Hypocrisy of Anupama - Page 4

Yup anupama only best option to stay at at rent house. . Uski bhabhi to bus do chaar din pyaar se bolegi aur baad mein yahi taunt ho sakta ki aap apni patli jo divorce December ke aa gayi ho

Originally posted by: vivacious

Did they invited Anupama’s Mom for Toshu’s wedding or for Pakhi’s Birthday Parties?

Yup anu's mom was present in Toshu's wedding later she took class of leela as she came to know about vanraj ema.

I feel Anupama should go and live separately especially now that she is earning

And how easily she has been termed a bad daughter amazes me. Show mein buri patni aur maa kehte hai aur forum me buri beti.

Just because she is not going to live with her mother that doesn't make her a bad daughter. As someone's stated she was ready to go but stopped because of Bapuji's emotional blackmail. So I guess all the comments ki use ye karna chahiye ya wo karna chahiye are useless when the reason has already be given in the show.

Also people saying she should shoulder her mother's responsibility, what if hee mother and brother doesn't like it? It's Indian mentality that you don't take anything from your daughter. What if they say that we are happy in whatever we have, we don't need your help.

What if her mayka is happy in their lives and she don't want to usurpe that?

When rakhi tripped over the pearls and fell on the floor I did not feel bad for her..... I felt bad for her daughter as for a daughter it must feel embarrassing to see your parent be disrespected in anyway by your in-laws (even if it was her mother's fault in this case) and there is a natural protectiveness you would still feel for your parent's respect and dignity in front of your in-laws. That being said I couldn't see much of an urge to want to come forward for her mother by kinjal on her face. She didn't seem much concerned for her mother.

It is between being good and bad, and it is being uniform giving and getting respect. Yes, Anupama was wrong in making that grand statement that Kinjal would not meet Rakhee but don’t agree with any of the other points brought forth.

Anupama has encouraged Kinjal to move into the penthouse, she has reasoned with Vanraj and the rest of the family that Toshu should move out, she has not stopped her son from working for Rakhee or living at her place.

Anupama has never told Toshu to disrespect his mother in law. Expecting that he stand up for his family is natural and he is duty bound to do that. These are his parents, the people that loved and raised him and if he does not have the decency to come to their rescue when his mother in law keeps creating tamasha, then there is something severely wrong with Toshu. If he put his foot down albeit respectfully perhaps Rakhee would rein in her nonsense a little.

Anupama has not disrespected her mother or brother. Anupama was financially dependent on Rakshasraj and Ba would not even let Anupama serve her own mother as a guest in the earlier episodes. Anupama was bound by Ba’s rules and her dirty husband’s rules. High time Anupama broke ties with the hypocrite lady, Ba.

Anupama needs to snap out of that Stockholm syndrome mentality and Vanraj needs to be given a hard slap by his father and told to keep far from his ex wife’s business. And why not wish for a tight thapad from her husband to that regressive, terrible hypocritical witch of a saas, Ba? Maybe a kaan me baajana will right some of the old woman’s messed up brain cells.

Beautiful post but I don’t think the makers will ever do that … for them the crux of the story is to threaten anupama and out her in a affix and then when she supports the villains make her a mahaan …

Anupama gives pages and pages of lecture but she doesn’t understand that she’s not needed or should not be in that madhouse anymore … like why stay with them and let them taunt her forever … any woman with self respect should have walked out long back but she must do it Atleast now when they question her character . But I think directors want to milk the sympathy for her which can’t be done without taunts … like even kavya wouldn’t care if anupama leaves and lives … she staying here is definitely making things worse for everybody. She treats vanraj like her son who came with a marriage she dint agree 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kya Bhavesh ki wife show hui hai show mein ?

Nicely written. She only said Kinjal will not meet Rakhi but could not enforce that Toshu will not meet her or work with her.

I do not see why baa never gets it. She is mean and biased.

Now she is clearly using Anuj to get what she wants job money company etc and still showing loyalty to gaa babuji. The show is messed up.

Bhavesh ki wife abhi tuk nahin dikhati gayi hai but bhavesh divorcee bhi nahin hai

Originally posted by: piyu008

I understand what you are saying. But in Anu's case - she is being living with her abusers. Who doesn't wish her well

If I were to count and leave Toshu out of equation - Baa+ Vanraj+ Kavya - three people joins the force to torture Anu on daily basis.

We haven't seen Bhavesh's wife yet but let's ASSUME she is evil. Then also the ratio is 3 to 1. Logically I see more mental peace and stability when there is only one person torturing. And that is also an assumption.

In Anu's case, she is earning well - Bhavesh is going through financial trouble. No Bhabhi would be stupid enough to torture someone who can help financially and at home.

May be ur right. May be they may be nice people.

It all depends on makers how they want to show it but there is a reason why women like Anupama never prefer to go back to maayka. I guess it's depends on ur strata of society. Now Kinjal s case is different. Her mother rakhi dhavi will provide that strong support that one needs but sometimes people are nice but not strong. What were her mother and brother doing all these years where shah treated Anupama as maid where she was getting panic attacks. Nways I m not going to them question each individual is product of social conditioning. They themselves must have gone through so much in life. Hopefully this track Anupama realises what toxic for her realising her own worth and moving out of shah house.