Anupama ki faltu Mamta for Pakhi

“Dance competition in the school “ What would if pakhi dance competition haar gayi??!!

I guess bacche school mai dance competition mai , fancy dress mai , extracurricular activities mai participate karte hai but more for fun that’s it. The result of dance competition, fancy dress competition or any other curriculum activities never affects anyone’s career or anything for college admissions.

What should be more important for any mother? To give life long lesson to bratty daughter or to show unnecessary Mamta for bratty daughter’s small competition??

I feel giving life long lesson to bratty daughter should be more important for any mother than any fancy dress:dance competition etc.

It was the time to give bratty daughter life long lesson and if kavya is not helping bratty daughter , there was no need to send nandini or any replacement to help your bratty daughter. Bratty daughter deserves good lesson and your faltu ka mamta is here just to pamper bratty child’s ego/attitude more and more.

Again I am saying giving lifelong lesson to bratty daughter should be more important than showing faltu ka Mamta just to pamper child’s ego/attitude.

I never liked Anupama’s parenting and can see poor parenting today also.

Mamta ki takat and motherhood lectures se bahar aa kar apni bratty daughter ko pehle lesson dena sikho lady! 😡

Really tired of this show. I am going to take a break for sometime. Anupamaa doesn't take a good enough stand for anything. A Mom cannot always bend over her back to please her children. In fact, mothers should not do that even once. Pakhi is rude and only talks back to Anupamaa, not Vanraj. When she was troubled by Kavya, she didn't throw this much attitude to Vanraj but went in a panic mode herself. In fact, she doesn't even throw this much attitude to Kavya or Baa. Only Anupamaa because Anupamaa normalises it.

I will blame Vanraj for Pakhi's upbringing since he had the most influence on her but now Anupamaa has some control. Pakhi uses amd disposes people - Bestie to Kavya to Bestie and Anupamaa turns a blind eye towards it after 1 scolding. Them back to square one with Anupamaa doing extra things for her with no real efforts from Pakhi and Pakhi misbehaving again. Pampering, misbehavong, scolding, loop. No real consequences for anything. If Anupamaa really loves Pakhi, she will let Pakhi fall this time, so that Pakhi can become responsible and appreciate the good people around her.

Anupamaa is fast becoming a doormat with Vanraj calling her friend or ex as per his wishes, Rakhi and Kavya knowing that they can tell her anything repeatedly with no action against them. After so much drama on 'characterless' issue, Kavya still blamed her for poor cafe review and Rakhi ill treats her now more than ever. Anupamaa is making all this acceptable by not taking a firm stand for herself in the name of goodness and compassion.

I haven't seen a good person with no self respect, so I can no longer connect with Anupamaa's over concern for her ex-husband (she has helped her ex husband who has his entire family supporting him rather than her brother who is now selling papads on the road which her sick mother is making), ex-husband's current wife, her formerly very torturous MIL and her selfish children. I signed up for a show where the female lead realises her self worth and leads an independent, happy life. After divorce, more people are treating her like a doormat than even before.

The Pakhi Rakhi repeat tracks are boring as hell

Realistically, where in the world does a girl's mother scream at and belittle her daughter's in laws repeatedly not only in their house but also their work place? Her pressurising Toshu and Kinjal to move to the penthouse is far more realistic.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Realistically, where in the world does a girl's mother scream at and belittle her daughter's in laws repeatedly not only in their house but also their work place? Her pressurising Toshu and Kinjal to move to the penthouse is far more realistic.

To be honest...every character is dumb as ****

Kinjal - your hubby couldn't get a job on his own and you expect him to make a house ..please get real

Toshu - can't convince his wife to move out so agrees to join hands with sasu maa

Kavya - telling her V you let Anu handle the tax..is she on drugs? Like really Anupama can pay 2 million ..Gadhi

And the crown goes to Anupama

Instead of worrying about other more important things in life like the 2 million or Pakhi's attitude and behavior..she is worried about a freaking school dance competition? I mean seriously......what is she smoking? Why so much maa ki mamta for a god forsaken school level dance competition? How can she even compare .....

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Really tired of this show. I am going to take a break for sometime. Anupamaa doesn't take a good enough stand for anything. A Mom cannot always bend over her back to please her children. In fact, mothers should not do that even once. Pakhi is rude and only talks back to Anupamaa, not Vanraj. When she was troubled by Kavya, she didn't throw this much attitude to Vanraj but went in a panic mode herself. In fact, she doesn't even throw this much attitude to Kavya or Baa. Only Anupamaa because Anupamaa normalises it.

I will blame Vanraj for Pakhi's upbringing since he had the most influence on her but now Anupamaa has some control. Pakhi uses amd disposes people - Bestie to Kavya to Bestie and Anupamaa turns a blind eye towards it after 1 scolding. Them back to square one with Anupamaa doing extra things for her with no real efforts from Pakhi and Pakhi misbehaving again. Pampering, misbehavong, scolding, loop. No real consequences for anything. If Anupamaa really loves Pakhi, she will let Pakhi fall this time, so that Pakhi can become responsible and appreciate the good people around her.

Anupamaa is fast becoming a doormat with Vanraj calling her friend or ex as per his wishes, Rakhi and Kavya knowing that they can tell her anything repeatedly with no action against them. After so much drama on 'characterless' issue, Kavya still blamed her for poor cafe review and Rakhi ill treats her now more than ever. Anupamaa is making all this acceptable by not taking a firm stand for herself in the name of goodness and compassion.

