What does Raghav think marriage is? (August 10 episode) - Page 3

pallavi itna humanity karti hai .please thoda humanity uss Raghav par Karo .divorce karo aur apne so called farz toh poori tarah nibhavo .dekho vo bechara mandaar tumhare liye haat jala Raha hai.kood rah hai

Raghav ne sahi kaha dha.pallavi ke saath shaadhi matlab barbadi .vo akhele hi teek dha . sorry to say but jitna bhi kaho I can't justify pallavi .but I felt very bad dumb hone ki ek limit hothi hai.kitna bhi excuses dhe dhu aaj pallavi ne hadh kardi

Originally posted by: Jalebiness

Amazed to see 14likes on the post. Anyway won't waste my time explaining how 'relationship' and 'trust' works because when Your partner's hurt is not even considered because of a stupid promise then yeah that's definitely love😆 and also when you sleep on your ex's lap (Raghav didn't knew she was unconscious neither she said the next day or willing to know what happened just lashed at him hearing her Mauka 'trust you see'. And I do believe Choosing to live with your Ex 24*7 nursing him to a point that you forget to even call your partner shall Definitely be understood by your current partner or else he is toxic. TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. 🤣

Raghav is a Toxic emotional abuser and definitely doesn't deserve Pallavi. Pallavi deserves her family and Mandar. Raghav please divorce her and stop 'abusing' her by saying you love her when you do.

Well said ..

Interesting discussion.

Both are wrong and escalated the situation honestly.

Everyone should Just accept that and stop the raghvi division.

Woah! Too much expectations from Raghav and Raghav only. How easily you put all the blame on him and the points you've mentioned, it seems like you're watching a completely different show or maybe you love Pallavi so much that you're able to overlook her flaws.

I honestly don't have much to say since others have covered almost everything that I wanted to convey. Also you have decided to stand by what you said so I don't know why you even made this post if you are not going to take others pov into consideration?

And EMOTIONAL ABUSE??? Raghav is emotionally abusing Pallavi??? I am so baffled by the people who reacted on your post. Do they really think the same way about Raghav? So anything to defend & justify Pallavi's deeds and she should be given a free pass while other characters won't be spared even for their little mistakes?!

Now I really wonder what would have been the case if the situation and roles were reversed. So damn sure that Raghav would have received more backlash than what Pallavi is getting these days.

What does Raghav think marriage is?

He will tell Pallavi what he needs or wants, and it is her responsibility to do it for him?

When is it Raghav's turn to support Pallavi and trust her out of his sight (without a tracker)?

He trust pallavi more than himself but not that creeps intentions he had already taken pallavi with him and switched off her phone for her safety he put tracker

Pallavi needs his permission to show compassion to her family?

Isn't she a person that he loves for her qualities, including her compassion?

Or, is she just a trophy with his name on it?

He didnt stopped her to show her compassion for ex in laws but she is baby sitting her creep ex husband thats his problem

Did he ask Pallavi's permission to choose Kirti over her, or did he just pay off the witness, steal the pen camera, and make a false confession?

If he had choosen keerti he would have totally manipulated the proofs not surrenders himself

If Pallavi faints while dancing, and mutters something in a daze, that is a reason for Raghav to doubt her fidelity, to shout at her?

Shouldn't his concern be for her health, to ask why she fainted?

He didnt know she fainted he only thinks she is tired even after seeing her in her ex lap he still wants her back koi aur hota tho divorce dedeta

If she forgets about his special moment for the sake of someone less important, he isn't happy to see her anymore?

If you truly love someone, shouldn't that person always be more important to you than what she does or fails to do?

