• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 24

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I would like to bring into notice,moderators that some members are addressing Patralekha as Virat’s first wife. Ridiculing Hindu marriage or any other marriage for that matter is not done. Sai Joshi is the legally wedded wife of Virat Chavan and Patralekha is his bhabhi. Patralekha might be his Ex girl friend whom he wanted to marry but could not do so . That doesn’t mean she can be termed as his first wife.

I hope people realise that mocking the sanctity of legal marriage is wrong by all means.

Sai is legally his first wife so Pakhi can’t be addressed as his first wife.

Maybe, I am not aware of the forum rules but I would really like to know what should we call Pakhi and Virat's relationship ?? What is the "allowed term" to use according to the forum rules. I am not saying Pakhi is Virat's first wife but then what is she?? Surely, she is not just a friend.

Virat and Pakhi are in some sort of emotional affair. Is that not violating "sanctity of marriage" ?? Just because Virat says that Pakhi is just a friend, doesn't make her one. Virat can forgive 1000 mistakes of Pakhi but if Sai does something she is selfish, arrogant etc. etc.

What should we call that now??

Are Virat and Pakhi not emotionally cheating on their respective partners?? What should we call that?? Letting your "whatever" ( I don't know what to call them because I am not going to call Virat and Pakhi best friends, that would again be disrespting beautiful relationship of friendship) to insult your wife, not saying a word and only making faces

😡😡

What should we call a husband like that?? What should we call a man who has zero respect for his wife and has immense respect for another women, a women who recently confessed her love for him, who everyday disrespects and tortures his wife infront of him?? What should we call a relationship when the man doesn't stands up for his wife but is in support of the another women??

What is that relationship really called??

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Maybe, I am not aware of the forum rules but I would really like to know what should we call Pakhi and Virat's relationship ?? What is the "allowed term" to use according to the forum rules. I am not saying Pakhi is Virat's first wife but then what is she?? Surely, she is not just a friend.

Virat and Pakhi are in some sort of emotional affair. Is that not violating "sanctity of marriage" ?? Just because Virat says that Pakhi is just a friend, doesn't make her one. Virat can forgive 1000 mistakes of Pakhi but if Sai does something she is selfish, arrogant etc. etc.

What should we call that now??

Are Virat and Pakhi not emotionally cheating on their respective partners?? What should we call that?? Letting your "whatever" ( I don't know what to call them because I am not going to call Virat and Pakhi best friends, that would again be disrespting beautiful relationship of friendship) to insult your wife, not saying a word and only making faces

😡😡

What should we call a husband like that?? What should we call a man who has zero respect for his wife and has immense respect for another women, a women who recently confessed her love for him, who everyday disrespects and tortures his wife infront of him?? What should we call a relationship when the man doesn't stands up for his wife but is in support of the another women??

What is that relationship really called??

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I am convinced she does it to rile up Sai and Sairat fans and it is working.

Totally, this has become a cycle now I believe.

She says/posts something that'll rile fans up....some fans will call her out normally and obviously there are some other fans who don't understand the concept of drawing lines when saying something about someone on the internet.

Out of 100, if 70 people call her out in a dignified manner and ask her to be professional, 20 people use some foul language and 10 people cross the lines of sensitivity and shame her very incorrectly....only 5 out of the last 10 would be picked and presented to represent 80/100 which will further go on to be presented as extreme hate/trolling/shaming by large sections of the FD in news portal articles. These articles again rile the fans up and this cycle goes on and on.

The only way to deal with someone like this person is to ignore them. Watch something and you like it? Hit the like button and move on....do not like it then just ignore and move on. There is no meaning in going to see someone you don't like or Posting hate comments when you don't like some content or person. It is ultimately their profile and they do have the control and choice to do and say whatever they feel like.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

@bold: if he believes Patralekha has moved on just a day after crying buckets in cafe professing love to him, he is idiot of the first order.

If Virat really cares about Sai, he should stop any third person walk over their relationship - be it ex fling, friend or family.

First he needs to remove the MAIN 3rd person in their relationship - his EGO! 😡

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Totally, this has become a cycle now I believe.

She says/posts something that'll rile fans up....some fans will call her out normally and obviously there are some other fans who don't understand the concept of drawing lines when saying something about someone on the internet.

Out of 100, if 70 people call her out in a dignified manner and ask her to be professional, 20 people use some foul language and 10 people cross the lines of sensitivity and shame her very incorrectly....only 5 out of the last 10 would be picked and presented to represent 80/100 which will further go on to be presented as extreme hate/trolling/shaming by large sections of the FD in news portal articles. These articles again rile the fans up and this cycle goes on and on.

The only way to deal with someone like this person is to ignore them. Watch something and you like it? Hit the like button and move on....do not like it then just ignore and move on. There is no meaning in going to see someone you don't like or Posting hate comments when you don't like some content or person. It is ultimately their profile and they do have the control and choice to do and say whatever they feel like.

Yes. It's a cycle. First instigate and then put posts on bullying. Whenever an actress puts a post like this, media channels covers because people like to read it. She gets publicity, portals get pageviews/sessions.

(1) Gita av on Twitter: "Really.?? P’s reaction to Virat putting Sindoor on His WIFE’s maang...Such expressions are Intolerable..Go get a life Woman..😡😡#GhumHaiKisikeyPyaarMeiin https://t.co/XIEpUDut87" / Twitter

To be updated..

Originally posted by: WildestDreams

Sai is legally his first wife so Pakhi can’t be addressed as his first wife.

Aishwarya Sharma called Virat’s mother (in Ghum) her “ex mother in law”, going by that, she is indeed Virat’s first wife. If the PH is allowing her to do it, then we should be allowed to do it too.

Originally posted by: WildestDreams

Sai is legally his first wife so Pakhi can’t be addressed as his first wife.

Actors herself calls ML mother in law her sasu ma which means marriage happened. First wife ko first wife hi bulaynge. What else. Virat is a two timer. Emotional infidelity. N Sai—rat shadi ke vakt he was reminiscing Pakhi so argument of sanctity of marriage doesn’t hold