Originally posted by: asmi_joya
I agree there... This is not right..I get her anger, her hurt, her desperation and her fear..have defended her on anniversary episode also..I also get her questioning him before...but today ith these words, I dont...I cannot defend this đĄ This was too disrespectful towards the man who you claim to respect...
She is wrong. Period.
But your last line, I was about to say the same but I have another thought here. Me and Pooja think about their emotions many a times. I read Pooja saying that he is a human even before he is a police officer and that is what I think too. The same way Sai is acting as a wife and not the girl whose responsibility Virat had taken. This is not at all to justify what she spoke. This is to tell that we canât mix gratitude, her respect for him as a person who stood by her with Virat whom she has feelings for, the feelings that she tries to run away from and also Virat whom she doesnât want to accept but also whom she is not able to let go of or act possessive for.
This is where emotions play a role be it Virat or Sai. The heightened emotions can blind the sense of right and wrong. Sai in general is a person who has more control over her emotions than Virat. She tries to keep reminding herself and keep it as deal, but she miserably fails to her own emotions that she has for him which doesnât help her to feel emotions like jealousy or possessiveness. Thatâs why it is called turmoil, confusion.
Anyway I think I have got distracted, forget what Virat has done for her or not, when acting possessive or feeling insecured, she is not going to think about him as a person who did things for her but she would be looking at him as a person whom she wants to be her husband, for whom she has feelings.
What she spoke was wrong. If she wants to think he has feelings for Pakhi, she can think but she cannot say this. If she is confused that he is getting close to her (emotionally and physically) or he is acting like a husband with her, then she should ask questions, keep asking any number of questions rather than making such statements. If she is confused about his behaviour towards her then she should deal with it in a different way than questioning him like this. This is demeaning.
She can think he doesnât have feelings for Pakhi anymore and has started to develop feelings for her or can think that whatever he is doing to her is as a dutiful husband, because he doesnât want to hurt her, because he is a kind person but he still has feelings for Pakhi.
I am not able to think about how Virat would be feeling now. At the moment he has to take Samrat back home and he canât even do anything about this or can afford to get the space that he needs. I am not sure how he would be even able to stay in the same room with her who spoke this. Just like how Sai wanted to leave Virat and go to Pulkitâs house, wouldnât Virat want to go somewhere away from her after this? That is why I want Sai to move out because that is his house and he canât go anywhere else and she is the one who has issues with him, so she should leave.
Edited by laksh - 4 years ago