Adi-Imlie perform the aarti together - Page 8

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

as well aparna's Answer still was Kinda stickign to her stand she does feel galtiyaan hui hais till and Kya sacha kay jhoota she cnanot tell again it is very twsited and iw sih they amke her say it clealry but it was pointing towards her disbeleif is Misjudging Golden bahua nd Imlie i guess so now she cannot Be the one Makign one mroe bad decision for rupi hahah But koi baat nahi she is kaafi for herself to make bad decisions Aparna ji

Aparna ka self confidence totally hilaa hua hai aajkal....she is quite humbled and mellowed by the bizarre circumstances they've all witnessed in the last many months.....lol but it always makes me laugh when one of the Ts goes, "pichhle kuch dino mein is ghar mein jo bhi hua".....seriously kuch DIN? lol don't they mean MONTHS?😆.....or is she only talking about Janmashtami onwards stuff? lol the drugging, rape, pregnancy is where her sadma began? Usse pehle sab theek tha jab beta almost marr gaya 2-3 baar?😆

But anyways, yeah aajkal they are giving Aparna these kind of dialogues showing that she has lost that confidence in herself about how to judge people and figure out what's right or wrong....so she seems to mostly just want to be in a neutral/passive stage (just like her son😆) ki jo bhi chal raha hai chalne dete hain without taking big righteous stands against anyone.....lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

That was the best part of it. Imli is the dorr jo saath chalegi dheel degi and time pe sab sambhal legi unliek yeh bedi.. again yes some people choose to have bediyan in their feet not imlie's sar dard to deal with them since they claim to be adults well Good for them.. Imlie knows where she stands what ti si for her and adi knows tooi tehy botha re ont he same Page regarding what a shaadi is and usko kasie chalana padta hai and the results are indeed showing.. with each day passing they are seenchopoing it with pyaar vishwaas saath and aadar and understanmding hence theya re turning into this Beautiufl beautiful Partnership .. ..

I'm suddenly hit by the fact that this is a HUGE evolution for Imlie also in her thought process and understanding of marriage......remember, this was the girl who once considered shaadi to be pinjra....it was Adi back then who opened her mind up to the perspective of saathi sahi ho toh rishta pankh ban jaata hai......and aaj Imlie bhi usi point ko reiterate kar rahi hai ki jab shaadi sahi na ho, toh woh dor bhi bedi hi ban jaati hai......man, how LONG has it taken Imlie to understand this, zara socho. This is the girl who was once adamant ki Adi nibhaao his shaadi to Malini at any cost without realizing ki jab Adi usmein khush nahin hoga toh woh bediyaan hi hongi.....now that same Imlie is herself talking about the fact ki jab shaadi galat hoti hai toh woh BEDIYAAN ban jaati hain and you have to BREAK the bediyaan to be truly happy👏.

Imlie ki mahaanta se humesha fed up rehne waalon ne yeh bhi nahin notice kiya how far Imlie has evolved on the subject of marriage and what makes for the right partner and a happy marriage.

The Imlie who once used to be debilitated in manipulative guilt by Malini over "7 saal ka rishta" has now fully overcome that to the point where she can give assertive responses back to Malini about how time spent together doesn't decide whether the rishta is apt....it is how you nurture it and protect it through all storms that decides its fate.

In some ways, Adi also deserves the credit for never backing down from reinforcing the absolution of his love for Imlie.....that is what has brought about the Imlie we see today - totally confident in his love for her even as they are navigating these uncomfortable situations...but Imlie now shines with more confidence than ever in the love her and Adi share as well as her strong conviction in their bond as partners in marriage.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Arey yaar, Rupi ne naak katvaa hi di after all😆

Hence proved, all Ts are born losers😆.....forever destined to willingly offer themselves up for abuse from criminals👏.....Adi kis muh se Rupi ko advice de raha hai jab 7 saal khud ek daayan ke saath ghooma and now claims ki ise logon ki pehchaan hai?😆. Tu rehen de, Adi.....dikh raha hai tujhe kitni pehchaan hai😆.

Baaki this Rupi-Pranav angle seems like a setup to cut down Malini's delusions about "lambaa rishta sabse gehra hota hai" and supposedly being married on paper means ki wohi rishta saccha hai......lol Adi and Imlie took turns cutting her bakwaas down to size so atleast that was good👍🏼.

Not that it will make any real difference to the psycho but atleast family ke saamne yeh points khul ke express kiye jaa rahe hain that rishta doesn't become strong simply over the length of time or a token piece of paper.....it has to be nurtured constantly with love and respect. Malini has no idea of such concepts given the cheap loser she is and Pranav is also an obvious criminal. Waah kya damaad-bahu chunte hain Ts *slow claps*.

