1) How many members are currently working in Shah household?
As far as I remember it is only Anupama and Toshu now... isn't it?
Bapuji&Mamaji&Baa- unemployed forever
Vanraj- unemployed for more than a year
Kavya- unemployed
Kinjal- unemployed
Pakhi- Can not work even part-time(as it is India)
Samar-quite wasted
Anupama's income is meager compared to Vanraj's corporate salary. Now that she is working with Anuj, the situation might change. I don't think Toshu supports the family nowadays.. He and Kinjal did manage the resort expenses of the whole family and short term medical expense of Anupama.
But nowadays he declared himself distant from his house.. so I don't think he helps Anupama with the household...
It must be super difficult to manage these expenses.. but Hats off to Vanraj.. he managed these expenses all alone before... no one was there to support him then..
No wonder Baa pampered him so much. He was the only source of income before. I assume after Bapuji retired he had to shoulder the whole household by himself. He must have really worked hard to make his family reach there. All the 3 kids went to international(?) schools. Baa bapuji health expenses were always covered. A house with at least more than 5 rooms.. A car.. a bike.. and not to mention their constant maintenance expenses.. He must have worked his fingers to the bone.
I have seen many people in the forum advocate that Vanraj providing food and clothing was not the only purpose, he should have been there for his kids emotionally. Which I agree.. totally..
But providing all the basic need and fulfilling their needs is quite hard when you are the only person who is the provider. That amount of dedication is also something to be praised.
Both Anupama and Vanraj sacrificed a lot for more than 25 years.. And Anupama understands Vanraj's contribution... alas but Vanraj can not see it.
The irony is that in both of their struggles to be better providers for the family, the both failed to raise their children as better humans.
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