Originally posted by: nethraa_99
Beautiful post Pooja ❤️. You have written everything so poignantly.💔
I felt the same...I felt for both. Both are wrong. Virat by not clarifying his past earlier and Sai by crossing her all lines today. Virat did dig his own grave didn't he?
And yes the fight was different from usual....there was a deep chasm between the hearts and not just angry, hurtful words.
Sai was too wrong today. Yes there was no sexual connotation to what she said. But she cast aspersions on his character, his honesty by implying that he wilfully and using cunning, deceived two women. I can imagine how shattered Virat must have felt. Even after anniversary, Virat was showing apnapan when she got lost, and trying to protect her from Samrat's anger. The karma comment did him in. It was so insensitive.
Virat didn't clarify himself because Sai's tone was so accusatory. She did ask valid questions but they got lost in the intense hurt she caused. I really don't know how they are going to come out of it.
I was thinking about Sai. The same Sai who has never doubted Virat...even when he planned the Ladakh trip with Pakhi. Where did these accusations come from? Even in her most angry frame of mind...even when Virat was hurting her so much during the hand-holding episode, she accused the family, Pakhi but never him. This is probably what transpires when you throw away your feelings for too long - it explodes in your face when you come face to face with the reality. Sai could not handle that - the tsunami she was was feeling - and she took it all on Virat. Im not trying to defend Sai's behaviour today, just trying to look at it objectively. She never has somebody who she could confide in, to seek guidance from - who could have helped her accept and navigate her feelings. Had that happened, Sai would have confronted Virat long ago and this issue would have been done and dusted by now.
Virat - it's extraordinary how he believes that others would understand him just through his actions. Yes actions do speak louder than words...but there are times when clarifications are needed too. If we want to see any silver lining in this whole mess - it is to hope that Virat understands the importance of clarity in relationships.
As much as Sai's words were hurtful, I don't want this track to be about Sai riding in her emotional roller coaster, suffering all the angst alone and finding a way to end the impasse in their relationship. I want Virat to realize the deep uncertainty that the vaada caused in Sai - and clear all her misapprehensions with openness and honesty. I want Sai to acknowledge that she cause unbearable pain to Virat by her caustic words - and apologize to Virat sincerely and earnestly. I hope there is a neutral person who can help them see each other's POV.
Right now, I can't think of anything that can heal the realtionship. It has a long way to go..... The way they are being to each other, it's better to stay alone for some time alone atleast...but that again is no guarantee for a chance at reconciliation.
Loved your take. Will go through it again 😄.
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