• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 25

Can someone please update me on whats the deal with Sindoor, Saas and story? Did the actors confirm Patralekha had married Virat? I wouldnt be surprised in the show both Virats and Pakhis actions are indicative of a spousal relation.

The briefs given by actors especially the one who plays Pakhi and sometimes Virat was totally unrelated to whats shown in the show. I followed Pakhi actors only up until she said her character is a victim. She gave the reason for abusing Sai's character as she's tired of not getting love from family whereas in truth shes the ladali of the family. Actor playing Virat had said nobody in the show is right or wrong in a futile attempt to whitewash all characters. For me Sai and Samrat are leaning towards white and positive. Virat, Pakhi and Trimurti are outright negative and wrong at this point. So even if its a big blunder t coming from the cast doesnt surprise me. I have liked the actor playing Sais interview often because she speaks of her own flaws and doesnt badmouth any other character. There are reasons why actor and character is liked. I liked Pakhis character up until the justifications. You play a negative character? Ready to accept it as well. You cant force liking on audience.

She must NOT be named **** will continue to do staff that rile up fans.. Is it hard to fathom that certain someone wants to be always centre of the attention.. It's going like a cycle since the last one year ..i think it's high time FD must stop.. It's tiring already.. End of the day it's her handle so she can post whatever she wants.. Don't let your hatred take over the positive energy..

Originally posted by: Niranjan256

Actors herself calls ML mother in law her sasu ma which means marriage happened. First wife ko first wife hi bulaynge. What else. Virat is a two timer. Emotional infidelity. N Sai—rat shadi ke vakt he was reminiscing Pakhi so argument of sanctity of marriage doesn’t hold

Reminiscing like when? & How? Their yoga days or just that vaada? Also didn't Pakhi reach the mandap mid-way during SaiRat were getting married ig right after he filled Sai's hairline with vermillion.

I personally think that that Insta story doesn't deserve time.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Maybe, I am not aware of the forum rules but I would really like to know what should we call Pakhi and Virat's relationship ?? What is the "allowed term" to use according to the forum rules. I am not saying Pakhi is Virat's first wife but then what is she?? Surely, she is not just a friend.

Virat and Pakhi are in some sort of emotional affair. Is that not violating "sanctity of marriage" ?? Just because Virat says that Pakhi is just a friend, doesn't make her one. Virat can forgive 1000 mistakes of Pakhi but if Sai does something she is selfish, arrogant etc. etc.

What should we call that now??

Are Virat and Pakhi not emotionally cheating on their respective partners?? What should we call that?? Letting your "whatever" ( I don't know what to call them because I am not going to call Virat and Pakhi best friends, that would again be disrespting beautiful relationship of friendship) to insult your wife, not saying a word and only making faces

😡😡

What should we call a husband like that?? What should we call a man who has zero respect for his wife and has immense respect for another women, a women who recently confessed her love for him, who everyday disrespects and tortures his wife infront of him?? What should we call a relationship when the man doesn't stands up for his wife but is in support of the another women??

What is that relationship really called??

Legally speaking, Virat is married to Sai and Pakhi to Samrat. This makes them devar-bhabhi.

I’ve said it many times: only namecalling allowed is the one mentioned in the SHOW. So whatever nickames an actor use offscreen is not allowed here. You can discuss about it but not mock/ bash the actor for it or use it to address the character.

I get your frustration but I don’t have the answers for all your questions. You can critize both characters for being flawed, you can critize that Pakhi is emotionally cheating on Samrat with Virat, that Virat is not taking a stand for Sai.

However, it is s up to CV/director of the show and not to us (DTs) to clarify what is happenning in the show.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Aishwarya Sharma called Virat’s mother (in Ghum) her “ex mother in law”, going by that, she is indeed Virat’s first wife. If the PH is allowing her to do it, then we should be allowed to do it too.

Whatever nicknames an actor use on SM is not allowed to be used here on characters. The only namecalling allowed is the one mentioned in the show.

