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Posted: 4 years ago
#61

Least I will say that they both are hurting eo similarly.

During Ajinkya kaand despite Sai clearing so many times that they are only friends.He still questioned in anger and with clouded emotions.

And today Sai called Virat so despite him clearing it to Sai about Pakhi.Sai is too a confused mess and full of emotions.


Virat's distancing has started. Really hoping to see Sai's pov. How this will affect .How she will realise depth of her feelings for Virat

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

You are citing all the things Virat did before he actually realised his love for Sai.So what about the later part where he snubbed Pakhi,avoided her and never let her have hopes on their relationship?Even though Sai did not witness him making it clear to Pakhi,Shouldn’t Sai find the difference in his behaviour and analyse the reason in her own way?

There will be two sides to a coin. Sai is judging Virat seeing only one side of the coin. Instead she should have helped him get the chance to explain Samrat about the past ...She should have assured Virat that she will convince Samrat to hear his story.. She likes to help everyone around..Why can’t she do this for Virat who did a lot for her ?

Why should she help virat when he was not giving her any clarification. Even before their trip pakhi taunted sai. What did virat do? Asking sai to ignore when she is giving back pakhi. What should sai understanding from this. And for her the same day virat was narrating his past love story. So how can any person understand the man who never opens his mouth to give clarification when confronted many times. It is not her responsibility to understand the man who one day calls himself gurdian,other day husband & another day call their relationship zimmedari vala rishtha. And she already told him he should clear everything to samrat. Now it is virat responsibility to make his brother understand. When she herself confused & hurt with virat behavior u r expecting her to help him in clearing his misunderstands with his brother. The same misunderstanding which he never mind to clear with sai.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Why should she help virat when he was not giving her any clarification. Even before their trip pakhi taunted sai. What did virat do? Asking sai to ignore when she is giving back pakhi. What should sai understanding from this. And for her the same day virat was narrating his past love story. So how can any person understand the man who never opens his mouth to give clarification when confronted many times. It is not her responsibility to understand the man who one day calls himself gurdian,other day husband & another day call their relationship zimmedari vala rishtha. And she already told him he should clear everything to samrat. Now it is virat responsibility to make his brother understand. When she herself confused & hurt with virat behavior u r expecting her to help him in clearing his misunderstands with his brother. The same misunderstanding which he never mind to clear with sai.

Because both Samrat and Sai have the same issue. Virat’s past with Pakhi. That is why if he clears it with Samrat,it works even for herself. There are times when Virat actually wanted to confess and clear up..on birthday night and when She burst out at him on anniversary day. Sai did not let him do.

Now she will start her journey towards realising Virat’s love...Good times ahead.

Sai Joshi did many things for many people around. She won’t lose anything if she helps Virat get through to Samrat.

Edited by ltelidevara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I agree...seeing him onscreen is one thing..living with such a person is extremely painful!

Thanks for this ☺️

This is perhaps y I empathize with Sai since I see the teen me in similar volatile situation.

My bro and I both had anger issues which luckily our fam doc identified and helped us manage with yoga meditation and running.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Thanks for this ☺️

This is perhaps y I empathize with Sai since I see the teen me in similar volatile situation.

My bro and I both had anger issues which luckily our fam doc identified and helped us manage with yoga meditation and running.

Stubbornness, brashness, anger issues are part of young people's life and when young age is accompanied by a tragedy , there is not end to it..That same behaviour becomes your defence mechanism.. helps you in closing yourself , so that no one, not even god can hurt you by taking away someone from your life..I have been there and hence I understand it.. Leena the actual writer of the story was apt with the characterization of Emon considering what she went through.. at such a young age..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pakhi is sitting 830km away from Virat aur Sai...usko kyo blame karna Jab Virat aur Sai dono ko thousands of chances mile hai to clear everything? 🙄 Jab Sai boli ki pick between me and Pakhi to Virat ka reaction dekha Aisa nahi hai usko bina matlab ke bola jata hai Jab wo clear hi nahi karna chahta to Virat aur Sai ke bich ka problem Pakhi nahi hai kyonki Pakhi 50 bar kuch bhi bole agar Virat bata de Sai Ko to usko Pakhi ke words so koi fark nahi padega 🙄 Pakhi apni life aur relationship ke liye responsible hai, Virat ki galtiyon ke liye nahi

