Why female lead always annoys the male lead ?

Like the title, I always wondered why the female lead annoys the male lead.. btw I am not talking about all the tv shows. If you hate them or don't like them, then just ignore na. It sometimes irritates me very much, those childish pranks and blabbering are very cringy 😖 Female leads who speaks for equality and women empowerment are very very cringeworthy. They just know how to speak but when some problem comes they turned miserable and cry rivers 🙄 Same with books, from starting the plots are amazing but gradually as the story continues, the plot is a whole new world 😔 I really want a show in which story starts and ends without any unnecessary characters and unnecessary dragging the story endlessly. These reasons really turned me into a very very picky watcher and reader 😵