Originally posted by: WildestDreams

Legally speaking, Virat is married to Sai and Pakhi to Samrat. This makes them devar-bhabhi.

I’ve said it many times: only namecalling allowed is the one mentioned in the SHOW. So whatever nickames an actor use offscreen is not allowed here. You can discuss about it but not mock/ bash the actor for it or use it to address the character.

I get your frustration but I don’t have the answers for all your questions. You can critize both characters for being flawed, you can critize that Pakhi is emotionally cheating on Samrat with Virat, that Virat is not taking a stand for Sai.

However, it is s up to CV/director of the show and not to us (DTs) to clarify what is happenning in the show.

Genuine Question

I really need to understand ..So they can behave like husband wife...they can defend each other like husband wife...their standing position is always like husband wife...The family members can give in the show more right to the other woman on the husband than the wife....The expressions come across as them being husband wife and as a viewer we dont have right to call it out...that it is all coming across like she is a wife to him? I am sorry then why is not this categorised under moral policing when the viewer expresses so and so scenes are coming across as if they are husband and wife to each other? Are we not allowed to express about characters in a dignified manner..discuss on how some scenes...certain actions ..expressions...behaviours of the characters are coming across...are being perceived by the audience, just because they don't call each other as husband wife?

I am done with INDIA forum

A big disappointment 👎🏼

If the character behave like *** it will be labelled as s* shaming😲.. No one was talking about the clothes but the character.. We can't even call out the characters.. It's kind of getting biased..

And fans really need to stop nitpicking about certain someone antics.. It's getting tiring

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Genuine Question

I really need to understand ..So they can behave like husband wife...they can defend each other like husband wife...their standing position is always like husband wife...The family members can give in the show more right to the other woman on the husband than the wife....The expressions come across as them being husband wife and as a viewer we dont have right to call it out...that it is all coming across like she is a wife to him? I am sorry then why is not this categorised under moral policing when the viewer expresses so and so scenes are coming across as if they are husband and wife to each other? Are we not allowed to express about characters in a dignified manner..discuss on how some scenes...certain actions ..expressions...behaviours of the characters are coming across...are being perceived by the audience, just because they don't call each other as husband wife?

We never said you cannot critize the characters for their actions. Both criticism is welcome. Positive and negative. Issue is being Pakhi called Virat’s first wife over an offscreen comment by the actress. This is not allowed.

If you give an explanation about why you feel that Virat and Pakhi are being showed as married couple rather than Virat and Sai, it’s fine. But bashing, mocking and namecalling the character/actor isn’t allowed.

Originally posted by: WildestDreams

We never said you cannot critize the characters for their actions. Both criticism is welcome. Positive and negative. Issue is being Pakhi called Virat’s first wife over an offscreen comment by the actress. This is not allowed.

If you give an explanation about why you feel that Virat and Pakhi are being showed as married couple rather than Virat and Sai, it’s fine. But bashing, mocking and namecalling the character/actor isn’t allowed.

I guess she was first called so , because of the way she behaves with him. Because of how she reacts when a ritual is done between him and Sai..

I will speak only about myself. I said the way they behave with each other and the way family allows it, for instance her running to do a ritual that is supposed to be done by a wife with no family member questioning it and only Virat's mother telling her to let his wife do it...She is requested for it and she gives shocked reaction on being told so, as if its a news to her and some elder being upset over that.... If I say, she behaves as if she is his wife or when Virat prefers to protect her respect over his wife, or the family member compares Virat behaving with Sai to Virat behaving with Pakhi, be it trip or feeding food, when Sai is told pehla haq Pakhi ka hai Virat par, can we as viewers call it questionable and say it all is getting implemented as if Virat and Pakhi are married first? So was I wrong in saying it all is coming across 'to me' as a viewer like that when the characters in the show behave in a particular manner.. I have posted some pics also in order to demonstrate it. Sorry to disturb you over this but wanted to clarify once, so that I dont get reported/mocked/bullied over it.