SBs SEGMENT TODAY ~ UPDATED Pg 4 - Page 12

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yes he has to face certainly..But I was just saying, how he would be feeling with Sai adding to the miseries he already is dealing with.. AFter all in all this , never was his intent wrong. I do not sympathise his ways, but right now he has to deal with a lot of things and top of that this woman is questioning his character, putting his self respect at stake.

I feel sorry for Virat for what Sai spoke. I feel sorry that Samrat is trying to maintain a distance from him. But his misery is his misery because he is not addressing it. He could sense what Samrat was trying to say, he could have tried to talk to him but Samrat didn’t want to and Virat didn’t try enough. His intention isn’t wrong but he had anyway wronged Samrat. He decided on behalf of him.

He has to deal with it. What I don’t like is that he is not trying to look at things from other’s perspectives. He is not trying to understand other’s issues or emotions. Forget Sai especially after what she spoke now, he need not clarify to her because she wasn’t asking him for clarifications but was alleging him. But rather than getting drowned in his own misery that Samrat has misunderstood him or is not willing to listen to him, he should be trying to think what Samrat might have heard or how he would have felt when he came to know about it. He should try to talk to Samrat and apologise to him than drowning in his misery. He has to work on setting things right. High time he does that.

Originally posted by: laksh

I feel sorry for Virat for what Sai spoke. I feel sorry that Samrat is trying to maintain a distance from him. But his misery is his misery because he is not addressing it. He could sense what Samrat was trying to say, he could have tried to talk to him but Samrat didn’t want to and Virat didn’t try enough. His intention isn’t wrong but he had anyway wronged Samrat. He decided on behalf of him.

He has to deal with it. What I don’t like is that he is not trying to look at things from other’s perspectives. He is not trying to understand other’s issues or emotions. Forget Sai especially after what she spoke now, he need not clarify to her because she wasn’t asking him for clarifications but was alleging him. But rather than getting drowned in his own misery that Samrat has misunderstood him or is not willing to listen to him, he should be trying to think what Samrat might have heard or how he would have felt when he came to know about it. He should try to talk to Samrat and apologise to him than drowning in his misery. He has to work on setting things right. High time he does that.

Agree I mentioned in the other thread, his characteristics of being non-confrontational, takes over these people distancing themselves from him..

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I get what you are saying Laksh.

You know in anniversary, when she had her outburst...I think I was still more towards Sai .....because she was shocked, confused, pained. Even whilst she hurt him....she didn't exactly imply two timing....She seemed angry and mad that he was trying to build a relationship with her whilst having feelings for Pakhi. So her outburst was one meant to shake him up.....angrily question him ki what the hell are you doing? So I understand how it must have looked to Virat...but there was some context to Sai's behaviour.

Today's SBS had her saying that he had made a master plan to sail in two boats simultaneously. Her words were certainly not like during anniversary. I don't know what she meant ....whether she was saying the same thing as what she said in anniversary or was implying something else. So this was very very below the belt and dirty 👎🏼. I guess I'm still trying to find a silver lining somwhere....to convince myself that it's still worth watching...😒

Exactly, I understood her during the anniversary celebration.

@bold Exactly.

But this time she has accused him which is not right at all.

@blue Have to wait for the scene to play out. We need to get the context and if she has actually said that. If she did, then it is very wrong.

@green Hmm 😞.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Agree I mentioned in the other thread, his characteristics of being non-confrontational, takes over these people distancing themselves from him..

Your last line makes me feel sorry for him. It is not his intentions but his nature which is becoming a barrier between him and his loved ones.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Sbs just wants masala in their headlines but she didnt say aap ek saath doh logon ko cheat kar rahe hai or aap two time kat rahe hai. She said doh kashti mein savaar which is very vague n can be interprered in many ways. If taken as two timing its crossing a line coz she's accusing him of cheating. But Sai has reason to doubt Virat because she doesn't know his state of mind. She has never implied physical cheating but definitely emotional attachment. In her mind he has loved pp n thats it. Theres no scope for a "Sairat". And his ex lives with them. So i dont see how Sai is supposed to let it slide. Everytime she questions him, he shuts down rather than clarify. he seems confused aboyt what pp was- did he really love her . To pp, he said they only "liked/were attracted" but to Sai he makes it seem like he genuinely loved pp. He said he didnt stop yoga instructor because it used to be true! How does Sai come to terms with this....she is trying. Virat was crazy when Sai was genuinely with a friend. Pp is NOT his friend, yet virat made the mistake of calling her his bff, his pyaari.cheez, allowimg her to interfere in his life rather than maintain a distance. He wanted to support her when Samrat went missing not realizing that it only fuels her to not let go of him and for Sai to misunderstand him.

