Adi-Imlie perform the aarti together - Page 10

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Very well said👏.....this is exactly who Imlie is.....but it's amazing that people don't see that in the name of wanting gratuitous gestures or token pseudo feminist stances.....token stances se kya achieve hota hai life mein? Do people even understand that in the need for wanting all these empty gestures?😕😆

The single most CRITICAL point in all this that people keep glossing over is that Imlie's husband GENUINELY loves her and values her.....matlab yeh ek basic point sab skip over kar lete hain in trying to claim ki deleting one video is the greatest betrayal ever LOL and also making up imaginary claims of him caring more about M.....agar Imlie REALLY believed this to be true, she would have indeed left him....pehle bhi kar chuki hai and she has the strength to walk away again cuz she isn't dependent on a man for validation. If she has stayed, it's because she believes in his love and commitment towards her.....she is disappointed in him about other things but she does not doubt his love for her - she believes that he considers her a life partner in the complete sense and that is why she is showing the true meaning of SAATH.

Their value systems align as husband-wife, that is why their marriage is weathering all storms.....this was reiterated yesterday also with the way Adi also spoke up in saying that shaadi SAATH se chalti hai, PYAR se chalti hai, not through token registrations on paper.....and contrary to what many here try to claim, Adi has very much given Imlie's SAATH through almost every situation even when they've disagreed or clashed.....giving saath doesn't mean participating in every mission or task with her directly but he's always given her that faith as her husband that he will stand by her.....saath ka matlab ji huzoori nahin hota (that is what Malini types think that saath means blind support).....saath ka matlab hota hai weathering all storms together and still standing by each other.....that is what Adilie are doing and that is why Imlie is standing with him too despite the things they disagree on.

While I do appreciate that Adi respects Imlie's emotional and mental strength and accepts that he cannot survive without her.....at the same time, the writers do take it too far sometimes in just showing him passive and observant while Imlie is doing everything.....lol that balance isn't always maintained. Still I would not use that as license to say that this isn't really a partnership.....it very much is.....they are partners in the true sense in always standing up for each other.

Plus 100.. just caz adi stays chup doesn't mean he is not with her he has been with HER at every point of time even when she was the one saying he is dhokebaaz.. yes the problem is sometimes he isn't as vocal but that doesn't change the fact that she has that vote of confidence and again that is something they have worked upon and together built it..as they say humne yahan tak aane ke liye bohat lamba safar kia hai..what we both have gone through only we understand as they credit each other with the reasons for them being alive..these things are not just inserted or said in their case for TRP and seetis these are the facts..🤷‍♀️ that majority seems to ignore caz they actually do come in the most organic way.. even this whole yesterday scene where they showed how much their mental wavelengths match in terms of what a shaadi is. They understand it caz they practice it and have always have baaki kehne ko toh koi bhi bhashaan de sakta hai ratti hui lines bolna is so easy which rupi ji and malini ji were doing but none of 9t held any weight caz a) is it all complete bullshit and b) these women themselves contradict what they say and are just saying kitaabi baatein when inke actions are totally opposite to it

While I do want stronger stands from adi too more often but he has never backed off from supporting Imlie and being her PILLAR just like she has NEVEr EVER faltered in this matter.. she may say the trust is shaken or that he doesn't understand her or kuch bhi woh khud kabhi nahi hategi peeche and is these doesn't matter what kismat and zamaana throws at her .. they will weather it all just for the simple FACT that they love each other and kya kar sakte hain wih sirf yeh jaante hain and kisi ko batane ki zaroorat nahi hai as again

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Aparna ka self confidence totally hilaa hua hai aajkal....she is quite humbled and mellowed by the bizarre circumstances they've all witnessed in the last many months.....lol but it always makes me laugh when one of the Ts goes, "pichhle kuch dino mein is ghar mein jo bhi hua".....seriously kuch DIN? lol don't they mean MONTHS?😆.....or is she only talking about Janmashtami onwards stuff? lol the drugging, rape, pregnancy is where her sadma began? Usse pehle sab theek tha jab beta almost marr gaya 2-3 baar?😆

