Originally posted by: tellyme
exactly so true... She is facing her issues and putting efforts to show truth to her husband.. She knows her husband is with her and he values her... And thus she is here and also help her husband face the truth... That is her level of strength... And people are talking about her self respect.. Matlab husband ko chor do to self respect hai... This is called pseudo feminism.. If a man is expected to stand by woman in her mishappening why not women.. That is what Imlie is doing.. It is Barabari ka rista... But I guess people are not able to see that depth.. Standing with someone over your own pain need strength. Imlie is not here coz she does not know where to go from here... Woh toh apna rasta banana legi. She is staying there for Adi.. He needs her support...
And other female are weak.. Like akelapan etc.. Men ne bulaya air chal diye.. No one here is match to Imlie... Best thing about Adi is he knows the strength and power of Imlie and respect that... Accept that his wife is mentally way stronger than him and thus Imlie aas pass na ho toh hil jata hai... Pyar toh hai hi..
@bold: Very well said👏.....this is exactly who Imlie is.....but it's amazing that people don't see that in the name of wanting gratuitous gestures or token pseudo feminist stances.....token stances se kya achieve hota hai life mein? Do people even understand that in the need for wanting all these empty gestures?😕😆
The single most CRITICAL point in all this that people keep glossing over is that Imlie's husband GENUINELY loves her and values her.....matlab yeh ek basic point sab skip over kar lete hain in trying to claim ki deleting one video is the greatest betrayal ever LOL and also making up imaginary claims of him caring more about M.....agar Imlie REALLY believed this to be true, she would have indeed left him....pehle bhi kar chuki hai and she has the strength to walk away again cuz she isn't dependent on a man for validation. If she has stayed, it's because she believes in his love and commitment towards her.....she is disappointed in him about other things but she does not doubt his love for her - she believes that he considers her a life partner in the complete sense and that is why she is showing the true meaning of SAATH.
Their value systems align as husband-wife, that is why their marriage is weathering all storms.....this was reiterated yesterday also with the way Adi also spoke up in saying that shaadi SAATH se chalti hai, PYAR se chalti hai, not through token registrations on paper.....and contrary to what many here try to claim, Adi has very much given Imlie's SAATH through almost every situation even when they've disagreed or clashed.....giving saath doesn't mean participating in every mission or task with her directly but he's always given her that faith as her husband that he will stand by her.....saath ka matlab ji huzoori nahin hota (that is what Malini types think that saath means blind support).....saath ka matlab hota hai weathering all storms together and still standing by each other.....that is what Adilie are doing and that is why Imlie is standing with him too despite the things they disagree on.
While I do appreciate that Adi respects Imlie's emotional and mental strength and accepts that he cannot survive without her.....at the same time, the writers do take it too far sometimes in just showing him passive and observant while Imlie is doing everything.....lol that balance isn't always maintained. Still I would not use that as license to say that this isn't really a partnership.....it very much is.....they are partners in the true sense in always standing up for each other.
Edited by AreYaar - 3 years ago