Now I fully understood why Malini taking the fall

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Malini stand I understood. Why she letting Aditya go. She thinks that she will become bitter like her mother if she fight for her with Aditya. She always despise her. She thinks If her mother let her father go that day he claimed to love mithi. She never became so vulnerable for love. She never craved for Aditya n his family love the way she wants it desperately. She always somewhere deep blamed her mother for her weaknesses. She always made her mother see good in Aditya. She neglected her warning about Aditya and imlie. As in one episode she told her mother. They are separating but never be bitter towards eachother as Anu and Dev. Somewhere this implies her reaction. She knows their is nothing left for her. She is already in trauma because of her mother and father relationship. Mithi existence and imlie her sister. For accepting Aditya actually is selfish like her father will be another trauma for her. She have to accept anu is always right about Aditya. She have to accept Aditya is not what she thought. She made him her anchor of life. Letting go anchor made her drown in sorrow. She don't want to face. So she made herself believe that she is the one who came between imlie and aditya. She is not victim but culprit. She made story about her and kunal . So no one will see her suffering. The day she have to accept the truth. she have to accept she is in Anu place. She can't face it. Twisted and heartbroken Malini. She can't punish Aditya ever as she loved him core of heart. That will cut her into two half.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ketty84

Malini stand I understood. Why she letting Aditya go. She thinks that she will become bitter like her mother if she fight for her with Aditya. She always despise her. She thinks If her mother let her father go that day he claimed to love mithi. She never became so vulnerable for love. She never craved for Aditya n his family love the way she wants it desperately. She always somewhere deep blamed her mother for her weaknesses. She always made her mother see good in Aditya. She neglected her warning about Aditya and imlie. As in one episode she told her mother. They are separating but never be bitter towards eachother as Anu and Dev. Somewhere this implies her reaction. She knows their is nothing left for her. She is already in trauma because of her mother and father relationship. Mithi existence and imlie her sister. For accepting Aditya actually is selfish like her father will be another trauma for her. She have to accept anu is always right about Aditya. She have to accept Aditya is not what she thought. She made him her anchor of life. Letting go anchor made her drown in sorrow. She don't want to face. So she made herself believe that she is the one who came between imlie and aditya. She is not victim but culprit. She made story about her and kunal . So no one will see her suffering. The day she have to accept the truth. she have to accept she is in Anu place. She can't face it. Twisted and heartbroken Malini. She can't punish Aditya ever as she loved him core of heart. That will cut her into two half.

And for the first time I am liking your post. You really understood Malini's character so well. Be positive like this.

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That’s such a good observation ! Now I also started understanding her … she probably made up the Kunaal story to extract the truth out .. remember in the hospital , her plan was to use this story as a bait so Aditya can confess his relation with imlie … but since Aditya did not confess , she put up with this act and after the truth came out , she is hiding behind the same story

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ketty84

Malini stand I understood. Why she letting Aditya go. She thinks that she will become bitter like her mother if she fight for her with Aditya. She always despise her. She thinks If her mother let her father go that day he claimed to love mithi. She never became so vulnerable for love. She never craved for Aditya n his family love the way she wants it desperately. She always somewhere deep blamed her mother for her weaknesses. She always made her mother see good in Aditya. She neglected her warning about Aditya and imlie. As in one episode she told her mother. They are separating but never be bitter towards eachother as Anu and Dev. Somewhere this implies her reaction. She knows their is nothing left for her. She is already in trauma because of her mother and father relationship. Mithi existence and imlie her sister. For accepting Aditya actually is selfish like her father will be another trauma for her. She have to accept anu is always right about Aditya. She have to accept Aditya is not what she thought. She made him her anchor of life. Letting go anchor made her drown in sorrow. She don't want to face. So she made herself believe that she is the one who came between imlie and aditya. She is not victim but culprit. She made story about her and kunal . So no one will see her suffering. The day she have to accept the truth. she have to accept she is in Anu place. She can't face it. Twisted and heartbroken Malini. She can't punish Aditya ever as she loved him core of heart. That will cut her into two half.