But anyways, yeah aajkal they are giving Aparna these kind of dialogues showing that she has lost that confidence in herself about how to judge people and figure out what's right or wrong....so she seems to mostly just want to be in a neutral/passive stage (just like her son😆) ki jo bhi chal raha hai chalne dete hain without taking big righteous stands against anyone.....lol

Haha yeah again as imlie said jaisi Amma waisa beta..🤣 we can clearly see where adi gets it all..again am not putting much coins in this bucket caz they can flip her again too anytime but it still feels kinda nice ke atleast she is showing some kind of introspection that she has bee wrong and their is acceptance about it ke haan galti hp gayi toh I will take it for now..

Baaki pichle kuch dino is becoming jab humm pehli baar PD gaye thay ab🤣 And again they would not consciously ever accept that problems weeee there far before pichle kuch din but oichle kuch din just feels easier to them caz they were all direct targets with the drugging and they avsolutly CANNOT deny that with the confession of AC naaki sab things ke maamle main they still choose to act blind caz well that gets too much of we are ullu and if they know it too ego bhi aati hai beech main🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Tch tch....how can you expect SERIOUS PATRAKAAR to get involved in gharelu maamle? Unki SHAAN ke khilaaf hoga yeh😛.....jabse woh pendrive Mata ki murti se chipki, it automatically became gharelu maamla and out of the realm of Babusahib ki "comprehension skills" 😛.....

LOL this scene🤣🤣

Which reminds me award winning patrakaar ko brashtachaar ke khilaaf ladhne ke liye story deadlines nahi hai kya ya pendrive murti pe hi chipka rahega😆...of course ab iss sab mein humare khwaab of watching trainee patrakaar ko bye bye for now lagta hai😆

Maine socha gharelu maamle mein involve honge velle patrakaar saab agar thoda bahut dare I say continuity(😲) maintain karenge this week of Adi firmly standing with Imlie now that soul sister ne thoda soul crush kiya shaayad😆

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

LOL this scene🤣🤣

Which reminds me award winning patrakaar ko brashtachaar ke khilaaf ladhne ke liye story deadlines nahi hai kya ya pendrive murti pe hi chipka rahega😆...of course ab iss sab mein humare khwaab of watching trainee patrakaar ko bye bye for now lagta hai😆

Maine socha gharelu maamle mein involve honge velle patrakaar saab agar thoda bahut dare I say continuity(😲) maintain karenge this week of Adi firmly standing with Imlie now that soul sister ne thoda soul crush kiya shaayad😆

Haha yeh continuity ki ummeed ke aage thode aur 😲😲😲😲 lagaa lo, GT ji😆.....cuz we will all faint with shock over getting that much continuity.....haha

They've made another khichdi to get through the week basically.....Imlie ki internship ki baat was just for last week ka drama so bhool jaao abhi.....lol this week is all about the two Ps - pendrive and Pranav😆....so uske hisaab se IN THE MOMENT jeeyo all Adi style😎😆.

Yeah if Rupi will flip on Imlie toh higher chances of Adi stepping up to fill the void all the more.....haha ro legi Imlie apna dukhda with Adi ki soul sister hurt hogayi mujhse😆.....Adi can do the token motivational speech ki tum sab sahi kar dogi jaise humesha karti ho, then Imlie will remind him again that he doesn't trust her about M😆, then they will be like chhodo jaane do, Rupi and 2Ps pe focus karte hain for now😆.

I guess kal ke epi mein shaayad aa jaaye yaad Mr. Award Winning ko that he has a story to write about that smuggler gang😆......aarti ke drama mein sab bhool gaya....lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha yeh continuity ki ummeed ke aage thode aur 😲😲😲😲 lagaa lo, GT ji😆.....cuz we will all faint with shock over getting that much continuity.....haha

They've made another khichdi to get through the week basically.....Imlie ki internship ki baat was just for last week ka drama so bhool jaao abhi.....lol this week is all about the two Ps - pendrive and Pranav😆....so uske hisaab se IN THE MOMENT jeeyo all Adi style😎😆.