Ek husband ko itna bhi hak nahi hai ki uske wife se kuch expect kare aur woh nibha nahi paayi tho usse upset rahe

This is emotional abuse by Raghav. Sure, I believe what he said when the liquor loosened his tongue: he desperately loves Pallavi in the sense that he cannot live without her - the same obsession that we are supposed to see from Mandar. (I'm not convinced that Mandar actually wants Pallavi; he isn't exactly trying to get to know her.) So, what would Raghav do if Pallavi treated him the way she treats Mandar? If she moved on from him, as she has the right to do - legal marriage notwithstanding, would he throw away his life to make her feel guilty? I hope not; that's not the kind of love that comforts and supports and cherishes. At first, I thought that Raghav drove drunk to Deshmukh Niwas, taking the risk of crippling himself and becoming even more dependent on Pallavi, but it seems that he had his driver take him this time. Dare I hope that this is the first step towards Raghav acknowledging how his drinking affects Pallavi and others?

First and fore most pallu assured raghav that she only loves him thats why he is expecting and geeting upset when she didnt reach his expectations pallu is raghus wife not mandaars still she is doing duty towards mandar and she neglecting her duties towards rao family

Second thing raghu never drives being drunk he always takes driver or farhad with him when he is drink if u wanted you can check old episodes

He called pallu out if she comes out when he called he dont need to do drama but she failed him again

As for that special moment - Raghav said repeatedly that he didn't want to go to the awards ceremony (because he was mad at Pallavi), but he went only because Jaya promised him Pallavi. In other words, Raghav doesn't value the recognition of his talents by professionals, nor good publicity for his company; he used the event as an occasion for Pallavi to prove her fidelity. When she wasn't on time, he disrespected the award-givers by walking out; when Pallavi arrived late, he aired private grievances in public. She embarrassed him, so he embarrassed his hosts and her. If you truly love someone, shouldn't you cover her shortcomings in public?

They talked in entrance where only his family is there not on stage

He told his life story and he did received the award and came out

What you expect from hot headed man like raghav other getting angry

If pallu loves him she needs to love him with his flaws

Remember when Milind didn't worry about embarrassment or losing money because Manasi cancelled her wedding? He just hugged her. That's love - you value a person, not what you lose on her account.

There manasi was not at fault that her wedding got cancelled but here pallu deliberatly choose mandar nautanki than raghavs achievment so she is at fault

Meanwhile, Jaya seems to have completely forgotten her advice that Raghav and Pallavi should unite and punch their problem together. Now, she thinks it is her place to decide when a wife may or may not see her husband. If Jaya sincerely believes that Raghav is in no state to talk to anyone, even then she should step back and let him turn Pallavi away himself if he wants to. What is more important, Raghav's petulance or the fact that Pallavi came all the way to him? Never mind, Pallavi has come to her own home, so get out of the way, Jaya.

Jaya got embrassed and her vachan has broke because of pallu so she turned her back at her thats it she didnt closed the door she has every right to be upset with pallu

You too, Vijay. Let Pallavi bring her drunk husband in for the night. You have nothing to gain by leaving the Rosetta Stone of "I love you" rattling at your door.

Why to bring him in he should have let raghu wife go with him then he will not do drunken drama in front of the great deshmukh house

Originally posted by: Jalebiness

Amazed to see 14likes on the post. Anyway won't waste my time explaining how 'relationship' and 'trust' works because when Your partner's hurt is not even considered because of a stupid promise then yeah that's definitely love😆 and also when you sleep on your ex's lap (Raghav didn't knew she was unconscious neither she said the next day or willing to know what happened just lashed at him hearing her Mauka 'trust you see'. And I do believe Choosing to live with your Ex 24*7 nursing him to a point that you forget to even call your partner shall Definitely be understood by your current partner or else he is toxic. TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. 🤣

Raghav is a Toxic emotional abuser and definitely doesn't deserve Pallavi. Pallavi deserves her family and Mandar. Raghav please divorce her and stop 'abusing' her by saying you love her when you do.

Ye sickand actually apna show dekhta hai kaya? Otherwise how he can destroy his own lead role like this way where no class is left to define.

