Heartbroken - Page 8

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Don't know what one side story u r talking about. In case of sai there was no one side story. She saw virat taking about vaada, commitment to pakhi, calling her pyari cheez, going to her personal space, giving her enough leaverage to enter their room anytime & comment about their married life. And whatever samrat said was also a truth. Not one side story. If only pakhi loved virat while talking to him in phone call that night. Then it would have been one side story. But virat loved pakhi & gave her vaada to keep her in his heart always. That was neither one side story nor misunderstanding. Only difference is things changed for virat now since he moved on. Just because he moved on, truth doesn't becomes misunderstanding.

Okay let's take sai is not willing to listen during Confrontations though she asks him direct questions. But what about other normal times. When he realised his love for sai shouldn't clarifying about pakhi be the first priority for him before confession & surprises? How he thought sai should be okay in moving on without him giving any clarification. He has thousand chances to come out clean about his past & but he didn't even thought sai owns an explanation before moving to next stage in their relationship which is his biggest mistake.

For Samrat I stick to my take. He heard a phone call and decided his further action. The man on the other side is his dearest brother ...Samrat has the right to pull him up ,slap him and then ask for explanation, He did not do so. He chose to run away based on Patralekha’s version..Now after one year he did the same mistake. When his brother is ready to clear off he did not bother to hear.

Any way I don’t want to talk about Samrat for my own mental peace.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Thanks for the update, Neerja ❤️

I didn't side with either one of them more than the other today.... both of them are shattered, clouded in their own pain, and unable to understand each other. This fight broke my heart in a way that none of their fights before ever has. Because, more than ever before, it was so damn obvious how in love with each other they are, but they just can't see it.

Samrat's entry has pushed Sai to her mental collapse. The way she was talking about Samrat's pain today was basically an avenue for her to be able to express her own pain. I had written this in another post, but up until this point, all she knows about the past has been from Pakhi's behavior and from the yoga retreat teacher's words. But, now, she has come to understand that Samrat left the day after he got married due to Virat and Pakhi's relationship- something that could have been still vague for her, has come crashing down on her like a boulder hitting her with full force. This is an extremely hard-hitting reality to be able to confront. On top of that, now that Samrat wants to set Pakhi free, her greatest fears are coming true... because that just brings Virat and Pakhi one step closer to being able to be together in her mind. She is so entirely engulfed in these fears that she lost all control today and crossed every imaginable line. I truly hope she apologizes to Virat for her bitter words somewhere down the line. Today, the gist behind many of her statements to Virat were spot on- he needs to clarify everything to Samrat and make clear what place she and Pakhi have in his life. Her line about Pakhi being noble because she acts and behaves in the same way was so telling- she needs this same thing from Virat. She is so utterly confused by his actions and his affection towards her, but lack of verbal clarification. Once again, she was allowing herself to believe in the reality of this relationship... everything was going so well- college fest, birthday, the way in Virat begged her to stay with him. This one trip with the Lover's Point and Samrat brought it all crashing down. But, in accusing Virat of being in a masterplan and dropping her other bombs, she entirely shattered him. Even the karma dialogue was too far.... she is hurting, but that doesn't give her a free pass to say whatever nonsense she wants. She, in fact, has no idea what actually happened in the past. Virat made a mistake, a great one too, but he does not deserve all of this. He has never acted with malintentions- Sai and Samrat's happiness and wellbeing has been at the root of all of his vaadas and subsequent actions. Sai lost all control over her tongue, and her words cannot be justified in any way. There is a way she could have asked him about all of this- called him out, without throwing the accusations she did. But, she was so clouded by her emotions that she ended up uttering absolute garbage. There is a saying that the right thing, said in the wrong way, becomes wrong- and that is exactly what happened today.

Virat has, in many ways, dug his own grave and brought himself to this point... however, his character cannot be questioned like this. This man has never crossed the line. He has remained faithful to both his brother and his wife... his intentions have always been of gold. Once again, what always happens between these two, happened today. Sai's harsh words and bitter exterior left him in utter shock and heartbreak...more than ever before. He kept saying that Sai has insulted him, but what was paining him more than his own insult was that she was insulting his unwavering love for her. I don't think anyone can blame him for not clarifying things today. At this point, he thinks that Sai despises him...has no place in her heart, let alone life for him. He has been so deeply misunderstood by the person who means everything to him. Sai kept saying that he was unhappy that Samrat has returned, but in reality, he was broken that the two people he values most can question him like this. He was too clouded in his own emotions to see the hurt that Sai was in...he was too pained to see that Sai's pain was because of how much she loves him. I understand why he told Sai not to interfere in his matters anymore, but this is just going to make her feel even more like the third wheel...these words are going to haunt her. The fact that this was the first time Sai brought up leaving and he didn't counter was so sad. He has given up all hope... so much so, that he is setting her free. Yes, because he feels hurt, but more so, because he believes her happiness is elsewhere. I'm not going to take these words at face value though, because we all know that he says things (just like Sai) that he does not mean all the time. It is going to be too hard for him to follow through with this.... Sai's face when he was saying these words was painful beyond measure...