Yeah if Rupi will flip on Imlie toh higher chances of Adi stepping up to fill the void all the more.....haha ro legi Imlie apna dukhda with Adi ki soul sister hurt hogayi mujhse😆.....Adi can do the token motivational speech ki tum sab sahi kar dogi jaise humesha karti ho, then Imlie will remind him again that he doesn't trust her about M😆, then they will be like chhodo jaane do, Rupi and 2Ps pe focus karte hain for now😆.

I guess kal ke epi mein shaayad aa jaaye yaad Mr. Award Winning ko that he has a story to write about that smuggler gang😆......aarti ke drama mein sab bhool gaya....lol

I think you nailed the rest of the week in that paragraph 😆

Yeah most likely Rupi will do some kind of flip tomorrow or day after - and again flip back when Pranav is exposed.

So AY - the men will prob support imlie - not that it matters lol but Radha willnfilip and flip back 😆 And Aparna - not sure - she will be conflicted 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm suddenly hit by the fact that this is a HUGE evolution for Imlie also in her thought process and understanding of marriage......remember, this was the girl who once considered shaadi to be pinjra....it was Adi back then who opened her mind up to the perspective of saathi sahi ho toh rishta pankh ban jaata hai......and aaj Imlie bhi usi point ko reiterate kar rahi hai ki jab shaadi sahi na ho, toh woh dor bhi bedi hi ban jaati hai......man, how LONG has it taken Imlie to understand this, zara socho. This is the girl who was once adamant ki Adi nibhaao his shaadi to Malini at any cost without realizing ki jab Adi usmein khush nahin hoga toh woh bediyaan hi hongi.....now that same Imlie is herself talking about the fact ki jab shaadi galat hoti hai toh woh BEDIYAAN ban jaati hain and you have to BREAK the bediyaan to be truly happy👏.

Imlie ki mahaanta se humesha fed up rehne waalon ne yeh bhi nahin notice kiya how far Imlie has evolved on the subject of marriage and what makes for the right partner and a happy marriage.

The Imlie who once used to be debilitated in manipulative guilt by Malini over "7 saal ka rishta" has now fully overcome that to the point where she can give assertive responses back to Malini about how time spent together doesn't decide whether the rishta is apt....it is how you nurture it and protect it through all storms that decides its fate.

In some ways, Adi also deserves the credit for never backing down from reinforcing the absolution of his love for Imlie.....that is what has brought about the Imlie we see today - totally confident in his love for her even as they are navigating these uncomfortable situations...but Imlie now shines with more confidence than ever in the love her and Adi share as well as her strong conviction in their bond as partners in marriage.

THIS! Again yeh sab samjhne ke liye 2 min ke liye psudeo feminism ka chasms uttarna padta hai and actually graph dekhna padta hai ek character ka and whare their POV's and evolution is coming from.. the imlie who thought shaadi is a prison was a naive girl not knowing much and making her judgement based on the very general perception and what she saw around not actually understanding the core on a more closer level she has a general opinion and thought this isn't for her simply caz she never wanted to be tied down but adi opened her mind that it is not that actually there is so much more to a marriage with how it can be liberating as well there is not always one side to it and then over the time as she herself got to experience it on one to one basis she started seeing that yeah it is indeed not as narrow as she thought this is a very broad concept and one can mold it the way they want it and it depend on the partner you get and how you guys deal with the situation that it all comes down to saathi and what kind of relationship you guys want to have. She has fully grasped it now that nothing matters time/jaan pehchaan the validity and all the other addons/labels people keep forcing upon them none of it matters caz it is about finding your freedom that even in a Bandhan of a rishta there is enough scope of letting the other be bad dheel deni padti hai agar tightly keechoge toh dor tootegi hi usko nibhane ke liye dono side se trust ke saath woh understanding chahiye woh taal Mel chahiye woh liberty chahiye so that journey can last..I hope am making sense. And adi has always helped her with this with overcoming this insecurity to an extent in solidifying her faith in this part ke she has him no matter WHAT and that he is her pati regardless of what she thinks 😆 Agar woh na bhi maane toh bhi adi ke liye sach nahi badlega it is kind if reverse but a good one.. ❤️

Originally posted by: tellyme

Watched the epi...

