Raghav's insecurities

As the story is progressing everyone is witnessing Raghav's growing insecurities. This insecurity is making him do mistakes now and probably more often in future. Inspite of such strong promises made to one another , one would think why is Raghav insecure?

Raghav had a difficult time growing up. Pain has definitely been a part of both Raghav and Pallavi's life but Raghav has had a more difficult life than Pallavi. Whatever situation Pallavi has been in , she always had people who loved and cared for her . But has dealt wid people leaving him since very young age. First he had to witness the brutal lynching of his Appa and his younger brother for which he was blamed by everyone including he himself. Then he was left all alone to fyt his demons by his only living family.....his mom and Keerthi. Even now he has not completely earned the love his sister.

When he found Pallavi , he found companionship. In her he found someone who tried to see the Raghav underneath the Raghav Rao. He has never considered himself worthy of her. It so evident when he says word like she "accepted" him. Yes she did accepted him wid all his flaws. And she is the one wid whom he has shared his deepest fears and root of his insecurities . How many times has he asked and requested her to stay in his life, to not leave him alone.......even when they were not in love. He changed himself ......so that she would choose to be wid him. So better to understand his insecurities over losing his "one" to her ex.

Not saying he is ryt but his deep seated insecurities over people abandoning him combined with his knowledge of the ulterior motives of Mandar is making him act out.

U are right

I wish pallavi understands this

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

As the story is progressing everyone is witnessing Raghav's growing insecurities. This insecurity is making him do mistakes now and probably more often in future. Inspite of such strong promises made to one another , one would think why is Raghav insecure?

Raghav had a difficult time growing up. Pain has definitely been a part of both Raghav and Pallavi's life but Raghav has had a more difficult life than Pallavi. Whatever situation Pallavi has been in , she always had people who loved and cared for her . But has dealt wid people leaving him since very young age. First he had to witness the brutal lynching of his Appa and his younger brother for which he was blamed by everyone including he himself. Then he was left all alone to fyt his demons by his only living family.....his mom and Keerthi. Even now he has not completely earned the love his sister.

When he found Pallavi , he found companionship. In her he found someone who tried to see the Raghav underneath the Raghav Rao. He has never considered himself worthy of her. It so evident when he says word like she "accepted" him. Yes she did accepted him wid all his flaws. And she is the one wid whom he has shared his deepest fears and root of his insecurities . How many times has he asked and requested her to stay in his life, to not leave him alone.......even when they were not in love. He changed himself ......so that she would choose to be wid him. So better to understand his insecurities over losing his "one" to her ex.

Not saying he is ryt but his deep seated insecurities over people abandoning him combined with his knowledge of the ulterior motives of Mandar is making him act out.

yes people can have different opinions about raghav but they need to understand that raghav doing all these things is being driven by his deep rooted insecurities and fearing that he is still unworthy of pallavi love. In one line all I can say is that he doesn't want to lose the one person that is pallavi who has brought back the love in his life. His loneliness has vanished from the time she has entered in his life. People all the time can't be in their super intelligent mode especially when their is a fear to their loved ones . He is hanging on to his life by a very fine thread that is pallavi love and companionship. He wants to protect this thread. even if he has to do some very silly and outrageous thing like putting track. If this thread breaks he will literally be lifeless.

He might be again on his foot after the speculated breakup but he will not remain the raghav that was smiling in today's photos shoot

I have no problem with Raghav and his actions. It’s Pallavi I have issues with at the moment.

i don’t think he is wrong …. he has every right to protect pallavi and feel insecure … but kind of actions he is taking is at fault.. he should have realized that when Mandar took no time in telling pallavi that raghav shared their wedding pic with him then how long will it take for him to figure out the tracker.. he should have used some other ways if he chose not to discuss with Pallavi… btw I still feel he should have told pallavi about the challenge…believing or not believing is on her…

Raghav was never a bad person but impulsive and arrogant… he kept on helping Pallavi even when he wanted her to leave hyderabad…Pallavi’s comfort level around Raghav is way too high even before marriage… just imagine going to a don’s house all alone and after a while even staff doesn’t question her coming … remember when she asked Harish where is Raghav I want to talk to him and the guy directly told her the hotel address he was in..

and now they are husband wife ..my only problem is pallavi is way too trusting and that is why she can’t see beyond Mandar’s lost boy facade…(what was the reason to get excited that he remembered that mirror ritual. isn’t it a common ritual in marathis) she may have known mandar a little but for Raghav he is a stranger…any husband would not like his wife hanging out with a complete stranger.. he is in dilemma as he can’t voice out his concerns to her without coming out as suspicious spouse… and thus the stupid measures he is taking to ensure her safety…but today the way he himself appeared in the restaurant, that is not a concern for safety but to make sure mandar doesn’t get Pallavi’s sympathy… that does look a little like insecurity and he has to rise above that…

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

yes people can have different opinions about raghav but they need to understand that raghav doing all these things is being driven by his deep rooted insecurities and fearing that he is still unworthy of pallavi love. In one line all I can say is that he doesn't want to lose the one person that is pallavi who has brought back the love in his life. His loneliness has vanished from the time she has entered in his life. People all the time can't be in their super intelligent mode especially when their is a fear to their loved ones . He is hanging on to his life by a very fine thread that is pallavi love and companionship. He wants to protect this thread. even if he has to do some very silly and outrageous thing like putting track. If this thread breaks he will literally be lifeless.