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Yes sending pic to mandar was childish act by raghav but it was also done by him because he had extremely faith & confidence on pallavi's promises that she wouldn't ever leave him whatever mandar does creepy acts with them. So raghav confidently wanted to prove it mandar to send pics . But simple conversation won't ever be convinced pallavi to stop to go to mandar & d family. Eventually raghav disclosed to pallavi about challenge & desmukh family's not allowing him to meet with her. But what result has been come? Did she give a deep thought or value on these 2 most important issues. No. So if even there would be a normal conversation at initial times between raghvi as usual pallavi made stop raghav to give the list of promises & excused mental & health issue of mandar hence mandar acted like this.

I wouldn't justify both of them in this track. Pallavi shouldn't have been oblivious and Raghav shouldn't have been insecure. They both are unrelatable to me and no matter how many points come in front; both of them weigh their mistakes equally. There's something called understanding, if one makes a mistake the other should correct and vice-versa; here both of them are making errors and are doing everything apart from talking this out.

Even then, for me, Pallavi is a step higher; yes this track brought her character arc down but that does not mean I can overlook the amount of good things she has done before, especially trusting Raghav for the accident fiasco when even Keerti was okay with her own brother being sent to jail. Pallavi stood against the whole world for him. Raghav's trust here is so diluted that I cannot compare it to the previous incidences. He is hurting, he is in pain; I will deny none of that. Amma and Raghav are right in their place but Raghav's turbulence on his insecurities will not appeal me at all. Mandaar is fully at fault, Pallavi needs to open her eyes. But isn't Raghav smart? Does he not call himself a born smart person? Did he not outwit Ved? Where is that Raghav now? Crying because Mandaar and Vijay tried to pull him down? Time and again the only thing he says is "She is Pallavi Raghav Rao." This is the same Raghav stood who in front of Mandaar and called his marriage with Pallavi invalid. This is the same Raghav who said he will have insecurities only during the problem and not before and after that. Pallavi's actions here is unjustifiable, I don't have words to defend her. But Raghav's actions are nothing less than a cribbing mess.They butchered his grey arc solemnly.

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

I agree with your every word from my heart but in today episode pallavi made a choice between mandar and raghav. After mandar got all required medical treatment for burn aayi told her to go to award but pallavi said "mandar ko aise kaise chod ke" . His own biological mother was there to take care of him but pallavi was volunteering to care of him. In this particular scene no emotional manipulation was done not even from VD. She herself in mind chose to take care of mandar well being in comparison to attending her husband party. So what this scene implies to a normal /neutral like who aren't solo stans

And on top of that writers made pallavi lie that there was no one to care of mandar at home when his own biological parents , aunt sister were present

This is seriously illogical writing and it gives away the fact that pallavi will always chose mandar over raghav even in life death situations

blame it only on writers for poor characterisation and silly dialogues

Like I said before, both are at fault.

Raghav is trying to explain his situation and Pallavi is trying to explain hers. What they need at this point is a full fledged conversation. Pallavi right now is totally unrelatable but still this does not make Raghav less culpable. Raghav is acting on his insecurities and impulse. Pallavi needs to understand this, also at the same time Raghav needs to think about the circumstances that is pressing Pallavi down. It cannot only be her fault only right? This time the contribution to this problem weighs on her but at a grasping point, Raghav has only been crying his eyes out the entire time. She can be unsafe, Mandaar challenged him and Raghav is okay with her being under the unsafe line? As a woman I hate it when other women are oblivious to vibes. Yet, there are some people who get emotionally manipulated. Raghav is only afraid that Pallavi is choosing Mandaar over him. For the umpteenth time, Pallavi confessed her love to Raghav and not Mandaar. Pallavi is being manipulated emotionally and Raghav's worry is about their relationship. They are married, they confessed their love and what more is needed?