@bold 1 & 4 - Now we know even more clearl how mentally weak Ts are. I really can't believe a women ready to move with a man he clearly cheated on her with other women. Who let her leave him with child. and suddenly one day he appears and you forgave him... I don't know what himmat is needed to take such weak step.... It was not a day or 2 ka narazi but years and he got forgiven in one day... this is called no self respect. And Radha, which mother is so eager to get rid of her daughter to send immediately with a man who cheated on her daughter... What kind of lady is she? Aparna ka I ma holding, i want her to open up bit more about her POV.

@bold 2 - yes discussion is happening in open now and these people are somewhere understanding slowly. It is taking time as these belief of relation/Society is inbuilt in them. And M- what bakwas does she keep saying. She is talking about Pati Patni ka rishta.. blah blah... Toh you are not Adi's Patni. Imlie is. But nice Adi showed her mirror today of Kazi Rishta and see M's face on that..... Even Imlies dialougue on saloon ka rishta was kind of answer to M's 7 saal ka rishta jaap. Loving how Adi is openly shuting this lady these days.

Side note for Adi - Kazi Rishta is nothing agar maan nahi milte and I mean that is the reason this guy keeps forgetting about Divorce with M 😆 and registry of marriage with Imlie. Bhai kerwa lo yeh sab kaam kam se kam kisis ka bharam toh tootega. I mean how lazy this man is... 😆 . Apne Tape Recorder se kaam chala leta hai apna. 😆

@bold 3 - Yes. It was not a rishta but bediyaan - I remember i used this analogy few days back... This she is a bediyan and Adi is dragging himself towards Imlie coz of this bediyan - I said in terms of Malini along with Bachca.

In addition to this - We got one more answer today - this also we have been saying that chor ke jana is not solution. You have to be their and work on relation to make it strong. She knew Adi did not cheat her, haan he broke her Vishwas by deleting the vdo, but if someone does not think the way you think you just don't leave the person. One have to work to show correct path. Stay there like strong Tree. That is what i feel Imlie is. If she would have left in name of self respect then how would she work on the relation and make Adi and Family understand the true face. Offcourse she would have risen on career front but rishta .. the respect that she is earning now with her work is more appreciable than just leaving and going.

Haan if Adi would have cheated on her then offcourse staying there would have been a complete self respect issue. But she knows he love her and she is only his wife. So Rupi please do not compare Pranav's case with Imlie-Adi.

@bold 5 - 😆 and paint went on increasing exponentially

Once again I would like to mention this Here along with your point of VDo deletion..why is the general perception that the vishwaas itself was limited to just that? Again it is broad concept..and adi is actually answering her on that too and acknowledging ke usne sach main kuch nahi sicha about themselves and just thought of baby and did it in an instinct jab banda aage se accept bhinkar raha hai ke it may not be the right thing to do but kar di toh phir bhi why is it being held against him..as vishwaas khatam rishta khatam..again thaybis just one thing on which he ended up disappointing imlie and shaking her faith but that doesn't mean she doesn't believe him on any aspect of life ..again how many times these things happen where you are left disappointed by an action you call it you cheated me you did wrong this is not the way things have been but kya log roz inn baton pe rishte todte phirte hain? I wish it was that simple.

