Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 20

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Did they leave Dev and go away🤣🤣

Back row mein Oily, Rishitha and Hardik😆

Middle row mein Suman mom, Dhara and Gaumbi🤣

Front mein Krish and Driver bhaiya🤣

Okay atleast they made him walk back home🤣🤣 I am happy Dev got this 🤣

SPH moment..😆 I didn't even notice that Dev got left behind! But then, I don't notice him most of the time unless he is practicing one of his adbhut occupations or giving an adbhut expression 🤣

Okay wow, this episode got my heart pounding abnormally. That last scene was beyond intense and it got me in my feelings ngl. I'm actually shOOk.

As much as I agree that it shouldn't have been public, I will gladly accept this over having the rest of the family members butting in between their conversations. This confrontation was MUCH needed otherwise they would keep going in circles because both of them just trigger each other in a certain way which keeps them from thinking and breaking down the barriers in their marriage.

Again, both Raavi and Shiva are at fault. Neither of them realize their faults in terms of what's going haywire in their marriage. Neither realize how their actions hurt each other. Shiva needs to control his anger (and I do believe Raavi could be a voice of reason to reign in his anger; and the sort of calmness he needs in his wrath when their relationship has improved ofc. It will be beautiful to watch)

Now, as much as I despise separation tracks with my whole being (I'm emo like that), the union of a pair (in ITV) doesn't happen without distance between them, and anyone can see that ShiVi need to be apart to learn a few important lessons. Currently, neither of them understand each other's worth nor do they value much about one another. It's not because they don't feel anything. It's because they won't let themselves introspect because they're always around each other! And all they've done their whole life is fight with each other. It's like second nature for them. They don't know how to communicate and because they've never felt each other's absence in their respective lives, they take each other forgranted. Knowing one another from childhood, there have to be some deep-rooted feelings they have for one another (other than hatred). It doesn't have to be love, could be anything and I believe their feelings have changed after marriage (we know about Shiva's side but Raavi's is still a bit iffy. Today, her words were as sharp as knives, and I hope she gives herself the chance to truly sit down and think about her marriage and what she truly feels about Shiva and what she wants from him).

The main point is that they both need to evaluate all their actions and words to understand where they went wrong and what their worth is to each other. Without this, they can not move on. This is a great chance for the makers to really dig deep into these characters, there is SO much potential. They could maybe even serve us some flashbacks to really pack a punch into these ShiVi scenes (I would totally love this!) After we get an insight into their thoughts, communication between them will be VITAL. I'm just truly afraid the CV's might fluff it up. (I also hope they don't stretch out the separation for months)

On another note, I might be abnormal, but I liked the fight scene (I swear I'm not violent) 😆 Also, someone please throw Anita off a cliff already.

Originally posted by: Roohani27

@Bold Im sure of that, Shivi nahi kdice hi sahi😆😆

Didn't kinshuk mention some adoption? they might show that if they're still able to write sensibly😔

Aaj kal toh KDice k bharose hai hum sab!! Shivi se kuch bhi expect krne se darr lagta hain! 🤷‍♀️🥺❤

In psychology, an inferiority complex is an intense personal feeling of inadequacy, often resulting in the belief that one is in some way deficient, or inferior, to others.

According to Alfred Adler, a feeling of inferiority may be brought about by upbringing as a child (for example, being consistently compared unfavorably to a sibling), physical and mental limitations, or experiences of lower social status (for example, being treated unfavorably by one's peers due to belonging to a different race, economic background, or gender)

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I am MAD at Shiva for his violence, but I am mad at Raavi too.

It's not about defending Shiva, but after marriage, Raavi spent every second pouring out her frustrations to Shiva, which included trying to hit him in front of the family!

She went on crying in front of everyone how Shiva is untidy, why did God marry her to him!

I was always Pro-Raavi. She doesn't deserve all this, but I am sorry for Shiva too. My hubby would beat the shit out of another man if they said such words about me ever.

Men and women both deserve to be loved and respected! If Shiva doesn't deserve Raavi, she also doesn't deserve him.