If being beside each other 24*7 and saying 'I love you', having cheesy romance is love for them...then that relationship is nothing but a joke for me. They are not showing their strength in the most needed moment. Pallavi emotionally looks out for Raghav if this is not understood, then what they are sharing is very shallow. What Pallavi did for the past few episodes is unjustifiable, I cannot find a justification for Raghav either. They need to sit and talk; that's what they need to do now.

I cannot fathom to put words forward to describe what they have done to their relationship.

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Ye sickand actually apna show dekhta hai kaya? Otherwise how he can destroy his own lead role like this way where no class is left to define.

Watch YHM to know what he can do with his own show🤣

You may not able to even recognise Raghav and Pallavi after one/two leap😆

It feels sad that many ITV shows starts with unique storyline and is loved so much but they ruin it without a proper reason to such extend that you find no logic.

Ruining Pallavi was not needed they could have actually kept loop holes from their marriage where Pallavi would have forced to go to D house and probably get Blackmailed by VD that they will make Raghav arrested by saying the truth of their marriage to the court and Pallavi will ignore Raghav and hurt him deliberately (even that wouldn't make sense whatsoever but would have been much much better then her choosing her ex blindly over Raghav) and then their pain could have been related so much..

Also, She had her voice when Raghav spoke against Mandar but now can't stand against VD for Raghav. She won't even think once that if VD behaved with Raghav like this at her presence than what must have transpired between them at that function when she was unconscious that led Raghav to leave her and go. Such Idiot Pallavi has been turned to. And if she doesn't have a painful redemption, I won't ever relate to her.

Originally posted by: AnOptimist

Woah! Too much expectations from Raghav and Raghav only. How easily you put all the blame on him and the points you've mentioned, it seems like you're watching a completely different show or maybe you love Pallavi so much that you're able to overlook her flaws.

I honestly don't have much to say since others have covered almost everything that I wanted to convey. Also you have decided to stand by what you said so I don't know why you even made this post if you are not going to take others pov into consideration?

And EMOTIONAL ABUSE??? Raghav is emotionally abusing Pallavi??? I am so baffled by the people who reacted on your post. Do they really think the same way about Raghav? So anything to defend & justify Pallavi's deeds and she should be given a free pass while other characters won't be spared even for their little mistakes?!

Now I really wonder what would have been the case if the situation and roles were reversed. So damn sure that Raghav would have received more backlash than what Pallavi is getting these days.

I FAIL TO UNDERSTAND HOW CAN SOMEONE NOT GET INSECURE WHEN YOUR PARTNER TIME AND AGAIN IS CHOSING HER EX.

It's beyond me. They r just 6 months old in the relationship, recently confessed (and even after making promises broke it) she has moved on to live with her ex without even asking or informing (whom she missed even after her marriage to Raghav and regretted not having a life with), She can Stand insults on Raghav, Mandar Taunting Raghav and not even flinch but as soon as Raghav shares his concern she lectures on Farz, she LIES that Mandar was alone in home when his parents were there and deliberately wanted to take care of Mandar for just a burn and not attend her husband's award show for which she promised her MIL neither did anything to inform her or appologise.

You are thrown out of your wife's supposed Mayka and your wife just sees everything. Don't tell me if Raghav was to Throw Mandar out of his house, Pallavi would have thought about her relationship and kept shut, she would have blasted Raghav left right and centre then and there.

Did she do promise not to meet Raghav? Then why did she bear the insult he was thrown to? Was he physically abusing her 🤪 kuch bhi.

And even after all of these if SOMEONE IS SO SECURE IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN I DONT UNDERSTAND THIS LOVE. Don't people realise CHEATING AND INDEFINITELY IS NATURAL. Getting insecure is normal. Especially when you know the ex has no saint irada for your wife.

I personally won't be comfortable with my partner being with someone 24*7 who wants them because of the 'fear' that they might go around impressing my partner and even if you trust your partner Fear of Losing is is Natural.

If you don't have fear of losing your partner that's taking for granted. Also, if Raghav goes around taking care of another lady dumping Pallavi the thing would have taken a full genderic turn🤣