Hypocrisy of Anupama - Page 3

Khaali Brother aur mother hote anupama ke mayke mein to anupama jaakur help karti mayke mein. Samajh mein aata

But yahan pur mayke mein sirf uski maa aur uske bhai hi nahin hai bhai ki biwi bhi hai

Chalo ek baar apne bhatija ke liye khana banaya tabhi theek hai but woh bhai ki biwi ke liye khana kyon banatlye

Apni bhai ki biwi ke liye khana banane hi hai to ise bhadiya anupama apne bacchon ke liye khana banaye

Do u know agar mayke mein bhabhi hoti hai to divorce ki beti ki kya posting hoti hai apne mayke

Bhabhi bhi chain se jeene nahi deti apni divorce eent nanand ko.

Ise Better hai anupama rent house mein rahe aur apni maa ke ghar kabhi kabhi aati rahe aur maa ko bhi bulati rahre

Ya phir anupama apni maa ko apne rent house mein apne saath rakhe

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Khaali Brother aur mother hote anupama ke mayke mein to anupama jaakur help karti mayke mein. Samajh mein aata

But yahan pur mayke mein sirf uski maa aur uske bhai hi nahin hai bhai ki biwi bhi hai

Chalo ek baar apne bhatija ke liye khana banaya tabhi theek hai but woh bhai ki biwi ke liye khana kyon banatlye

Apni bhai ki biwi ke liye khana banane hi hai to ise bhadiya anupama apne bacchon ke liye khana banaye

Do u know agar mayke mein bhabhi hoti hai to divorce ki beti ki kya posting hoti hai apne mayke

Bhabhi bhi chain se jeene nahi deti apni divorce eent nanand ko.

Ise Better hai anupama rent house mein rahe aur apni maa ke ghar kabhi kabhi aati rahe aur maa ko bhi bulati rahre

Ya phir anupama apni maa ko apne rent house mein apne saath rakhe

Ho sakta hai anupama ki bhabhi Leela jaisi na ho !

Leela kaisi hai yeh toh makers dikha chuke hai ! Bhavesh ki biwi achi hai yah buri yeh abhi tak dikhaya he nahi hai ! So yeh sab Abhi ke liye assumption he hai ki anupama ko uski bhabhi and uske bacche ke liye bhi khana banana padega !

Leela ke ghar mai anupama kaise Leela, Uske bête vanraj and nayi bahu Kavya ka khana bhi banati hai yeh makers dikha chuke hai so audience can see anupama waha sirf uske baccho ka khana banane ke liye nahi ruki hai , 1 tang par khade reh kar Leela , Leela ka beta and Leela ki nayi bahu ka bhi khana banati hai !

So viewers can say with full confidence that anupama Leela ki daily 1 tang par seva karti hai but uski apni maa ka daily koi responsibility nahi uthati hai ! Audience can also say with full confidence that divorcee beti apni maa ke taraf bina kisi strong reason ke apna farz nahi nibhati hai !

but ha yeh full confidence ke sath bilkul nahi kaha ja sakta ki Bhavesh ki biwi bhi dusri leela hai and uska aur uske bête ka khana anupama se banvayegi because makers jaise selfish Leela ka nature daily dikhate hai waise he Bhavesh ki biwi ka nature audience ko ek bar bhi nahi dikhaya so yeh full confidence ke sath bolna ki waha ja kar bhabhi aur uske bête ka khana banana padega totally baseless and assumption based point hai.

The baseless assumption based point that anupama ko uski bhabhi and bacche ke khana bhi banana padega only tab logical hoga jab jaise Leela ko dikhaya hai waise he anupama ki bhabhi ka bhi nature dikha denge !

Ok mere base les assumptiion hai to bana rahe . Meri marji ki ki. Assumptiion post banaao ya fact post banoon . Why u have problem

Waise tumhare bhi post baseless hai aur illiogical hai

Anupama apni maa pe burden nahin bana chahhti aur unhe apna dukh bata kar apni maa ko dukh nahi dena chahti is wajah se anupama apna dukh nahi batati

But agar anupama ko jub jub mauka mila hai tub usne apne maa ko bhi poocha hai. So anupama is not totally ignorant toward her own mother

Ab anupama ke khud ke bache hai pakhi ki padhai poori honi hai to anupama ko roj roj nahi mil paata hoga time apni maa se baat karne ke liye but iska matlab apni maa ki chinta nahi hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama apni maa pe burden nahin bana chahhti aur unhe apna dukh bata kar apni maa ko dukh nahi dena chahti is wajah se anupama apna dukh nahi batati

But agar anupama ko jub jub mauka mila hai tub usne apne maa ko bhi poocha hai. So anupama is not totally ignorant toward her own mother

Ab anupama ke khud ke bache hai pakhi ki padhai poori honi hai to anupama ko roj roj nahi mil paata hoga time apni maa se baat karne ke liye but iska matlab apni maa ki chinta nahi hai

As per writer’s story anupama was ready to leave children behind and had made her mind to shift at her mother’s place after coming back to ahmedabad from the resort and fact was she was saying bye to everyone including her children from the entrance of shah house after returning from resort!