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Because both Samrat and Sai have the same issue. Virat’s past with Pakhi. That is why if he clears it with Samrat,it works even for herself. There are times when Virat actually wanted to confess and clear up..on birthday night and when She burst out at him on anniversary day. Sai did not let him do.

Now she will start her journey towards realising Virat’s love...Good times ahead.

Sai Joshi did many things for many people around. She won’t lose anything if she helps Virat get through to Samrat.

Helping others is sai joshi choice. She isn't obliged to help everyone. If she doesn't want to help someone then nothing wrong in it. That too when that someone is not ready to give any clarification despite being confronted many times.

He tried to confess 2-3 times but never tried to give her clarification about pakhi & vaada which is more important than confession.

It is virat who should give clarification to both sai & samrat because it is he who wants his brother to not misunderstand him & wants his wife to understand his feelings. It is in his own hands. No one can help him if he doesn't open his damn mouth & clarify everything.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Helping others is sai joshi choice. She isn't obliged to help everyone. If she doesn't want to help someone then nothing wrong in it. That too when that someone is not ready to give any clarification despite being confronted many times.

He tried to confess 2-3 times but never tried to give her clarification about pakhi & vaada which is more important than confession.

It is virat who should give clarification to both sai & samrat because it is he who wants his brother to not misunderstand him & wants his wife to understand his feelings. It is in his own hands. No one can help him if he doesn't open his damn mouth & clarify everything.

💯 She not obligated to confess until it's all cleared up. Personally it just gets to me and I can't deal iwth people who are not clear in communication

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Helping others is sai joshi choice. She isn't obliged to help everyone. If she doesn't want to help someone then nothing wrong in it. That too when that someone is not ready to give any clarification despite being confronted many times.

He tried to confess 2-3 times but never tried to give her clarification about pakhi & vaada which is more important than confession.

It is virat who should give clarification to both sai & samrat because it is he who wants his brother to not misunderstand him & wants his wife to understand his feelings. It is in his own hands. No one can help him if he doesn't open his damn mouth & clarify everything.

Clarification should be given to those who are ready to listen but not to those who judge by hearing one side story. Virat tried to clear up with Samrat who is not receptive to any interaction with him. So I don’t find wrong with Virat.

Virat’s silence will now work better.

Bold I don’t consider Virat Chavan one among every one for Sai. Even she won’t think so.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Clarification should be given to those who are ready to listen but not to those who judge by hearing one side story. Virat tried to clear up with Samrat who is not receptive to any interaction with him. So I don’t find wrong with Virat.

Virat’s silence will now work better.

Bold I don’t consider Virat Chavan one among every one for Sai. Even she won’t think so.

Don't know what one side story u r talking about. In case of sai there was no one side story. She saw virat taking about vaada, commitment to pakhi, calling her pyari cheez, going to her personal space, giving her enough leaverage to enter their room anytime & comment about their married life. And whatever samrat said was also a truth. Not one side story. If only pakhi loved virat while talking to him in phone call that night. Then it would have been one side story. But virat loved pakhi & gave her vaada to keep her in his heart always. That was neither one side story nor misunderstanding. Only difference is things changed for virat now since he moved on. Just because he moved on, truth doesn't becomes misunderstanding.

Okay let's take sai is not willing to listen during Confrontations though she asks him direct questions. But what about other normal times. When he realised his love for sai shouldn't clarifying about pakhi be the first priority for him before confession & surprises? How he thought sai should be okay in moving on without him giving any clarification. He has thousand chances to come out clean about his past & but he didn't even thought sai owns an explanation before moving to next stage in their relationship which is his biggest mistake.

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