Also liked how Imlie made that point about bediyaan to Malini....."Agar shaadi sahi na ho, toh dor aur bedi mein koi farak nahin hota....aur khush rehne ke liye bediyaan todni padti hain"👏.......in her own way, Imlie managed to make the point both about Rupi's marriage as well as her own with Adi - something that is beyond M's comprehension cuz all she can gloat about is maine kisko 7 saal control kiya.....mehh

Rupi pe words waste karna pointless hai since she wants to willingly be an actual doormat to the man who cheated on her for so many years.....lol at her guts to chide Imlie over this ki I shouldn't have to explain to you why I want to go back to the man who cheated on me with another woman cuz "pyar kabhi khatam nahin hota"🤔😆......Anyways jab aage phir dhoka khaayegi toh aake ro legi Imlie ke saamne phir se.....sabhi loser Ts ki yehi rinse/repeat destiny hai😆

BK ka neck brace will be on throughout this "redemption" mode of his, kya? lol

And this Pranav spent a whole day trying to get one red paint ka stain off his hand? lol a stain that Imlie is still clueless about for contrivance😆.....pendrive ka yaad bhi hai isko?😆

@bold 1 & 4 - Now we know even more clearl how mentally weak Ts are. I really can't believe a women ready to move with a man he clearly cheated on her with other women. Who let her leave him with child. and suddenly one day he appears and you forgave him... I don't know what himmat is needed to take such weak step.... It was not a day or 2 ka narazi but years and he got forgiven in one day... this is called no self respect. And Radha, which mother is so eager to get rid of her daughter to send immediately with a man who cheated on her daughter... What kind of lady is she? Aparna ka I ma holding, i want her to open up bit more about her POV.

@bold 2 - yes discussion is happening in open now and these people are somewhere understanding slowly. It is taking time as these belief of relation/Society is inbuilt in them. And M- what bakwas does she keep saying. She is talking about Pati Patni ka rishta.. blah blah... Toh you are not Adi's Patni. Imlie is. But nice Adi showed her mirror today of Kazi Rishta and see M's face on that..... Even Imlies dialougue on saloon ka rishta was kind of answer to M's 7 saal ka rishta jaap. Loving how Adi is openly shuting this lady these days.

Side note for Adi - Kazi Rishta is nothing agar maan nahi milte and I mean that is the reason this guy keeps forgetting about Divorce with M 😆 and registry of marriage with Imlie. Bhai kerwa lo yeh sab kaam kam se kam kisis ka bharam toh tootega. I mean how lazy this man is... 😆 . Apne Tape Recorder se kaam chala leta hai apna. 😆

@bold 3 - Yes. It was not a rishta but bediyaan - I remember i used this analogy few days back... This she is a bediyan and Adi is dragging himself towards Imlie coz of this bediyan - I said in terms of Malini along with Bachca.

In addition to this - We got one more answer today - this also we have been saying that chor ke jana is not solution. You have to be their and work on relation to make it strong. She knew Adi did not cheat her, haan he broke her Vishwas by deleting the vdo, but if someone does not think the way you think you just don't leave the person. One have to work to show correct path. Stay there like strong Tree. That is what i feel Imlie is. If she would have left in name of self respect then how would she work on the relation and make Adi and Family understand the true face. Offcourse she would have risen on career front but rishta .. the respect that she is earning now with her work is more appreciable than just leaving and going.

Haan if Adi would have cheated on her then offcourse staying there would have been a complete self respect issue. But she knows he love her and she is only his wife. So Rupi please do not compare Pranav's case with Imlie-Adi.

@bold 5 - 😆 and paint went on increasing exponentially

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Aparna ka self confidence totally hilaa hua hai aajkal....she is quite humbled and mellowed by the bizarre circumstances they've all witnessed in the last many months.....lol but it always makes me laugh when one of the Ts goes, "pichhle kuch dino mein is ghar mein jo bhi hua".....seriously kuch DIN? lol don't they mean MONTHS?😆.....or is she only talking about Janmashtami onwards stuff? lol the drugging, rape, pregnancy is where her sadma began? Usse pehle sab theek tha jab beta almost marr gaya 2-3 baar?😆

But anyways, yeah aajkal they are giving Aparna these kind of dialogues showing that she has lost that confidence in herself about how to judge people and figure out what's right or wrong....so she seems to mostly just want to be in a neutral/passive stage (just like her son😆) ki jo bhi chal raha hai chalne dete hain without taking big righteous stands against anyone.....lol

Aparna ke bare me i am holding to write anything. I want to wait and see how she is progressing. Will keep reading yours all view on her.. She is confused and thus I am confused with respect to her.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Very well said👏.....this is exactly who Imlie is.....but it's amazing that people don't see that in the name of wanting to gratuitous gestures or token pseudo feminist stances.....token stances se kya achieve hota hai life mein? Do people even understand that in the need for wanting all these empty gestures?😕😆