He might be again on his foot after the speculated breakup but he will not remain the raghav that was smiling in today's photos shoot

well if everything goes well.. I don’t think that there will be a separation track but even if it happens, I want Raghav to move on.. ldki k jane se hero bna devdas and unhappy rude drunk is too cliche… he is raghav rao.. I want him to switch back to his old self and he has amma now… for his mother he should try to be normal.. happiness ki bat ni h… he could immerse himself in his work and never talk about her ever..

May be I am a little pissed with Pallavi but the moment this track has started, Pallavi is behaving like some simpleton or a puppy who cannot let go of his old owner…she can never separate herself from trashmukhs no matter how many times she will be insulted…and chlo bangles yaad aye tk to theek ta but today’s ritual is nothing new info .. and why is he conveniently remembering only their wedding and no childhood memories… Aai was right even if he is not doing any drama (highly doubt it), she is making him more dependent… she considers him as her friend then why can’t she advise him to spend sometime with his family and try to recall moments with them… why all his moments are related to her and her only but no she will not question him because of her foolish devotion to trashmukhs… I really feel pity for Raghav and that is why even though he is doing stupid stuffs like sending selfies and tracker thingy, I can’t criticize him… poor boy…

Penned it perfectly

Raghu redeem himself so well he did beyond his reach to bring a smile in pallu life

He has fulfilled her wishes without expected anything in return

Only when she came forward to express her love for him that’s when he wholeheartedly welcomed her love and he came out expressing his hidden love for her .

Trust was never a issue it was family responsibility that always disturbed there sanity

Kirti and mandar are wall in between them

I think Raghu should set pallu free not show desperation here Mandy is instigating Raghu to make him bad in pallu eyes and he seems successful in precap scene

tracker was to protect pallu from Mandy but if u see it from pallu eyes it’s mistrust

Coming days Mandy Gona push Raghu to the edge when Raghu will be big trouble and pallu will further fall in the pit

7 days challenge will be final nail in the coffin Mandy will create a scene which might break pallu trust on Raghu .

But the day pallu gets to know Mandy real face she would have lost Raghu

Raghu is stubborn in few things if he makes up his mind never to look back he won’t

until pallu lose Raghu she won’t realize what she lost

Irony is such aai got the point that treating Mandy pallu will lose the beautiful bond she had with Raghu

I don’t see Raghu insecurity bad any hubby will feel so

Pallu was the only one who always stood by when his own mom didn’t pallu brought out the real Raghu which is had build a wall around

She was always with him

It was beautiful journey with her

Why would he lose it for psycho Mandy who pops and claims his ex wife

I think Raghu was not wrong

For him he was right and humans do mistakes

Pallu mahanta will kill her marriage

as aai said Mandy will be big hurdle in pallu life he might force her even

pallu will fall flat and no one can save her only she can save herself

Raghu won’t take this heart break that easily he will bounce back and back to the square one Raghav rao will be back to his self which was the essence of the show

He might destroy Mandy for sure which will shock us all

Pallu will repent big time it won’t be easy to redeem it ever

Such a sane and balanced post! Every line you said is true. His face was filled with guilt in precap .. he couldn’t meet Pallavi in the eye. He was guilty that he let his fears take the better of him and did something that hurt Pallavi so bad. I have trust on cvs to handle this track well.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

As the story is progressing everyone is witnessing Raghav's growing insecurities. This insecurity is making him do mistakes now and probably more often in future. Inspite of such strong promises made to one another , one would think why is Raghav insecure?

Raghav had a difficult time growing up. Pain has definitely been a part of both Raghav and Pallavi's life but Raghav has had a more difficult life than Pallavi. Whatever situation Pallavi has been in , she always had people who loved and cared for her . But has dealt wid people leaving him since very young age. First he had to witness the brutal lynching of his Appa and his younger brother for which he was blamed by everyone including he himself. Then he was left all alone to fyt his demons by his only living family.....his mom and Keerthi. Even now he has not completely earned the love his sister.

When he found Pallavi , he found companionship. In her he found someone who tried to see the Raghav underneath the Raghav Rao. He has never considered himself worthy of her. It so evident when he says word like she "accepted" him. Yes she did accepted him wid all his flaws. And she is the one wid whom he has shared his deepest fears and root of his insecurities . How many times has he asked and requested her to stay in his life, to not leave him alone.......even when they were not in love. He changed himself ......so that she would choose to be wid him. So better to understand his insecurities over losing his "one" to her ex.

Not saying he is ryt but his deep seated insecurities over people abandoning him combined with his knowledge of the ulterior motives of Mandar is making him act out.

Perfectly penned

Love, hatred, fear, revenge are extremely strong emotions and can make people do extreme things.

What Raghav is going through right now is very normal

Because even though they have confessed to each other, their foundation is yet not built strong

And given the trauma Raghav had in his childhood, his behavior is true to his nature

And this fear isn’t allowing him to think rationally and Pallavi is to be blamed for that

As a better half she needs to understand his fear and insecurities and certainly not take him for granted

If she can be so empathetic towards her ex why not towards Raghav whom she claims to love?

But raghav also needs to learn and understand that if people are meant to leave, they will.. some situations you cannot control. Yes he might be insecure and its only natural especially given that mandaar is pallavi’s first husband coupled with the fact that he has openly challenged that he would get back pallavi in 7 days.. but he needs to learn to leave things to fate.

The tracker might have been placed with good intentions esp since the previous day mandaar literally cut off pallavi from everybody and pallavi remained clueless but his act will be perceived by one and all as one who didnt trust his wife enough..

Raghav really needs to follow amma’s approach.. let people do what they wish to cuz he cannot control anyone.. instead of constantly living in fear and going through self-inflicted torture, might as well make up your mind and face the fear head on.

If he senses pallavi in any form of danger, then warn her, talk to her. If pallavi requires his help, she will come to him.