So well analysed. In this entire fight finally Sai was rendered speechless I think for the first time. But I feel she can give the benefit of doubt to Virat bcos he never crossed his boundaries with Pakhi. Sai has been living with him for the past 1 year . True that he has not been able to clarify various things. But she shud have some understanding of his character by now. She tends to forget many significant things every now and then. Finally the crux of the problem is both of them love each other sooo much that they are very easily hurt by each other and then blurt out things they don't mean to each other and the things they shud be confessing to each other they never talk about it.😔. They need some time to cool off and its a good idea to probably take a break from each other

She believes them because its true! She already knew it and they have only confirmed it. Samrat wasnt lying. Virat pp were the reason he left. Yoga instructor raved about the virat pp chemistry, talked about their jodi etc etc n virat took forever to interrupt her n say Sai is his wife. No wife could stand there and enjoy listening to her husband's love story with another woman. She went to "lovers point" with her husband completely cognizant that this could be their fresh starr only to have virat narrate a tragic story which sounded like him-pp n yoga instructor came to add salt to Sais wounds.

So yes, Sai went overboard in her choice of words. She should have been careful. But its not about lack of patience. Its that she cannot put on this show of being unaffected. She is affected. She wants him to pick her over pp. She wants pp to not exist. But sadly Samrats words are just another reminder of virat pp's past and her place in his life.

Originally posted by: Nja91

She believes them because its true! She already knew it and they have only confirmed it. Samrat wasnt lying. Virat pp were the reason he left. Yoga instructor raved about the virat pp chemistry, talked about their jodi etc etc n virat took forever to interrupt her n say Sai is his wife. No wife could stand there and enjoy listening to her husband's love story with another woman. She went to "lovers point" with her husband completely cognizant that this could be their fresh starr only to have virat narrate a tragic story which sounded like him-pp n yoga instructor came to add salt to Sais wounds.

So yes, Sai went overboard in her choice of words. She should have been careful. But its not about lack of patience. Its that she cannot put on this show of being unaffected. She is affected. She wants him to pick her over pp. She wants pp to not exist. But sadly Samrats words are just another reminder of virat pp's past and her place in his life.

Adding to that she has witnessed Pakhi and Virat talking about the life they dreamt, which Virat never denied...She has seen Pakhi blaming Virat for cheating her, breaking her which again Virat never denied..She still has Pakhi every now and then standing outside their room crying..

I have watched and rewatched the scene where he breaks ties with her!! 😭😭 So well done with the expressions just point on.. without any drama

Originally posted by: Nja91

She believes them because its true! She already knew it and they have only confirmed it. Samrat wasnt lying. Virat pp were the reason he left. Yoga instructor raved about the virat pp chemistry, talked about their jodi etc etc n virat took forever to interrupt her n say Sai is his wife. No wife could stand there and enjoy listening to her husband's love story with another woman. She went to "lovers point" with her husband completely cognizant that this could be their fresh starr only to have virat narrate a tragic story which sounded like him-pp n yoga instructor came to add salt to Sais wounds.

So yes, Sai went overboard in her choice of words. She should have been careful. But its not about lack of patience. Its that she cannot put on this show of being unaffected. She is affected. She wants him to pick her over pp. She wants pp to not exist. But sadly Samrats words are just another reminder of virat pp's past and her place in his life.

Did he know why Virat had to give that stupid Vaada?

Did he know how Sairat got together even after so many misunderstandings?

Did he know that Virat clarified to Pakhi that he was not inclined towards her?

Samrat knows very little and is least interested to know further.

Sai’s main reason for her rashness and rude behaviour is her fear of losing Virat to Pakhi.

Sai's worst fear of losing Virat is facing her now. Especially with the prospect of Samrat wanting to set Pakhi free.

But as usual, she completely messed up with her talk.

Some people mentioned audience rejecting Sai. But audience will understand both Sai and Virat. They have stuck through Sairat's story...they don't think of the pair as separate entities.

The person they love to see getting her due is Pakhi and for this track to work, her kaand on her wedding night has to be exposed. And Samrat has to be the one to take her class..