what Sai has been pointing out to virat forever is that he needs to choose n be clear. She keeps seeing ambivalence in his actions n words. He is upset wbout his emotional investment in pp. If he chooses Sai, then Sai needs to see that pp had no place not just in his heart but no place in his mind even as a friend. And if he loves pp, nothing wrong with that but he needs to man up n do something. He cant assume and expect everyone should move on. This whole exes can be friends is largely not true n if it works its only when both people are mature. Not when one is delusional and openly pining for him.

Neerja, I completely agree with you 100%. I had already agreed with your initial post. Trust me, I really do feel for Sai. But, the way in which she spoke per the sbs segment is really unfair to Virat. There is a difference between the intentions behind what you say and the way you come across. I, too, do not think that she is accusing him of cheating. She knows in her heart that Virat has always been loyal. Much of what you have written, I have too written in many other posts. But, the way in which she is coming across- saying that Virat had a "masterplan" of keeping 2 women in his pocket... I know it is out of her hurt and pain, and she is not trying to say this- it just sounds cheap and extremely unfair to him. My POV.

Originally posted by: laksh

Your last line makes me feel sorry for him. It is not his intentions but his nature which is becoming a barrier between him and his loved ones.

Exactly and thats what makes me sad for him..His intent is right but he has no clue how to put them forward,..he does not even reflects on other people's emotional outbursts.. The talk which he had with Sai when he surprises her today had so many pointers on how she is insecure, but no all he gathered was she wants to leave him..His nature to wallow in self pity, feel guilty all his life , but to confront issues head on makes him irritated at him but then again it also makes me feel bad for him!

Originally posted by: laksh

Exactly, I understood her during the anniversary celebration.

@bold Exactly.

But this time she has accused him which is not right at all.

@blue Have to wait for the scene to play out. We need to get the context and if she has actually said that. If she did, then it is very wrong.

@green Hmm 😞.

The "master plan" meant deliberately deceiving - this was too much.

I can't believe Sai would say this..😒. The have changed her into Emon...😡

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

The "master plan" meant deliberately deceiving - this was too much.

I can't believe Sai would say this..😒. The have changed her into Emon...😡

I had issues with just this dialogues...Till he clears his emotions for Pakhi in clear words, his intentions could be questioned at situations like these, but then calling it master plan is not acceptable!

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I get what you are saying Laksh.

You know in anniversary, when she had her outburst...I think I was still more towards Sai .....because she was shocked, confused, pained. Even whilst she hurt him....she didn't exactly imply two timing....She seemed angry and mad that he was trying to build a relationship with her whilst having feelings for Pakhi. So her outburst was one meant to shake him up.....angrily question him ki what the hell are you doing? So I understand how it must have looked to Virat...but there was some context to Sai's behaviour.

Today's SBS had her saying that he had made a master plan to sail in two boats simultaneously. Her words were certainly not like during anniversary. I don't know what she meant ....whether she was saying the same thing as what she said in anniversary or was implying something else. So this was very very below the belt and dirty 👎🏼. I guess I'm still trying to find a silver lining somwhere....to convince myself that it's still worth watching...😒

Before I was starting to think that we should wait until the episode airs to discuss. And, that is still partially true, because we will get the entire context. But, then what you have written (@bolded) really did make me think otherwise. From Virat's perspective, it does not matter what she intended to mean. The fact is that the phrase that she has used "masterplan" and "being in two boats at once" has implications beyond intentions. I have always sided with her and understood where she is coming from. And, Laksh as you have beautifully described, I still do. But, now I want to say for Sai what I always say for Virat. There is a difference between intentions and how those intentions comes across. Her intentions here could have been to simply say that he needs to choose, to clear everything up... and to me, this is the greater possibility... this is again, all of her hurt and pain coming out. Samrat returning has slashed open her wounds in ways that are even worse than before. But, despite all of this, her words are still 100% wrong. She has no control over her tongue when she gets angry. She probably was not thinking before speaking, but the bottom line, to me, is that the phrase she has used is very dirty and below the belt as you have said Nethraa.

I really would like to see her apologizing for this.

Originally posted by: laksh

Your last line makes me feel sorry for him. It is not his intentions but his nature which is becoming a barrier between him and his loved ones.

This is the essence of the reason why SaiRat are in this entire mess to begin with.