You are right marriage cannot survive the my way or highway attitude no doubt, which is why they had discussed this much earlier. The problem is kinjal and her blind attachment to her in laws in the name of a family. No body was asking her to break off her ties with them, all he asked her is to move out and live separately. He has not stopped her or curbed her from doing whatever she wants but that doesn't mean she gets her way all the time either.
She shouldn't have married him if she didn't have the courage to accept that he too could want different things, she should have married someone like Samar instead, the fact is Paritosh and Kinjal are very different individually and have different needs, when Kinjal wants to live in a joint family even if its dysfunctional Paritosh wants a place where he has his own space and privacy. Yes he has a room of his own but it doesn't prevent his mental peace from getting ruined owing to the daily fights that take place in the house. Kinjal either doesn't seem to understand or she simply doesn't care, that's why I say she is being selfish to the core. If she has a problem with the penthouse being a gift from her mother then she should clarify that so that paritosh can arrange something else. But she is so adamant of sticking around and forcing him as well. She wants to take her time, fine she can but Toshu is not wrong either, she can't say that he left her and went later on.
Your point is right that nobody was asking her to break off the ties but toshu’s sudden outbursts has made things messy and was looking like breaking off ties.
Matter was only in between pakhi and Kavya after dance competition but suddenly out of blue, toshu started with his outburst and it made things/relations messy. In place of focusing on how to come on same page as husband/wife, he completely diverted the things in the outburst direction.
There is no point to create mess when you have already decided to leave. You just need to focus on how to make your partner to come on same page.
I totally agree kinjal and Paritosh both are very different individual with different needs. I like your first line that if have no courage to accept he too could want different things, you should not marry him . Absolutely true!
Even if my husband is wrong in front of family/outsider/friend, as long as he has not done criminal act, I will not leave my partner after silly/insignificant heated moment. I will follow him everywhere till he comes back to his senses. Following him doesn’t mean accepting he did right!
As a wife , I can’t leave my husband alone after silly/insignificant heated moments. Partner can be wrong in front of family/friend/outsider/each other but for me it’s my strong feeling as a wife to bring him back in senses and for that, if you need to follow your partner for time being there is nothing wrong in it.
Kinjal was not mentally prepared to leave the house and I understand it’s extremely difficult to do the things with which your heart is not there but of course I can’t imagine to leave my husband alone when I know that he is not in his senses.
My husband is not just another family member. Jiske liye mai Aisa soch saku that he deserves to live alone after his misbehaviour. Definitely not! As a wife my primary goal will be not to leave his side after heated moments due to silly/insignificant fights. Staying by his side and how to bring him back to senses would be my preliminary goal for the sake of marriage and for the man with whom I have taken 7 pheres.
Kinjal is also partial wrong here . That’s why I said no rakhi or penthouse thing is responsible for separation, it’s all because husband -wife has no ability to emotionally connect with each other.
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