Raghav's insecurities - Page 3

you have penned down Raghav's insecurities perfectly and seeing the fact how much he had to fight for getting love and if he loses that again..he is bound to feel insecure

Originally posted by: ReemShah

you have penned down Raghav's insecurities perfectly and seeing the fact how much he had to fight for getting love and if he loses that again..he is bound to feel insecure

Thank you🤗

Yeah it pains me to see Raghav acting this way. See Raghav never reacts much to what Pallavi says , even when I find it a bit insensitive. ....like mentioning dt Mandar remembered their marriage rituals and dt he remembered things seeing her bangles. He only reacts to Mandar's threats and actions.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Thank you🤗

Yeah it pains me to see Raghav acting this way. See Raghav never reacts much to what Pallavi says , even when I find it a bit insensitive. ....like mentioning dt Mandar remembered their marriage rituals and dt he remembered things seeing her bangles. He only reacts to Mandar's threats and actions.

I completely understand where you are coming from---he has let Pallavi take the rein of their relationship and lets her do anything she wants

but definitely doesnot like Mandaar;s interference between them

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Perfectly penned

Love, hatred, fear, revenge are extremely strong emotions and can make people do extreme things.

What Raghav is going through right now is very normal

Because even though they have confessed to each other, their foundation is yet not built strong

And given the trauma Raghav had in his childhood, his behavior is true to his nature

And this fear isn’t allowing him to think rationally and Pallavi is to be blamed for that

As a better half she needs to understand his fear and insecurities and certainly not take him for granted

If she can be so empathetic towards her ex why not towards Raghav whom she claims to love?

Both of you have summed up perfectly what Raghav is going through.

Pallavi is just thinking of him in terms of a husband.

She needs to start seeing him as an individual person too who shared his deepest pains & his past with her. She really needs to remind herself of what Raghav told her about him. Only then she'll be able to understand what he's going through.

You just can't keep pushing a person over the edge by saying He trusts me. He trusts you, Yes. But you also have to return it with same strength.

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Both of you have summed up perfectly what Raghav is going through.

Pallavi is just thinking of him in terms of a husband.

She needs to start seeing him as an individual person too who shared his deepest pains & his past with her. She really needs to remind herself of what Raghav told her about him. Only then she'll be able to understand what he's going through.

You just can't keep pushing a person over the edge by saying He trusts me. He trusts you, Yes. But you also have to return it with same strength.

@ bold : True words !!! She needs to remember the vulnerable Raghav that has only surfaced before her . She needs to remember that Raghav is also human and has his own fears.

Exactly. .....he trusts her.....what she doesnt understand is he doesnt trust the other person . She should try finding out why . The restuarant conversation was so giving away Mandar's intentions but no she ignored it all🤔

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

@ bold : True words !!! She needs to remember the vulnerable Raghav that has only surfaced before her . She needs to remember that Raghav is also human and has his own fears.

Exactly. .....he trusts her.....what she doesnt understand is he doesnt trust the other person . She should try finding out why . The restuarant conversation was so giving away Mandar's intentions but no she ignored it all🤔

Character dumbing down is all we are getting. And that too for both.

Cos both of them were so strong, they'll tackle everything, Where's the masala to run the show then😆

The girl who was able to sniff Sunny's intentions can't understand what Mandaar wants after so many meetings, Kuch bhi.

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Character dumbing down is all we are getting. And that too for both.

Cos both of them were so strong, they'll tackle everything, Where's the masala to run the show then😆

The girl who was able to sniff Sunny's intentions can't understand what Mandaar wants after so many meetings, Kuch bhi.

Wohi toh

Raghav pe toh aaj wo psyco lover track bhi play kar diya🥺......I just wanted to murder someone for dt only🤔

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Wohi toh

Raghav pe toh aaj wo psyco lover track bhi play kar diya🥺......I just wanted to murder someone for dt only🤔

Exactly. I was like WTH

Don't have much time to pen down lengthy thoughts ... but I think the main disconnect is that Raghav has not yet learned how to adequately tell Pallavi his insecurities & she has not yet learned how to pick up on them.

He said a little bit, but hasn't gone into further detail but at the same time Pallavi needs to learn how to pick up his behavioral cues. Not everything needs/should be said. It's a hard situation to be in because sometimes you do need to hear from your partner what they are and are not ok with - she cannot read his mind. However, his behavior is more highly agitated and upset when near Mandar - she needs to connect the dots more.

He says "go ahead and do your noble work", but she can't see how his tone is different or how he gets agitated anytime they're around Mandar.

It's also because they still don't know each other that well combined with the fact that the both of them think they know best. Raghav think he's doing the best thing by playing this challenge with Mandar on the DL and Pallavi thinks that all that matters is she won't ever develop an attachment to Mandar + she knows Mandar better than Raghav so why would she pay heed to any of his (or even Aayi's) concern. She can't even begin to think Mandar would want her - she blames all his statements on his memory loss, nothing else.

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

But raghav also needs to learn and understand that if people are meant to leave, they will.. some situations you cannot control. Yes he might be insecure and its only natural especially given that mandaar is pallavi’s first husband coupled with the fact that he has openly challenged that he would get back pallavi in 7 days.. but he needs to learn to leave things to fate.

The tracker might have been placed with good intentions esp since the previous day mandaar literally cut off pallavi from everybody and pallavi remained clueless but his act will be perceived by one and all as one who didnt trust his wife enough..

Raghav really needs to follow amma’s approach.. let people do what they wish to cuz he cannot control anyone.. instead of constantly living in fear and going through self-inflicted torture, might as well make up your mind and face the fear head on.

If he senses pallavi in any form of danger, then warn her, talk to her. If pallavi requires his help, she will come to him.

I agree 100% with this. I've said before that this track is meant to teach Raghav that all his power, wealth, status, and efforts won't help him beyond a certain point. Not everything is in his hands and no matter how hard he tries to fight his fate, things won't always go the way he wishes them to.

He's not just afraid, he's terrified not just to lose Pallavi but also his family falling apart which isn't yet stable anyway.

He's worried that Mandaar might hurt Pallavi and he clearly doesn't have trust issues with her. Of course, for TRPs sake we might get some misunderstanding drama.

I feel he should just observe from a distance and step in only when necessary. Let him do his own thing and give Pallavi her space to make mistakes.