Plus I also think that both Imlie and Malini care about each other and genuinely don't want to hurt the other. Meeting Methi must have made Malini realize that letting go is less painful that holding on to something that will be a thorn in my life. She cooked up the KC story so Aditya could confess but I think she uses it now to cope with the truth herself and to ensure that Imlie fully moves on.


As for Dev...can't say he loved Methi... I mean for the most part he was just infatuated with her and slept with her despite being married. Maybe I missed an episode where he said he loved her. Then again he says a lot of things which he never really does so.....


He fell in love with Anu and ran away with her as he father objected to the match due to class issues. Married her and had a baby, used her networks to get a boost in his career. Cheat on Anu with an unmarried girl by claiming to loves her. Then leave both women and his responsibilities. He obviously never contacted Methi and never cared to mend his bitter relationship with Anu.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ketty84

Malini stand I understood. Why she letting Aditya go. She thinks that she will become bitter like her mother if she fight for her with Aditya. She always despise her. She thinks If her mother let her father go that day he claimed to love mithi. She never became so vulnerable for love. She never craved for Aditya n his family love the way she wants it desperately. She always somewhere deep blamed her mother for her weaknesses. She always made her mother see good in Aditya. She neglected her warning about Aditya and imlie. As in one episode she told her mother. They are separating but never be bitter towards eachother as Anu and Dev. Somewhere this implies her reaction. She knows their is nothing left for her. She is already in trauma because of her mother and father relationship. Mithi existence and imlie her sister. For accepting Aditya actually is selfish like her father will be another trauma for her. She have to accept anu is always right about Aditya. She have to accept Aditya is not what she thought. She made him her anchor of life. Letting go anchor made her drown in sorrow. She don't want to face. So she made herself believe that she is the one who came between imlie and aditya. She is not victim but culprit. She made story about her and kunal . So no one will see her suffering. The day she have to accept the truth. she have to accept she is in Anu place. She can't face it. Twisted and heartbroken Malini. She can't punish Aditya ever as she loved him core of heart. That will cut her into two half.

Wonderful post. Malini is trying to accept the truth in bits and pieces. She is trying to brush off the hard and ugly parts. She must be hurt that Aditya so easily fell for Imlie and disrespected their relationship. She must be angry at herself that she invested her heart in a relationship that didn't exist from Ari's end for 7 years. She foolishly thought her love and his liking for her would be sufficient. And Imlie being her sister and a victim makes it hard for her. She is scared of becoming like her mother, bitter and vicious. If she lashes out, accuses Aditya, said mean things to him for all the humiliation he caused her, she will be her mother. That she doesn't want. If she reveals the actual truth.....She already has the image of a faint hearted woman. Adi will be guilty and sympathize with her. But she wanted love and respect.


She continued the story of Kunal to escape without confrontation and closure.


I personally think Adi is at fault. If he can faint dreading Imlie left him, Malini who loved him and was with him for 7 years and was about to marry him, can faint upon hearing the truth as well. Adi could tell the truth through his family and let Malini chose. Adi always find reasons to not feel guilty for his mistakes in my eyes. Whether it's Anu or Meethi or Malini or even Imlie has right to be angry with their respective spouses. Confront them, show then the mirror and even say hurtful things. And then let it go. Don't hold onto the betrayal and become vengeful.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ketty84

