Is Pallavi really that wrong? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Phoenix_Fire123

If pallavi indeed trust raghav why not believe him on the 7 day challenge . Even today he told her he saw mandaar at the event . She didn't believe him.

Also raghav doubting pallavi ? When did that happen

He has been more than tolerant of her helping the D's . Just because she considers it as her maayka and M as aayi baba's son it doesn't change the fact that he was her ex.

He put the tracker not because he doubted pallavi but because he wanted to keep her safe from that creepy M which is still wrong but he didn't doubt her even for a second .

Also those flashbacks he keeps having of P in M's lap and P holding his hand and asking him to stay. Put yourself in his shoes and decide for youself won't you feel the hurt he is feeling and still he hasn't accused pallavi at all because he trust her.

But has pallavi given him enough assurance so that he can keep that trust intact . She promised so much and has gone back on literally every promise of hers.

Raghav hurt hai.but phir bhi woh pallavi ki character pe ungli nahi utai hai.agar socho Raghav ki jagah koi aur ITV male lead ho toh ab tak female lead ko itna emotional torture kar diya hoga.

And mujhe itna gussa iss baat pe aa rah hai itna kuch ho rah hai.intentionally and unintentionally pallavi galtiyon par galti kar rah hai.she doesn't have any guilt,aur instead of accepting she giving lame excuses.🙆🙆🙆🙆.aur ulta uska farz ka bhaashan suna rah hai.

Yes basically Pallavi shud decide what she wants!!

Originally posted by: Vismayakm

Raghav hurt hai.but phir bhi woh pallavi ki character pe ungli nahi utai hai.agar socho Raghav ki jagah koi aur ITV male lead ho toh ab tak female lead ko itna emotional torture kar diya hoga.

And mujhe itna gussa iss baat pe aa rah hai itna kuch ho rah hai.intentionally and unintentionally pallavi galtiyon par galti kar rah hai.she doesn't have any guilt,aur instead of accepting she giving lame excuses.🙆🙆🙆🙆.aur ulta uska farz ka bhaashan suna rah hai.

Exactly guilt kaha gaya behan for someone who used to be so empathetic and emotional. But writers ka fault hain ye . Kaafi bashing ho hi chuki uski pure last week mein so now i am going to bhool bhool it all and give her a second chance because she has given every1 second chance in the past as well and she has a good heart at the end of the day . So no more grudges against her from now on.

Originally posted by: vimeo

I don't agree that Pallavi is not at fault in this whole mess. She has chosen the mess. But, one thing Raghav should realise is the real test of their marriage is now. Earlier was nothing. There was no competition what so ever. Now that Mandar is back alive, the real choice lies now - in Pallavi's hands. The only one who can choose is Pallavi. She may have decided to go ahead with the marriage with Raghav because she might have realised that he is not a bad man after all. But I think any day she would still have an inkling in her mind that Mandar wud be a better person than Raghav. She always kept Mandar on a very high pedestal. And she had got married to Raghav by force and not by choice. Though she stayed back on her own will, she had not looked at the possibility that Mandar wud be alive one day. So looking at all these circumstances, Raghav should step back and allow Pallavi to make a choice on her own accord. She should not be pressurized in any way. For all he knows, she may never make the choice to return to Raghav. She might get back to her old routine and she might be happy making the d family happy. And that was what she always wanted before Raghav came into the pic. But, but, but if she returns back to Raghav he will know that she has returned for good and will never turn back! And he need not ever fear Mandar's interference again.

So Raghav sit back and enjoy the show. Have a kit kat!! Daru sehat ke liye accha nhi hai!

I totally totally agree. Especially the last line 😂

Originally posted by: LondonFan

It is a husband’s responsibility to take care of their wives but the whole issue here is that Pallavi is not gullible nor has she been shown like that previously.

But isn't this a freak situation. If we expect Pallavi to understand Raghav then we must expect Raghav to guide her too

Originally posted by: Priya516

The big question here is what does Pallavi want? She cannot say I love Raghav and he is my husband but will stay at my ex husbands house and nurse him back till he regains his memory. If she wants a marriage with Raghav then she needs to be there 100 percent just like Raghav.. It takes 2 people to make the marriage work and right now Raghav is in it alone. Pallavi needs to decide if she wants to stay married to Raghav or she wants to go back to d house as their DIL. But right now she has her legs on 2 boats and the destination is not the same and she needs to hop out of one to avoid causing further damage.

I know Pallavi is wrong but what if this Mandaar was genuine and what if Pallavi feels that it is like her last karz of the Ds which she has to repay?

The point is for once let's look at it from her POV.

Originally posted by: Phoenix_Fire123

Exactly guilt kaha gaya behan for someone who used to be so empathetic and emotional. But writers ka fault hain ye . Kaafi bashing ho hi chuki uski pure last week mein so now i am going to bhool bhool it all and give her a second chance because she has given every1 second chance in the past as well and she has a good heart at the end of the day . So no more grudges against her from now on.

Exactly! Itni bashing ho rahi hai jaise usne pay nahi kya kar diya ho.

I think Raghav dropped the ball when didn’t inform Pallavi about the 7 day challenge the day it happened. The dialogues said by him in yesterday’s episode should have been said by him much much earlier.

Pallavi has been dumbed down. Time & again VD has insulted her & the man she loves. Why is she now agreeing to babysit his son? Even if she think she owes them something why not visit instead of moving in & then giving that idiotic promise. Even aai is against her moving in then why.

Also when you’re emotionally attached to someone the brain seems to stop working. Raghav has stopped thinking like the smart businessman & Pallavi the confident & shrewd woman!

Originally posted by: ..sur..

I know Pallavi is wrong but what if this Mandaar was genuine and what if Pallavi feels that it is like her last karz of the Ds which she has to repay?

The point is for once let's look at it from her POV.

I don’t think anybody has issues with Pallavi helping out her ex husband to regain his memory but it is way she is going about it has what irked most of us.. Every relationship has its boundaries, respect and it also comes with responsibilities. When you overstep and go overboard then it becomes an issue. Her overstepping and being unapologetic is the issue.. just my thoughts..

Pallavi priorities are so wrong her I love you yo Raghav is so shallow with no action. The way she moved behind Mandar neglecting Raghav is snot boy insensitive but mockery of her proclamations of love. I want self realization on part of Pallavi and genuine efforts on her part to mend her marriage