa loses everything, it really wouldn't matter. But as a mother, Anupamaa needs to again think like a mother only.

She should stop bowing down to Leela in the hopes of winning back her love. If you're such a strong mother, you need to use your brain for once and think about the state of your children in that house. Samar is with her only. Toshu is married so not someone to be concerned about. But Pakhi is still a child in school and living in that hellhouse. Considering how little everyone in that house seems to care about Dolly and how easily now she'll be asked to sign her share away, Anupamaa should atleast attempt to secure something for Pakhi. I have no doubt some day in the future Toshu will harm his siblings the way Vanraj is now.

Sure, Anupamaa will earn, be a millionaire and give to her children only. But securing their share in that house is also necessary in my opinion. They all care so much about Haq in that house, this is one such Haq someone needs to care about then.

And the way everyone says she can't come back to this house and shouldn't be seen around here. She still has children living in that house. To hell with Toshu, he is garbage. But atleast Pakhi is on the right side of this issue and standing up for her mother and genuinely seems to love her. They can deny Anupamaa many things but they cannot deny her her rights as a mother to her children. Someone should point that out soon, hopefully Anupamaa herself or even Pakhi.

When the portion of property was given to her Anupama received it as a blessing. After signing the papers without sharing the reason she says she feels light.

I'm sure baar was never in favour of a share for Anupama as she never considered her as her own.

Pakhi was her father's weakness. We have to wait and watch if Vanraj remains the same of changes in his response to Pakhi.

If a father is so insecure and thinks of only himself but not his children, it is better children move out of his influence,

Vanraj has not given emotional stability. He is an abusive parent. If this is the manner he treats my mom and aunt I would prepare myself for the worst treatment. Money is a crucial factor but can't be the only factor to stay bonded.

Not all are Vanya.

Did anyone notice K that Kavya was hiding the name when she directed Anupama to sign. The Share has actually transferred to Kavya stupid Vanraj has still not realized this. Waiting for the day for Leela to find out how Kavya said it will be under her name and find out that the papers were drawn to be transferred to Kavya. you can clearly see "K" under her finger.

Fact is, Vanraj only likes his children for what they represent to him. And he already can't seem to stand Pakhi taking Anupamaa's side and standing up for her even during that big fight. Moreover, we saw how jealous he got when Anuj merely went and spoke to Pakhi at the Bhumi Poojan. The way he's disowning everyone who calls him out on his disgusting actions like the sister he loved so much he did all these sacrifices for which he loves to count out and throw in her face, I'm sure his love for Pakhi is just as flimsy and conditional. The fact that he married Kavya, doesn't he atleast remember and know what she's capable of? He's Mr. educated, career professional and so far superior, how can HE not read the documents he's making everyone sign. And also why does he have those papers ready sitting at home? He was already planning on snatching his sister's rights? He really is the devil. And the fact that Baa who hates Anupamaa and never accepted her made her sign. How could she let her own daughter's rights be taken away? Despite whatever Dolly said, parents can say it right back but when you favor one child over the other and allow them to snatch each other's things, you're a really terrible parents. I also love how nobody brought up Bapuji. Is this not still technically his house? Worst part is when Kavya kicks them all out they'll probably land up at Anupama's doorstep and she'll be back to being a maid. And all of this is why Anupamaa should never have signed those papers. She should have said let me call Bapuji and if he approves I'll sign. But no, as evidenced even in today's episode, she is OBSESSED with Baa who literally treats her like dirt. That's why she needs a wake up call to ditch Baa and be a Maa. Time to secure your children who treat you like a mother. Penthouse damaad should only get thappads from his maayka. Pakhi and Samar deserve a future where they're not deprived of their rights.

I did see that but I went back and it also included Leela's name and the K I think stands for the name of the house, something Kunj. But that hidden K could later be used as the hidden Kavya agenda too. I think the makers left it open ended in that way

Agreed that Vanraj loves only himself. As long as they sing his praises and has adulation for him they are his. The moment they question him or point the error in his actions he silences them with repetitive screams is this how you speak to your father.

It is sad that a man like him who claims to have built the house with his sweat and blood should get it the way he does. So much for his love for his family his parents whom he claims to worship.

Kavya manipulates and claims it to be the law of the universe!

I hope Samar or Kinjal point out to him how he was duped by a woman he claimed to be the love of his life but who is on reality what he named her to be a Chudail.

Yes who keeps the documents ready without having the intent to get it signed? It was part of the scheme. It got acted on today that's it. Such a despicable act.

The thing that I can't stand about him saying he did all these things is like nobody put a gun to your head to do those things, so why turn around and throw it in their faces years later because you're losing control of the situation. It's really pathetic. If you're doing something out of love you don't remember it and count those favors to throw it at them when the time comes. If Dolly had known when she was younger that this was how she'd be asked to repay, would she have ever accepted those things in the first place? And as for his blood sweat and tears to build this house. He had the ability to do that because of the unpaid, time consuming labour of his wife who took care of everything in home and family so he could focus on earning. His belief that he only has done everything alone and he only has suffered when in reality all he's done is cause suffering to others while still victimizing himself. Utter loser mentality. So he really deserves what's coming to him if you ask me. And maybe when he turns around and destroys his own family and his relationship with his children himself, Pakhi will realize her hero is a terrible human being and she should have valued her mother a long time ago. Though I believe she does realize her mother's importance and this family's blatant sexism quite well now. It must really hurt her I would think to see how poorly they all reacted to Anupamaa's personal and professional successes because she should see how they will treat her in the future. Eye opening times for this child, I hope they show her realizing these things and grappling with the misogynistic thinking of her beloved father and brother who will undoubtedly one day try to do this to her as well.

Couldn't have put it better. Vanraj acts as though he should get a Seva Chakra or a Bharat Rathna for what he had done. That too for his family not outsiders.

I'm sure if they had known he'd throw it at their face like this Dolly and bapuji would never have received favours from him.

This is h o w any decent first born takes care of the family's need in several cases.

I don't think they go about proclaiming it as a sign of Sainthood that should absolve them of all else they do to I'll treat others.

If you recall the way Leela refers to Kantaben and Anupama it is no surprise how Vanraj and his Ladla turned out to be such rotten eggs.

It will be the same women who will rescue him and where will Saint Vanraj go that day I wonder.

The goodness of a person manifests in their words and actions and their thinking process.

Vanraj deserves the choicest terms to describe his selfishness and vile thinking.