The single most CRITICAL point in all this that people keep glossing over is that Imlie's husband GENUINELY loves her and values her.....matlab yeh ek basic point sab skip over kar lete hain in trying to claim ki deleting one video is the greatest betrayal ever LOL and also making up imaginary claims of him caring more about M.....agar Imlie REALLY believed this to be true, she would have indeed left him....pehle bhi kar chuki hai and she has the strength to walk away again cuz she isn't dependent on a man for validation. If she has stayed, it's because she believes in his love and commitment towards her.....she is disappointed in him about other things but she does not doubt his love for her - she believes that he considers her a life partner in the complete sense and that is why she is showing the true meaning of SAATH.

Their value systems align as husband-wife, that is why their marriage is weathering all storms.....this was reiterated yesterday also with the way Adi also spoke up in saying that shaadi SAATH se chalti hai, PYAR se chalti hai, not through token registrations on paper.....and contrary to what many here try to claim, Adi has very much given Imlie's SAATH through almost every situation even when they've disagreed or clashed.....giving saath doesn't mean participating in every mission or task with her directly but he's always given her that faith as her husband that he will stand by her.....saath ka matlab ji huzoori nahin hota (that is what Malini types think that saath means blind support).....saath ka matlab hota hai weathering all storms together and still standing by each other.....that is what Adilie are doing and that is why Imlie is standing with him too despite the things they disagree on.

While I do appreciate that Adi respects Imlie's emotional and mental strength and accepts that he cannot survive without her.....at the same time, the writers do take it too far sometimes in just showing him passive and observant while Imlie is doing everything.....lol that balance isn't always maintained. Still I would not use that as license to say that this isn't really a partnership.....it very much is.....they are partners in the true sense in always standing up for each other.

See he is so active when his work is related. He puts all his brain on that front. he is that kind of person. And many people are there - Men or Women - they will be very smart on one front but not other front. I see Adi as a character. If I visualize him as a typical hero, i will be disappointed. But he is a character who has different shades. Kabhi Kabhi heropanti dikha deta hai... that is different😆 And also there are many people out there who are smart in career as well has handling relationship - Imlie types.

So this is partnership balance - If one is weak on one front and other is strong and understanding is good and support is there it goes well . Vishwas and Love should be there...

I know this is not an excuse. I myself have been so upset with him so many times but slowly i am realizing that i should see him as character which have these plus and minus features...

😆Hope i made some sense.

Rupi di kya bakwas hai yeh...dimaag sach mein kharab ho chuka hai....khud se puch rahi hai ki why is he here after all these years but uske baad complete track derail hua lol....waise toh she keeps saying that the family doesn’t let her finalise the divorce and make her own choices and jab unhone choose karne ko bola...this is the choice she made LOL....aur upar se Imlie should know better than anyone else why she made this decision it seems....huh?....sorry but Adi is no Pranav so let’s not make false parallels to justify your wrong decision....chodo aap pe aur time waste nahi karna

anyway iss bahane asal waale barabar ke saathi Imlie and Adi declared ki actual mein rishta kaise chalat hai...so again despite all the aandhi-toofan isn’t their pyaar, vishwaas, aadhar, sammaan intact?....toh saath kyun chode just cuz the entire world wants...hope this answers why they remain together and give ek dusre ke saath cuz rishta roz ka kaam hai..and it’s a commitment..not some technicality on paper that sign karo and bhool jaao....and while their core and foundation remains unshaken why are they expected to give up

baaki Aparna is admitting to not being able to differentiate between right and wrong anymore..kaun sacche aur kaun jhoote....that’s a huge thing to be unsure about Aparna ji..so may be go with your instincts on why your bond with you real bahu Imlie is so apna and deep and not chains of technicalities and obligations

ROFL totally agree ki sab ke sab losers..only sensible Tripathi is Imlie Tripathi - crisis manager for salvaging all the galat rastas and galat faislas that her family dives into

Originally posted by: tellyme

Agree on this. He puts all the load on Imlie's shoulder and ask her to proceed as he supports her. It is not a license at all of but this Banda is very lazy I am telling you. It is his faulty nature. He has accepted also that he doesn't understand this family handling matter. If he would have been so smart then how would pea sized brain wali M would have been using him for so many years. He was so lazy kee chalne do jaise chal raha hai.

See he is so active when his work is related. He puts all his brain on that front. he is that kind of person. And many people are there - Men or Women - they will be very smart on one front but not other front. I see Adi as a character. If I visualize him as a typical hero, i will be disappointed. But he is a character who has different shades. Kabhi Kabhi heropanti dikha deta hai... that is different😆 And also there are many people out there who are smart in career as well has handling relationship - Imlie types.

