Raghav's insecurities - Page 2

Originally posted by: elnino

U are right

I wish pallavi understands this

Fingers crossed she will. If nt in the moment, may be later

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

yes people can have different opinions about raghav but they need to understand that raghav doing all these things is being driven by his deep rooted insecurities and fearing that he is still unworthy of pallavi love. In one line all I can say is that he doesn't want to lose the one person that is pallavi who has brought back the love in his life. His loneliness has vanished from the time she has entered in his life. People all the time can't be in their super intelligent mode especially when their is a fear to their loved ones . He is hanging on to his life by a very fine thread that is pallavi love and companionship. He wants to protect this thread. even if he has to do some very silly and outrageous thing like putting track. If this thread breaks he will literally be lifeless.

He might be again on his foot after the speculated breakup but he will not remain the raghav that was smiling in today's photos shoot

There is a speculated breakup😲

Kisne bola ?

Yeah evn I feel dt.....if they part ways , they will turn Raghav back to his original form......angry , rude , arrogant and dis time heartbroken

I love the fine thread thing you hv written. Raghav and Pallavi hv confessed they love each other and Pallavi also claimed nothing will come between them , but their relationship is still new. From Raghav's perspective ....if he has known Pallavi for months only.....so has Mandar. There relationships needs nuturing to become strong. Maybe this storm will make them come out stronger and hopefully not break them.

Originally posted by: LondonFan

I have no problem with Raghav and his actions. It’s Pallavi I have issues with at the moment.

Ummm......me too....kinda

I dont hv issues wid her wanting to help but she is behaving so naive these days dt it kinda irks me a bit. She is believing every damn lie coming out from Mandar's mouth but isnt listening to people cautioning her . Instincts toh chodo.....I hv given up....she has none.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

There is a speculated breakup😲

Kisne bola ?

Yeah evn I feel dt.....if they part ways , they will turn Raghav back to his original form......angry , rude , arrogant and dis time heartbroken

I love the fine thread thing you hv written. Raghav and Pallavi hv confessed they love each other and Pallavi also claimed nothing will come between them , but their relationship is still new. From Raghav's perspective ....if he has known Pallavi for months only.....so has Mandar. There relationships needs nuturing to become strong. Maybe this storm will make them come out stronger and hopefully not break them.

agree with your words

@bold : It is the rule no 1 of itv show that whenever an ex enters in the life of protagonists there should be a breakup or mini separation for some kind of tashan 🤣

personal opinion :I want this mini separation to happen because then only they will realise each other importance in life more so pallavi at the moment. They need to badly sort out their issues and prioritise their own relationship and happiness over others.

but I am keeping my hopes low because it is an itv show. at the last they will make pallu a saint and raghu a even bigger sinner

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

i don’t think he is wrong …. he has every right to protect pallavi and feel insecure … but kind of actions he is taking is at fault.. he should have realized that when Mandar took no time in telling pallavi that raghav shared their wedding pic with him then how long will it take for him to figure out the tracker.. he should have used some other ways if he chose not to discuss with Pallavi… btw I still feel he should have told pallavi about the challenge…believing or not believing is on her…

Raghav was never a bad person but impulsive and arrogant… he kept on helping Pallavi even when he wanted her to leave hyderabad…Pallavi’s comfort level around Raghav is way too high even before marriage… just imagine going to a don’s house all alone and after a while even staff doesn’t question her coming … remember when she asked Harish where is Raghav I want to talk to him and the guy directly told her the hotel address he was in..

and now they are husband wife ..my only problem is pallavi is way too trusting and that is why she can’t see beyond Mandar’s lost boy facade…(what was the reason to get excited that he remembered that mirror ritual. isn’t it a common ritual in marathis) she may have known mandar a little but for Raghav he is a stranger…any husband would not like his wife hanging out with a complete stranger.. he is in dilemma as he can’t voice out his concerns to her without coming out as suspicious spouse… and thus the stupid measures he is taking to ensure her safety…but today the way he himself appeared in the restaurant, that is not a concern for safety but to make sure mandar doesn’t get Pallavi’s sympathy… that does look a little like insecurity and he has to rise above that…

Yes Raghav isnt thinking straight anymore and he is definitely underestimating this snake called Mandar. He is smarter than Raghav thinks and much more conniving than Raghav can even think of being.

You are right.....Raghav was never a bad person. He is just impulsive and arrogant. Even now he is doing things impulsively without weighing the consequences.

