Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
The blaming scene-
Dev blaming Janardhan can be justified because he had been irritating them a lot. So he is frustrated and puts it all on Janardhan. He doesn’t see Janardhan as someone joined to Rishita. For him Rishita is his own🤷🏻♀️ Her father is not.
Rishita’s frustration is also quite understandable. He is her father. She knows he had done everything before but still feels upset because khoon ka rishta🤷🏻♀️
But Raavi’s words I din understand at all. How can she be so naive? Of course it is offending to put such a big blame on Rishita. I am offended on Rishita’s behalf. That girl have been outspoken, rude and mean but she hadn’t done anything to put the fam in loss ever. In fact she had been the one who saved them twice now. So even after all that how can Raavi just utter it? I din understand it. I mean. I do understand that she is naive as a character but that character trait itself i din get it. Just somedays ago, Rishita shared with her about how the whole fam hates her and Raavi talked to her about all that stuff and today, despite knowing Rishita’s insecurity she went ahead and put her in the spot just after her father had been blamed. Very badly done. And then trying to backtrack is also kind of weird. U have said it so face it now.
I also hated that everyone turned towards Rishita in animosity. That was very insulting and felt like ganging up on someone. Me in that position would have shut down all my emotions and given left and right. I am a fighter and when cornered I have no control😂
So I could even understand Rishita’s disappointment. Especially when Dhara turned towards her for talking like that to Raavi. Dude u just made that girl feel like an outsider who would fall so low. Now u want her to be polite??? What even? She won’t of course. I felt really bad for Rishita there. She looked so shocked to see them all watch her with mistrust. We tend to minimise her pain.
Shiva did feel irritated with the whole Rishita shouting at Raavi scene but his irritation is also mixed with understanding Rishita. Rishita felt cornered by the fam just because of innocent Raavi’s one sentence. According to him, Raavi has made a mistake here. However naive she is, she has made a mistake. U can excuse her because u love her. But u cannot ignore that it was done by her. Shiva realise that and so he remains silent even when he feels irritated at the whole thing. He feels she have done wrong this time. N why shouldn’t he? She has always spoken out against him on his mistakes. So why cant he?
Also when Dev asks her how she can make opinion about Rishita just coz of the bathroom thingy, I actually liked him taking Rishita’s side. He knows her and knows she cannot do this. Why will he keep silent. Shiva speaking out is not in hatred or anger. He is upset at her for saying this. She has thought wrong about him too many times and he has faced this from her throughout. So he can actually understand how Rishita feels. He haven’t said anything excessive here🤷🏻♀️ She has even put allegations on him after the kidnapping kaand, without clearing it with him in private, in front of the whole fam. This is the same sans the hatred part. But shiva felt it then and can empathize now. He doesn’t want her to be blamed but she has brought this on herself. Dev doesn’t see it because he have always been given special treatment by Raavi. She felt he could do no wrong but for Shiva her thoughts have always jumped to worse scenarios. He understands her well. The people see only her innocence. He have always known her naivety. It has rubbed him the wrong away.
And I also loved Suman. Yesterday she was upset with Gaura but she is a mother. Today she proves that her heart will always be soft for her children. Hope they do not spoil her character.
Also someone (I don’t remember who) had said in the morning that Shiva would have sided with Rishita in the haveli too. I was silent because I din see the epi then. But I say no. He wouldn’t have sided with Rishita. That time Rishita was at fault for speaking baselessly against Raavi. But today Raavi was speaking baselessly about Rishita. And she deserved the scolding she got today. U cannot speak of a member who is adjusting to the fam like that. Especially when u know how they actually feel about everything. She has been sweet to u lately. Trying to build a bond. And u go and sweep the rug from beneath her feet.
If I had shared something with someone here and they would then blame me for something, then I would have felt worst. This is not girl code to me. And I expect Shiva to defend her but when she is right. Not when she is wrong.
Also I noticed that Raavi felt a little weird at Dev’s words but she was absolutely hurt at Shiva’s. His words matter more. Hurts more. Weights more.
So this was my take on that scene.