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Sai's worst fear of losing Virat is facing her now. Especially with the prospect of Samrat wanting to set Pakhi free.

But as usual, she completely messed up with her talk.

Some people mentioned audience rejecting Sai. But audience will understand both Sai and Virat. They have stuck through Sairat's story...they don't think of the pair as separate entities.

The person they love to see getting her due is Pakhi and for this track to work, her kaand on her wedding night has to be exposed. And Samrat has to be the one to take her class..

Actually if you see at it Sai's way she did not.. You see the moment she realised Samrat left Pakhi to not come in way..She realised she would lose him this time...Also her questions on Virat getting her to honeymoon without letting anyone knwo specifically Pakhi, would make her feel insulted for sure..She was ready to celebrate it with the family but not hiding it from them...Hiding it also makes her relationship "not real" right? Yet again she being herself went beyond limits and Virat lost it here...and hence he could not gather it from her words that she is with him, she want him when she said how she wants him to chose between her and Pakhi once and for all, how "Samrat dada ki saari galatfehmiyaan door kar dijiye" and she let him know how she is with him and how she wants him..But I guess Virat this time gathered nothing and this time for his self respect took a back seat.. Like he mentioned she would see a Virat that she has never seen, well that's going to happen...She would fight in the beginning , sure, but eventually would lose the zeal to fight..WIll break bit by bit and in the order would also forget her dreams of studying.. She is going to get depressed and Virat probably would see it/unsee it....

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

@bold 1 I'm not justifying pakhi. I'm explaining why sai sympathises with pakhi. Sai doesn't know full back story except the fact that virat pakhi loved each other each other & virat gave pakhi vaada because of which she married samrat & still having hopes on him(acc to sai).

@bold 2 I'm telling in show. In show no one held him responsible for the mess he created except sai.

@italic I'm talking from sai pov. Sai doesn't know pakhi was about to marry samrat even before vaada. We audience know pakhi obsession & her vileness. But sai doesn't. For her pakhi is still leading on virat by believing his vaada but virat didn't gave her any clarification instead planning anniversary party behind her back. Isn't it same like valentine's day episode. He asked sai how pakhi got to know about him giving roses. After that he gave pakhi explanation that under which circumstances he gave rose. Explaining bhabi why he gave rose to his wife is bizzare & immoral. That time they both r in deal marriage phase. So that was not an issue. Sai got used to it. She saw virat explaining pakhi about everything right from their deal marriage to valentine's day rose. Sai doesn't want that now. Because this time virat showing normal husband actions which he shouldn't do without giving clarification to both woman ( sai doesn't know he had already clarified to pakhi).

I respect your pov but I disagree to bold point 1 and italic. I just give my opinion on scene by scene basis and try to understand why they did what they did and here only for SaiRat.

So sai is shown to have sympathy for Pakhi but nothing for Virat. Pakhi has not only emotionally tortured her but physically aswell. Virat is not clear and prestine and he has done his fair share of wrong things but has also apologized for the same. Has Pakhi ever apologized to her? No never infact even yesterday she was badmouthing her. Fair enough she doesn't know the entire story so how is all the blame transferred to Virat automatically? The blame should transfer equally to both of them for deceiving Samrat and not just Virat. I know as an audience we know Pakhi was responsible for 90% of this mess. Sai also told virat he is not happy with Samrats return where as she saw him first hand how much he was looking for Samrat and was so effected in the hospital scene with the little girl. Can we say the same thing about Pakhi, no not in a million years. Pakhi has time and again clarified she doesn't care about Samrat and is interested only in Virat. So why was Sai telling Samrat Pakhi would be so happy you came back and repeating the same dialogue in precap aswell, why?

@italic I won't go into all the wrong things Virat has done. We have called him out for all these things and he has apologized whenever he felt he hurt Sai. Can we say the same about Sai, has she ever apologized to Virat? Now Coming to Virat giving explanation, I am one of them who wants him to clarify everything with Sai but he has time and again called out Pakhi since the ousting. Is this not visible to Sai then? Her sympathy to Pakhi according to me makes no sense.

@ red- If we are going to say she is not away of the full story she should be blaming both and just one. If we are going to say she doesn't care about Pakhi so she put the blame on Virat, fair enough, they should show her not sympathizing for Pakhi aswell instead of giving her weird dialogues like Pakhi is better than you and she is going to be so happy to see Samrat.

My heart broke today.

So much so that my chest feels heavy.

I've already said in multiple posts that I feel these two inside me... I've internalized them that much.

I'm so upset that I'm.unable to even write.