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

Itne saare friends aur tel, masale ke tadke ke baad, Shivi is explosion is here 🔥

Raavi is rightly pointing out Shiva's inferiority complex, and how he lashes out in frustration at her. 👍🏼Though I don't like the harsh names because I don't think it's completely justified, I'm glad ke she finally understands ki it wasn't her words from the diary jisse itna badi aag lagi. 👍🏼

Also, Raavi is finally at the end of her ability to compromise, and make this marriage work. 💔Aaj ghuse mein, phir se she yelled that she hates him, and that she shouldn't have married him.... Shiva is, phir se asking ki jab tu mujhe bachpan se janti thi toh phir shaadi kyu ki?? 😒 Shiva is still looking for that validation...Raavi still only has a token answer ki she thought Shiva was a nice guy. 😒Ab ek dusre ki importance samajne mein, pata nahi how long we have to wait.

Coming to the maar-peet, it's interesting that the final trigger was ki woh apni biwi ka khyaal nahi rakh sakta.💔 Yea, on surface it was jealousy and possessiveness... He did keep yelling MERI BIWI during the entire fight... how dare they want to drop her home...ask her out... take photos. 🤔But the trigger wasn't that jealousy or possessiveness. Unka commenting on him being jungli and everything is ek taraf...them questioning his ability to protect her is a whole different thing. 💔 Agar uske friends itne overfriendly aur personal nahi hote, he probably wouldn't have lost it completely. Being Chattan Pandya for his Phoolkumari is the one thing that he's done extremely well...just like the last shot where he pulls her away from whatever fell. So no way he was going to be able to ignore them.

I'm glad that Raavi showed Shiva the mirror today wrt his actions towards her... Question is will Shiva show Raavi the mirror tomorrow for the ways she's behaved with him?? I certainly hope so

@bold: I really hope so! Everyone knows/talks about Shiva's anger issues and how Shiva mistreats and misbehaves with Raavi (and rightfully so), but only Shiva knows that Raavi has misbehaved with him as well. She needs to see the error of her ways too, not just him

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Did they leave Dev and go away🤣🤣

Back row mein Oily, Rishitha and Hardik😆

Middle row mein Suman mom, Dhara and Gaumbi🤣

Front mein Krish and Driver bhaiya🤣

Okay atleast they made him walk back home🤣🤣 I am happy Dev got this 🤣

Lol I didn't notice that. I was like sat in the back with oily, but that was Hardik.

Lol he took a detour in AU's ad world or honeymoon with wife.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

But with his actions, today, I think he did act like Junglee and he has been acting like that this past week.

Don't agree in Jahil and gawar part though.

yeah, I agree. He behaved like a jungli today. But he wasn't one before he fell in love with her/before last week, yet Raavi considered him to be jungli and has called him that too. That, along with her calling him jaahil and gawar multiple times, to me shows that that she considers herself superior to him.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi gave them those rights, period. If she had stopped when Sneha did it, right in front of him, this would not have happened. Then her friends to continue to bad mouth him, she waits for them to finish, then says Shut up. What’s the use. The only way you can stop them if Raavi had slapped one of them especially tje Rohan guy who had a crush on her. It is all tje question of liberty and freedom, how much you give your friends to discuss your personal life,

Did she ever clear her standing about Shiva to them after marriage, no, right? So they al think she has been forced into this marriage. Even the other day she only talked about how handsome Shiva is and uska sserat, never talked to them about whether she is happy or not in this marriage

I want to bring this famous quote again which I posted in the DT, “ Your friends are who you are”😕

Couldn’t agree more!!!

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Was the original seperatation also as violent and intense as this one? Or the reasons were different there??

Nooooooooooooooo

Kathir is no Shiva. He has anger issues but nothing like Shiva. He never said that the marriage was over. Kathir when feels low completely shuts off and there will not be any communication from him😕

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

yeah, I agree. He behaved like a jungli today. But he wasn't one before he fell in love with her/before last week, yet Raavi considered him to be jungli and has called him that too. That, along with her calling him jaahil and gawar multiple times, to me shows that that she considers herself superior to him.

She does!! She’s only about appearances!!