@ bold : Totally....me too. Every piece of memory that this Mandar claims to regain is something very random and always related to Pallavi only. I dont understand how is she not seeing dt. I had said this before.....like Raghav found out everything abt Vat savitri from internet......how difficult is it for someone to find out Marathi marriage rituals ?? Worst case....if it hadnt happened.....he can say....Sorry I had the foggy memory of something similar. Noone is seeing dt.

You have thought way ahead😆

Ok here are some things I definitely agree to.

1. Maybe Raghav should let Pallavi free. Free in the sense....to fyt her own battle. Cz this is her battle.

But then its not easy to see someone you love walk blindly into a trap. Its easier said than done. When you know the other person has wrong intentions , how can you just let go ?

2. Pallavi needs to pay heed to the advice that her loved ones are giving her......especially Sharda. No idea why she wont listen to any word of caution.

3. Yes der is slight possibility of Raghav going bck to being RR if he loses Pallavi.

4. Yes tracker thing must hv been a shock for Pallavi but doesnt she by now know Raghav or the extent he goes to protect someone ?

Originally posted by: _symphony

Such a sane and balanced post! Every line you said is true. His face was filled with guilt in precap .. he couldn’t meet Pallavi in the eye. He was guilty that he let his fears take the better of him and did something that hurt Pallavi so bad. I have trust on cvs to handle this track well.

Thank you🤗

Ofcourse he is feeling guilty bcz in his quest to show Pallavi Mandar's real face ,he is the one who is coming out looking bad . Rightly said....he is letting his fears take the better of him , knowingly or unknowingly.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Perfectly penned

Love, hatred, fear, revenge are extremely strong emotions and can make people do extreme things.

What Raghav is going through right now is very normal

Because even though they have confessed to each other, their foundation is yet not built strong

And given the trauma Raghav had in his childhood, his behavior is true to his nature

And this fear isn’t allowing him to think rationally and Pallavi is to be blamed for that

As a better half she needs to understand his fear and insecurities and certainly not take him for granted

If she can be so empathetic towards her ex why not towards Raghav whom she claims to love?

I agree Pallavi and Raghav have yet to make a solid foundation of their love. They are likely newly in love couple. They still need time , love nd nuturing to make its formidable.

More than being a better half , I expect Pallavi to understand Raghv bcz he has told her everything , his fears , his insecurities , guilt and whatnot. So who better than Pallavi to undertand him and his fears.

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

But raghav also needs to learn and understand that if people are meant to leave, they will.. some situations you cannot control. Yes he might be insecure and its only natural especially given that mandaar is pallavi’s first husband coupled with the fact that he has openly challenged that he would get back pallavi in 7 days.. but he needs to learn to leave things to fate.

The tracker might have been placed with good intentions esp since the previous day mandaar literally cut off pallavi from everybody and pallavi remained clueless but his act will be perceived by one and all as one who didnt trust his wife enough..

Raghav really needs to follow amma’s approach.. let people do what they wish to cuz he cannot control anyone.. instead of constantly living in fear and going through self-inflicted torture, might as well make up your mind and face the fear head on.

If he senses pallavi in any form of danger, then warn her, talk to her. If pallavi requires his help, she will come to him.

I get your point and I would also love if he does dt but then Raghav has never been dt kind of person , has he ? He kept trying to get Amma and Keerthi back inspite of them hating on him.

How does one stop caring fr someone they love ?? Its easy to say but much difficult to do. You cant just stop still seeing your love walk into fire all alone. He couldnt leave Keerthi alone when she didnt even like him, den how would he just let Pallavi be and see where its all headed when she is the love of his life.

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

agree with your words

@bold : It is the rule no 1 of itv show that whenever an ex enters in the life of protagonists there should be a breakup or mini separation for some kind of tashan 🤣

personal opinion :I want this mini separation to happen because then only they will realise each other importance in life more so pallavi at the moment. They need to badly sort out their issues and prioritise their own relationship and happiness over others.

but I am keeping my hopes low because it is an itv show. at the last they will make pallu a saint and raghu a even bigger sinner

Yeah true.

Waise even I hv mentally prepared for a separation but I just dont want Raghav to go all rogue and angry on Pallavi. Dont want him to say or do anything for which he wont be able to redeem himself later.

I was just thinking......yeh Raghav ne phn pe gps kyun nai on kar diya. Pakda bhi nai jata😆