Anupama ki faltu Mamta for Pakhi - Page 3

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Really tired of this show. I am going to take a break for sometime. Anupamaa doesn't take a good enough stand for anything. A Mom cannot always bend over her back to please her children. In fact, mothers should not do that even once. Pakhi is rude and only talks back to Anupamaa, not Vanraj. When she was troubled by Kavya, she didn't throw this much attitude to Vanraj but went in a panic mode herself. In fact, she doesn't even throw this much attitude to Kavya or Baa. Only Anupamaa because Anupamaa normalises it.

I will blame Vanraj for Pakhi's upbringing since he had the most influence on her but now Anupamaa has some control. Pakhi uses amd disposes people - Bestie to Kavya to Bestie and Anupamaa turns a blind eye towards it after 1 scolding. Them back to square one with Anupamaa doing extra things for her with no real efforts from Pakhi and Pakhi misbehaving again. Pampering, misbehavong, scolding, loop. No real consequences for anything. If Anupamaa really loves Pakhi, she will let Pakhi fall this time, so that Pakhi can become responsible and appreciate the good people around her.

Anupamaa is fast becoming a doormat with Vanraj calling her friend or ex as per his wishes, Rakhi and Kavya knowing that they can tell her anything repeatedly with no action against them. After so much drama on 'characterless' issue, Kavya still blamed her for poor cafe review and Rakhi ill treats her now more than ever. Anupamaa is making all this acceptable by not taking a firm stand for herself in the name of goodness and compassion.

I haven't seen a good person with no self respect, so I can no longer connect with Anupamaa's over concern for her ex-husband (she has helped her ex husband who has his entire family supporting him rather than her brother who is now selling papads on the road which her sick mother is making), ex-husband's current wife, her formerly very torturous MIL and her selfish children. I signed up for a show where the female lead realises her self worth and leads an independent, happy life. After divorce, more people are treating her like a doormat than even before.

It could not have been said in better words than this. 👏🏻👏🏻

I have nothing else to add except I am also taking a break again from this show. I am tired of Anupama’s crying and overly helping nature to help those who continue to step over her time and again.

Agreed to what u said

Last few weeks Anupamaa has been faltu overall

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Again I am saying giving lifelong lesson to bratty daughter should be more important than showing faltu ka Mamta just to pamper child’s ego/attitude.

I never liked Anupama’s parenting and can see poor parenting today also.

Mamta ki takat and motherhood lectures se bahar aa kar apni bratty daughter ko pehle lesson dena sikho lady! 😡

Toshu! this man irks me each passing day. When his parents/family is in trouble, his idea is to disintegrate from them so that he can live peacefully. 🤔

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Faltu ka mamta is an apt way to put it. I dont understand why Anupama just stood there mute not uttering a single word to stop Paki's behavior. She could have easily stopped the verbal showdown between the trio. What good is sitting and crying afterwards going to do?😲

Toshu! this man irks me each passing day. When his parents/family is in trouble, his idea is to disintegrate from them so that he can live peacefully. 🤔

Toshu jaise bacche disintegrate ho jaye wohi accha hai, sath mai reh kar bhi kon sa kuch accha karege!🤢

Anupama ki jagah main hoti toh dhakke mar kar toshu ko ghar se bahar nikalti and kinjal ko bhi bol deti since you are unable to take the charge of situation, i have to take this step .

Agar anupama kavya ko saman bandh kar jaane ko bol sakti hai toh same firm tone mai toshu ko dhakke mar kar kyun nahi nikalti hai?!

Sirf chala ja chala ja bolne se kuch nahi hota. Jab namune paida hue ho tab baccho par hath chalana he padta hai😡

Originally posted by: janecastle

Pakhi keeps on falling for Kavya's words and insult Anupama because she has zero respect for her mother. And why is that? Because all her life she has seen her family treat her mother as an unpaid servant and her mother put up with all of it. Her views changed for a bit when Anupama refused to bow down to any tantrums and went ahead with the divorce. However, after divorce, Anupama is back to being a maid to the Shahs without any self respect. She should have held her head high and left Shah house. If not, at least she should have drawn some boundaries. Instead she is out to please everybody by bowing down to them. This has given Pakhi the courage to go back to her earlier ways and insult her mother. It is high time Anupama take a stand and put her children in their place. She is their mother and not some random nanny. She should hold the power to discipline her children. She should also tell off Vanraj for giving unnecessary support to Pakhi's badtameezi.

Ek se badh kar ek namune paida hue hai anupama ke yaha😆

Itna motherhood ka lecture deti hai, mamta dikhati hai fir bhi bacche toh bachpan se namune nikkame he hai🤢

Bacche toh day 1 se aise namune he hai, it's just that anupama has decided to become nanny in place of mother since childhood because usko lagta hai nanny banne se he motherhood and mamta ka pradarshan ho sakta hai.

Kya gaye guzre namune bacche hai mamta ki murat ke!🤢