So again I personally do not understand how the entire vishwaas ka daaromadaar is being made tht stupid vdo bhai woh nahi hai again the vishwaas is multi layered and as many aspects too it too🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Once again I would like to mention this Here along with your point of VDo deletion..why is the general perception that the vishwaas itself was limited to just that? Again it is broad concept..and adi is actually answering her on that too and acknowledging ke usne sach main kuch nahi sicha about themselves and just thought of baby and did it in an instinct jab banda aage se accept bhinkar raha hai ke it may not be the right thing to do but kar di toh phir bhi why is it being held against him..as vishwaas khatam rishta khatam..again thaybis just one thing on which he ended up disappointing imlie and shaking her faith but that doesn't mean she doesn't believe him on any aspect of life ..again how many times these things happen where you are left disappointed by an action you call it you cheated me you did wrong this is not the way things have been but kya log roz inn baton pe rishte todte phirte hain? I wish it was that simple.

So again I personally do not understand how the entire vishwaas ka daaromadaar is being made tht stupid vdo bhai woh nahi hai again the vishwaas is multi layered and as many aspects too it too🤷‍♀️

as you said @bold That is the thing..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol of course we knew it pehle se hi that divorce is just a piece of paper to both Adi and Imlie. 😆…if Adi really felt ki he won’t be able to consider Imlie his wife without finalizing the divorce with M, toh yeh pehle khada hota line mein to quickly get that divorce done with. But neither him, nor Imlie feel that divorce finalizing has any bearing on the validity of their marriage 😆….they are content aapas mein ki Humari shaadi mein saath aur pyar hai so who cares about kaagazi shaadi with M 😆.

Malini herself used to once claim ki being married on paper alone means nothing. Lol ab she’s in despo mode toh suddenly she feels being married on paper alone means everything 🤷‍♀️.

Divorce finalizing also falls under “gharelu maamle” now so naazuk Babusahib ki capacity se baahar hai manage karna 😛😆

Sabse badi beizzati toh M ki hi ho rahi hai in not finalizing the divorce…lol Adi has made it clear to her that he will never consider her his wife even with the child involved…being married on paper means nothing to him, but she still has grand delusions that once the baby is here, Adi will suddenly be like M meri patni? 😆….This guy is fully capable of playing his “Sirf Imlie Humari patni hai” tape recorder in front of the baccha also 🤷‍♀️😂….toh is sab mein izzat toh sirf M ki jaayegi ki baccha paida karke bhi she won’t get any recognition as Adi’s wife 🤷‍♀️…..getting the divorce would be a key to her self respect but obviously she has no self respect so 🤷‍♀️😂

But bottom line hi wohi hai iski khid ki hi izzat beizzati ka concept nahi hai🤷‍♀️ she is that zaleel ke isko farak hi nahi oadta kitni zaleel ho jaaye not like kuch bhi registers on her koi kuch bhi keh le ..so much for her adi cannot hate me fits but she unsuni karo his baat hi so what is he then? Just a toy to fulfill her sexual needs ? Yeh kaam to she can do by ordering something off Amazon too *cough cough*

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL so I don't really want him to be "aggressive" per se either.....the opposite of passive is active na.....so I'd just like to see him be more ACTIVE in some ways even if his general personality is about escapism.

The excuse about him only being able to use his brain for work also only goes so far......lol this is his own SISTER who was cheated by a man for SO many years....lol and yeh uske liye bhi bhi token stand ke ilaava kuch nahin le paa raha😆.

Toh his highest threshold for taking a stand is for Imlie only....wahaan hi thodi bahut assertiveness nikalti hai iski.....lol uske ilaava isse kabhi kuch nahin expect karna chahiye 😆.....for the most part as long as he feels he has Imlie ka saath, he will sit back and let her handle things😆.....even things related to his own sister.....lol

Arre behno Matt bhulo yeh woh aadmi hai who was like ok fine kill me now and I am just standing here🥺😆🤣 I mean wahan toh koi bhi and I mean koi bhi gets desperate and is ready to take action but yeh aadmi uske liye jab kuch galat nahi kua tha in first 10 epi hi tha ok cool kill me toh ab kya kar lega..behan bhai ya koi aur never meant anything.. he is simple mera lena dena hai nahi saanu ki🤣 zen mode main rehna isko kehte hain 😄