What does Raghav think marriage is? (August 10 episode) - Page 5

Originally posted by: radicalleftist

Honestly it seems like people are highly inclined to forgive the ML if the ML is extremely visually attractive. I see the same thing with one of the ML in Pandya Store who is extremely abusive towards his wife but people just minimize it because they think he is attractive.

As for Pallavi and RR- I don't care for either of them. RR using a tracker and sending a selfie to Mandar was sick regardless of how people are defending it. If people can forgive him because he said sorry then they can forgive Pallavi for being at her in-laws for a few days. I understand that the pretext of that is to take care of Mandar but if I was Pallavi and I found that out then I would definitely need a few days away from my so-called loving husband.

With everything that RR has done to Pallavi in terms of the emotional abuse in the beginning of the series and then blackmailing her to marry him-this is not comparable at all. Yet, Pallavi has stood by him and even when all the evidence was pointing towards RR killing Mandar she still chose to believe RR.

Pallavis biggest fault is her "mahanta". It is annoying to see her always think that what she is doing is right even when people older then her are trying to show her the light. In terms of helping Mandar, I still think it comes from a place of obligation to the trashy D fam which is just unfortunate. We know she is a character that had centered her entire lives around that horrible family despite how horribly they treated her.

It'll take a bit of time before she can finally see a life without them and can finally live for herself! I really am begging the makers to have at least 1 track where Pallavi finishes her Kathak training!

But in short, I hate both of them most of the time. Yet I still hold out hope that the makers can redeem their characters and I can have at least one ITV show that I can confidently recommend to other people.

This is kinda objectionable. Not applicable to all specially those are mature in age. I'm almost new in this forum but reading posts & comments I have got the point properly is here most of members are mature in talk & age. Anyway, come to the point yes I agree the ruthlessly raghav married pallavi there is no word to vouch his action nonetheless i found positivity in this not because he is attractive just because he unintentionally saved pallavi's life bringing her out from that selfish d family where she only led disrespectful life getting continuous reprimand from family members. But after marriage you can't say that raghav was bad husband. He never enforced on Pallavi to accept this relationship, never abused her rather gave her option to come out from this marriage. However There are many good contributions of Pallavi in raghav's life also. These are undeniable & for these all raghav has fallen in love with her so intensely hence raghavi have become so beautiful. Basically in this track that old Pallavi is completely disappeared. This present Pallavi is unrecognisable who promised raghav to give this marriage most priority. I think this Pallavi would be acceptable if she never accepted raghav as her husband never accepted their marriage.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

There are so many points I agree to. Raghav has been very immature. I love him but his take on this situation has been so poor. He was never the understanding types, he's always reckless especially when it comes to feelings. Love is too new for him and marriage is even a bigger mission for him. The truth is, he is clueless about how a marriage is meant to be.

Pallavi has always supported Raghav and when it's turn to support her, regardless of how silly her equation with that family is, he is acting up. A mature man will gauge the situation and once he finds out that her ex is evil, he will take all measures to make sure that his wife is safe. But Raghav is just a complete mess right now. It's his feelings over his duties as a husband.

Both of them are failing in their duties, I don't know who's failing more. Pallavi is clearly silly, I don't wish to discuss her take on the D's but she is genuine. There is not one fake bone in her and that is what Raghav loved about her. She also happens to be the same woman who overlooked Raghav's misdeeds and gave him a chance with his family even before his repentance started. Now it is the same quality that is irritating us because it's not directed towards Raghav, but if we see from an unbiased stance, this is Pallavi. And this is Raghav - reckless, impulsive and explosive. His brains are put to use in his business but he's always an emotional mess from the very beginning. That is why I am personally loving this track because their "I love you' has been debunked already by the tests thrown at them by time. It will polish them to be better partners and better lovers. Saying I love you came into the story only for it to be put to a grueling test, and I'm loving it because both of them are failing equally at it. Once they hit rock bottom, it's only up then onward.

One more thing - In a marriage, especially a new one which started off on the wrong foot, the hard work must be doubled, and both of them have not yet put in any specific efforts to make things work for them. Words are not enough. Right now, they're actually unknowingly working against each other and allowing outsiders to meddle into their lives. Is it that they have a point to prove to each other? Because in a marriage, you don't work towards proving a point but you work towards living harmoniously. If one partner is silly, the other one needs to have double brains. Balance it. But here, both of them are explosive 😆 Humare mein kehte hai na, beta, samajhdari se kaam lo, warna baat aur bigad jayegi. One of them has to do this. I wish it to be Raghav once he's done with his heartbreak.

This is exactly the point 💯

Both of them are new to this, both of them are learning. Ups and downs needs to be balanced by one another. Inclining to just one point is senseless cause mistake is a mistake.

Originally posted by: radicalleftist

Honestly it seems like people are highly inclined to forgive the ML if the ML is extremely visually attractive. I see the same thing with one of the ML in Pandya Store who is extremely abusive towards his wife but people just minimize it because they think he is attractive.

As for Pallavi and RR- I don't care for either of them. RR using a tracker and sending a selfie to Mandar was sick regardless of how people are defending it. If people can forgive him because he said sorry then they can forgive Pallavi for being at her in-laws for a few days. I understand that the pretext of that is to take care of Mandar but if I was Pallavi and I found that out then I would definitely need a few days away from my so-called loving husband.

With everything that RR has done to Pallavi in terms of the emotional abuse in the beginning of the series and then blackmailing her to marry him-this is not comparable at all. Yet, Pallavi has stood by him and even when all the evidence was pointing towards RR killing Mandar she still chose to believe RR.

Pallavis biggest fault is her "mahanta". It is annoying to see her always think that what she is doing is right even when people older then her are trying to show her the light. In terms of helping Mandar, I still think it comes from a place of obligation to the trashy D fam which is just unfortunate. We know she is a character that had centered her entire lives around that horrible family despite how horribly they treated her.

It'll take a bit of time before she can finally see a life without them and can finally live for herself! I really am begging the makers to have at least 1 track where Pallavi finishes her Kathak training!

But in short, I hate both of them most of the time. Yet I still hold out hope that the makers can redeem their characters and I can have at least one ITV show that I can confidently recommend to other people.

@bold- That's true and it's happening time and again.

Mistakes are done by both here. It's a really bad writing this time. They better redeem it.