So this is partnership balance - If one is weak on one front and other is strong and understanding is good and support is there it goes well . Vishwas and Love should be there...

I know this is not an excuse. I myself have been so upset with him so many times but slowly i am realizing that i should see him as character which have these plus and minus features...

😆Hope i made some sense.

Lol I’m not expecting heropanti from him either 😆….I guess we’ve discussed this point before that we don’t expect him to be the usual heroic ML saving the day. He’s more in that aam aadmi space as a character, and I do get that.

Trust me, I am the last person to have ANY expectations from him now cuz that’s how nikamma he has been rendered by the writers since a while now 😆….mera toh default hai ki Adi se kuch bhi na expect karo as you watch the story. lol he’s in his own head most of the time and also mostly an escapist. More than lazy, I’d call him an escapist who doesn’t want to deal with uncomfortable situations even when they are of his own making😆.

He’s a good person and does genuinely love and value Imlie so we take his flaws in stride just like Imlie does. But to make for an engaging story, they do need to balance the give and take in a partnership better. Adi has different strengths than Imlie, I get that. He plays the part of boosting her self esteem when she feels weighed down by family and logon ki demeaning. Fair enough. He refuses to give up on their relationship even when she has wanted to many times now…so yes he’s done his part. But I do feel the passivity is too much now.

When Imlie was the one faltering and he used to boost her self esteem, Imlie wasn’t made this passive a character…she still took on many other tasks and managed them. But with Adi, he is being scapegoated in this track for the sake of drag ki just slot everything as “gharelu maamle” that Adi can’t mentally cope with so he will just stand around like a statue waiting for Imlie to manage everything 🤷‍♀️😂….yeh toh is taking it a bit far, no? Even if he can’t be allowed to see M ka truth yet in the story, it’s still a stretch to show him this passive just waiting for directions from Imlie about what to do 😆…..again, I’m not denying that the partnership aspect is still coming through in subtle ways but Adi deserves better as a character than just waiting to see how Imlie manages everything. Lol if this is writers ka way of showing he trusts her more than anyone, then also it’s an oversimplification 😆….it can be written better than this but unfortunately they would rather drag the gimmicks of M ki cheap plotting toh aise hi chalega for now 🤷‍♀️.

Originally posted by: tellyme

Watched the epi...

Side note for Adi - Kazi Rishta is nothing agar maan nahi milte and I mean that is the reason this guy keeps forgetting about Divorce with M 😆 and registry of marriage with Imlie. Bhai kerwa lo yeh sab kaam kam se kam kisis ka bharam toh tootega. I mean how lazy this man is... 😆 . Apne Tape Recorder se kaam chala leta hai apna. 😆

Lol of course we knew it pehle se hi that divorce is just a piece of paper to both Adi and Imlie. 😆…if Adi really felt ki he won’t be able to consider Imlie his wife without finalizing the divorce with M, toh yeh pehle khada hota line mein to quickly get that divorce done with. But neither him, nor Imlie feel that divorce finalizing has any bearing on the validity of their marriage 😆….they are content aapas mein ki Humari shaadi mein saath aur pyar hai so who cares about kaagazi shaadi with M 😆.

Malini herself used to once claim ki being married on paper alone means nothing. Lol ab she’s in despo mode toh suddenly she feels being married on paper alone means everything 🤷‍♀️.

Divorce finalizing also falls under “gharelu maamle” now so naazuk Babusahib ki capacity se baahar hai manage karna 😛😆

Sabse badi beizzati toh M ki hi ho rahi hai in not finalizing the divorce…lol Adi has made it clear to her that he will never consider her his wife even with the child involved…being married on paper means nothing to him, but she still has grand delusions that once the baby is here, Adi will suddenly be like M meri patni? 😆….This guy is fully capable of playing his “Sirf Imlie Humari patni hai” tape recorder in front of the baccha also 🤷‍♀️😂….toh is sab mein izzat toh sirf M ki jaayegi ki baccha paida karke bhi she won’t get any recognition as Adi’s wife 🤷‍♀️…..getting the divorce would be a key to her self respect but obviously she has no self respect so 🤷‍♀️😂

Agree with all the analysis AY- sorry can’t type much as I am already at work ha ha

Sorry I shouldn’t have typed up the spoiler here haha.. but looks like some movement in the pen drive track -acc to the clues from Rupi di’s story - but I am sure fierce imaliya will come out strong as expected.

Will pitch in with more thoughts when I get some time 🤗

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Agree with all the analysis AY- sorry can’t type much as I am already at work ha ha

But just wanted to put it out there- will be back to pitch in 😆

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Just curious if Adi's going to be involved in these gharelu maamle now based some developments in the pen drive track😆