Originally posted by: MujheMaarjaneDo
Exactly
Change doesn't happen unless it hits you. Sometimes even that doesn't change people.
Leave everyone, just look at my own mother.
My dad is from a pure Brahmin family, my mom's dad is Brahmin but my grandma(mom's mom) is Tamang(not Brahmin), so my dad's parents used to discriminate her during religious functions and all that, not eat rice/dal cooked by her and all that shit.
But still that has not changed gotten the caste system away from her, like she doesn't discriminate people on regular basis, her best friend is also someone from the so called lower caste, but whenever there is religious rituals or something like some festival season, she is like, do not eat at XYZ's house, they are from lower caste, and I am like "what, so all the years of discrimination and you still encourage it", and all she says is, "don't try to act smart, this is something going on through centuries, so you think our ancestors were stupid", and than I ignore her like I ignore social media trollsđ.
So I have realised that this system is seriously fcked up.
Leave my mom, she is still Hindu, I have seen many Hindus converted to Christianity, and still have that caste system mentality. I am like astonished by all thatđ
People also have that misconception, that Christian converts are all âlower castesâ or ârice bag convertsâ.
Itâs infuriating on a different level, and I canât argue with someone like my grandmother who likes one of my friends just for being a Brahmin and dislikes the other for being a schedule caste.
Itâs so hard to shake off a conditioning that stems from childhood, especially for the older generation ( we are Hindus but casteism, and most ritualistic practices are not allowed in the sect we follow). Still we have people whoâve such way of thinking, including my grandmother. So we do what we do best, ignore it.đ
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