Anupama had changed her decision only for Bapuji as per shown by makers !

Anupama had not changed her decision to stay in Shah house for the sake of pakhi’s education or to cook for all her grown up children!

Children were never behind anupama’s changed decision! on that day when she was leaving forever after coming back from resort! It was only Bapuji’s emotionally blackmailing with Tu meri beti , mai tera baabul ! 🤢

Now saying that anupama is living in the shah house for the sake of her children is like completely diluting the facts and reasons of anupama’s stay in the shah house.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Whatttttttttttttttttttt ?????? Do you even understand what you wrote just now!

No divorcee daughter/women can think the way you are talking!!!! 😲

Bhabhi and bhai ke baccho ka khana na banana pade iss wajah se divorcee daughter apni khud ki maa ki work responsibility share karne ke liye maa ke pass nahi rehne jati and same time par purani saas ki 1 tang par seva karne ke liye abusive sasural mai rehti hai !!!!

I have no words after reading your statement about bhabhi and bhai ke baccho ka khana na banana pade uske liye khud ki old mother ko bhi akela chod do !

There is no point to talk because being daughter I can’t imagine such mentality !

Well it's not just khana banana. I have heard lot of women say even if they divorce they will not return to maayka especially if they have brothers. Neither do brothers like sister coming back. Then brother s wife starts disrespecting you. They start insulting you that now ur come here for property. They start treating you like servant. Most women don't divorce because of lack of emotional support. Here at least she has support system in form of samar Kinjal babuji.I have seen women almost loosing their mental balance due to such circumstances. The only option I consider in case of anupuma is buy or stay in rented flat. That will only come through financial empowerment.

I am kinda jumping in to conversation, but Bhavesh's wife is still Anupama's Bhabhi. This is named legal relationship there. What is her relationship with Vanya? What is her legal relationship with Baa after divorce?

Why prepare and serve food for Vanya? Bhavesh Anu's real brother is facing financial trouble as well why only help Vanraj ?

Being married and having bhai-bhabhi doesn't mean you are not responsible for your parents anymore. This is 21st century, especially when a girl is financially independent - she must take care of her parents. No matter what her marriage status is.

I really abhor this so called Sanskari mentality of our Indian culture that only bhai and Bhabhi should take responsibility first, if not then daughter should step in.

Mothers gives birth differently to girl and boy or what!

This is issue writer needs to focus and correct, Anu is character that is far from being perfect or Mahan. Many times her actions screams ridiculousness.

Yup it is not easy to stay A divorce sister to with her Brother if Brother is married

Even if anupama apne paison se apna kharcha karegi to bhi bhabhi ki bhai blame laga sakti hai ki apne pati ko chod ke to aa gayi ab apne bhai pe kharche pe depend hai . Yeh reality mein problem hoti

And I can say yeh problem reality mein 90 percent hoti hai

Originally posted by: Shiner

Well it's not just khana banana. I have heard lot of women say even if they divorce they will not return to maayka especially if they have brothers. Neither do brothers like sister coming back. Then brother s wife starts disrespecting you. They start insulting you that now ur come here for property. They start treating you like servant. Most women don't divorce because of lack of emotional support. Here at least she has support system in form of samar Kinjal babuji.I have seen women almost loosing their mental balance due to such circumstances. The only option I consider in case of anupuma is buy or stay in rented flat. That will only come through financial empowerment.

They haven’t shown her bhabhi and her nature ! It is also possible she is good woman!

And even if bhabhi is cunning/bad, if she can tolerate daily insult of vanraj , Kavya and Leela and can make food for them then why not her bhabhi ?!

Originally posted by: Shiner

Well it's not just khana banana. I have heard lot of women say even if they divorce they will not return to maayka especially if they have brothers. Neither do brothers like sister coming back. Then brother s wife starts disrespecting you. They start insulting you that now ur come here for property. They start treating you like servant. Most women don't divorce because of lack of emotional support. Here at least she has support system in form of samar Kinjal babuji.I have seen women almost loosing their mental balance due to such circumstances. The only option I consider in case of anupuma is buy or stay in rented flat. That will only come through financial empowerment.

I understand what you are saying. But in Anu's case - she is being living with her abusers. Who doesn't wish her well

If I were to count and leave Toshu out of equation - Baa+ Vanraj+ Kavya - three people joins the force to torture Anu on daily basis.

We haven't seen Bhavesh's wife yet but let's ASSUME she is evil. Then also the ratio is 3 to 1. Logically I see more mental peace and stability when there is only one person torturing. And that is also an assumption.

In Anu's case, she is earning well - Bhavesh is going through financial trouble. No Bhabhi would be stupid enough to torture someone who can help financially and at home.