I haven't seen a good person with no self respect, so I can no longer connect with Anupamaa's over concern for her ex-husband (she has helped her ex husband who has his entire family supporting him rather than her brother who is now selling papads on the road which her sick mother is making), ex-husband's current wife, her formerly very torturous MIL and her selfish children. I signed up for a show where the female lead realises her self worth and leads an independent, happy life. After divorce, more people are treating her like a doormat than even before.

Your words are damn meaningful and logical ⭐️

I agree with your words anupama can’t take good enough stand for anything and seeing precap , it’s one more time clear for me only’s father’s pampering is not responsible for bratty daughter, anupama has also some control but must say her parenting for bratty daughter is extremely poor.

@bold : this is exactly I am saying.

Last paragraph is bang on . Like you , I am also unable to connect because of her over concern for ex husband. Lol 25 saal ki shaddi hai bich mai ,3 bacche hai yeh sab dialog looks extremely lame seeing their ugly breakup and vanraj’s nature.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

To be honest...every character is dumb as ****

Kinjal - your hubby couldn't get a job on his own and you expect him to make a house ..please get real

Toshu - can't convince his wife to move out so agrees to join hands with sasu maa

Kavya - telling her V you let Anu handle the tax..is she on drugs? Like really Anupama can pay 2 million ..Gadhi

And the crown goes to Anupama

Instead of worrying about other more important things in life like the 2 million or Pakhi's attitude and behavior..she is worried about a freaking school dance competition? I mean seriously......what is she smoking? Why so much maa ki mamta for a god forsaken school level dance competition? How can she even compare .....

@bold : Exactly! There are so many real struggles around her and seeing bratty daughter’s attitude there is no need to be worried about freaking school dance competition.

In place of giving strong lesson to bratty daughter, she threw nandini in bratty daughter’s territory just for her overflowing mamta. I felt bad for nandini 🤢She needed to say strictly no to anupama and should ask anupama to help your bratty daughter for your overflowing mamta.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Really tired of this show. I am going to take a break for sometime. Anupamaa doesn't take a good enough stand for anything. A Mom cannot always bend over her back to please her children. In fact, mothers should not do that even once. Pakhi is rude and only talks back to Anupamaa, not Vanraj. When she was troubled by Kavya, she didn't throw this much attitude to Vanraj but went in a panic mode herself. In fact, she doesn't even throw this much attitude to Kavya or Baa. Only Anupamaa because Anupamaa normalises it.

I will blame Vanraj for Pakhi's upbringing since he had the most influence on her but now Anupamaa has some control. Pakhi uses amd disposes people - Bestie to Kavya to Bestie and Anupamaa turns a blind eye towards it after 1 scolding. Them back to square one with Anupamaa doing extra things for her with no real efforts from Pakhi and Pakhi misbehaving again. Pampering, misbehavong, scolding, loop. No real consequences for anything. If Anupamaa really loves Pakhi, she will let Pakhi fall this time, so that Pakhi can become responsible and appreciate the good people around her.

Anupamaa is fast becoming a doormat with Vanraj calling her friend or ex as per his wishes, Rakhi and Kavya knowing that they can tell her anything repeatedly with no action against them. After so much drama on 'characterless' issue, Kavya still blamed her for poor cafe review and Rakhi ill treats her now more than ever. Anupamaa is making all this acceptable by not taking a firm stand for herself in the name of goodness and compassion.

I haven't seen a good person with no self respect, so I can no longer connect with Anupamaa's over concern for her ex-husband (she has helped her ex husband who has his entire family supporting him rather than her brother who is now selling papads on the road which her sick mother is making), ex-husband's current wife, her formerly very torturous MIL and her selfish children. I signed up for a show where the female lead realises her self worth and leads an independent, happy life. After divorce, more people are treating her like a doormat than even before.

Bang on.👏 You covered it all

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

“Dance competition in the school “ What would if pakhi dance competition haar gayi??!!

I guess bacche school mai dance competition mai , fancy dress mai , extracurricular activities mai participate karte hai but more for fun that’s it. The result of dance competition, fancy dress competition or any other curriculum activities never affects anyone’s career or anything for college admissions.

What should be more important for any mother? To give life long lesson to bratty daughter or to show unnecessary Mamta for bratty daughter’s small competition??

I feel giving life long lesson to bratty daughter should be more important for any mother than any fancy dress:dance competition etc.

It was the time to give bratty daughter life long lesson and if kavya is not helping bratty daughter , there was no need to send nandini or any replacement to help your bratty daughter. Bratty daughter deserves good lesson and your faltu ka mamta is here just to pamper bratty child’s ego/attitude more and more.

Again I am saying giving lifelong lesson to bratty daughter should be more important than showing faltu ka Mamta just to pamper child’s ego/attitude.

I never liked Anupama’s parenting and can see poor parenting today also.

Mamta ki takat and motherhood lectures se bahar aa kar apni bratty daughter ko pehle lesson dena sikho lady! 😡

@ red - you wrote a very meaningful line about life lesson and its so true in every sense. Let your children fall , let them struggle to rise and stand up again and let them learn from their own mistake so they will not repeat it again. if we keep on repeating the same mistake then we will never grow in our life and will again fall very shortly.

@ blue So true , parenting plays an important role and this is high time either Anupama or vanraaj should give her good scolding. Medicine is always bitter but it cures you.

what if she couldn't win dance competition, she will again blame it to anupama. Life is not all about winning a school dance competition, she need to learn sometimes we win, sometimes we fail and we need to accept that. Cricketers bhi zero par out hote hai, not everyone get gold in Olympics or any other sports but still they are legends .

Couldn’t agree more. Anupama is an enabler. As a mom she should have shown some some tough love. This is ridiculous.

The show has become stupid. I’m going to take a break as well. I’m sick of her lectures, she doesn’t take stand for anything. Just talk talk and more talk.