Malini stand I understood. Why she letting Aditya go. She thinks that she will become bitter like her mother if she fight for her with Aditya. She always despise her. She thinks If her mother let her father go that day he claimed to love mithi. She never became so vulnerable for love. She never craved for Aditya n his family love the way she wants it desperately. She always somewhere deep blamed her mother for her weaknesses. She always made her mother see good in Aditya. She neglected her warning about Aditya and imlie. As in one episode she told her mother. They are separating but never be bitter towards eachother as Anu and Dev. Somewhere this implies her reaction. She knows their is nothing left for her. She is already in trauma because of her mother and father relationship. Mithi existence and imlie her sister. For accepting Aditya actually is selfish like her father will be another trauma for her. She have to accept anu is always right about Aditya. She have to accept Aditya is not what she thought. She made him her anchor of life. Letting go anchor made her drown in sorrow. She don't want to face. So she made herself believe that she is the one who came between imlie and aditya. She is not victim but culprit. She made story about her and kunal . So no one will see her suffering. The day she have to accept the truth. she have to accept she is in Anu place. She can't face it. Twisted and heartbroken Malini. She can't punish Aditya ever as she loved him core of heart. That will cut her into two half.

Wonderful post. Malini is trying to accept the truth in bits and pieces. She is trying to brush off the hard and ugly parts. She must be hurt that Aditya so easily fell for Imlie and disrespected their relationship. She must be angry at herself that she invested her heart in a relationship that didn't exist from Ari's end for 7 years. She foolishly thought her love and his liking for her would be sufficient. And Imlie being her sister and a victim makes it hard for her. She is scared of becoming like her mother, bitter and vicious. If she lashes out, accuses Aditya, said mean things to him for all the humiliation he caused her, she will be her mother. That she doesn't want. She already has the image of a faint hearted woman. Adi will be guilty and sympathize with her. But she wanted love and respect.


She continued the story of Kunal to escape without confrontation and closure.


I personally think Adi is at fault. If he can faint dreading Imlie left him, Malini who loved him and was with him for 7 years and was about to marry him, can faint upon hearing the truth as well. Adi could tell the truth through his family and let Malini chose. Adi always find reasons to not feel guilty for his mistakes in my eyes. Whether it's Anu or Meethi or Malini or even Imlie has right to be angry with their respective spouses. Confront them, show then the mirror and even say hurtful things. And then let it go. Don't hold onto the betrayal and become vengeful.

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Plus I also think that both Imlie and Malini care about each other and genuinely don't want to hurt the other. Meeting Methi must have made Malini realize that letting go is less painful that holding on to something that will be a thorn in my life. She cooked up the KC story so Aditya could confess but I think she uses it now to cope with the truth herself and to ensure that Imlie fully moves on.


As for Dev...can't say he loved Methi... I mean for the most part he was just infatuated with her and slept with her despite being married. Maybe I missed an episode where he said he loved her. Then again he says a lot of things which he never really does so.....


He fell in love with Anu and ran away with her as he father objected to the match due to class issues. Married her and had a baby, used her networks to get a boost in his career. Cheat on Anu with an unmarried girl by claiming to loves her. Then leave both women and his responsibilities. He obviously never contacted Methi and never cared to mend his bitter relationship with Anu.

Dev is a person who can't take responsibility of anything. In the end he have to suffer lots of humiliation before he actually comes up the term he wants to be with methi. He actually never loved Anu. The didn't show their story much. Through Aditya depiction of character he is same as him. Aditya realised he will become dev if he didn't open up about his story. Aditya is selfish and cheat. He never ever loved Malini. Malini was one time obsession for Aditya character. That's why he never gave chance for marriage counseling or anything. He picked up from dev if he needs to be happy for life he have to tell everyone imlie is his wife. He told Malini everything first because he knew how much Malini loves him . She will never go to court or police to make drama of him. He never revealed all this to his parents, he knew they will never let Malini go from his life. It was easy for him to get what he wants. As Malini is very emotional and head over heels in love with Aditya. So he is a better player than Dev. He took time made Malini more vulnerable for his love . Refused to talk to her. Than bang on her. Dev knew he have a wife who will punish him like hell for cheating. He never wanted to serve the term. So he remained silent.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Wonderful post. Malini is trying to accept the truth in bits and pieces. She is trying to brush off the hard and ugly parts. She must be hurt that Aditya so easily fell for Imlie and disrespected their relationship. She must be angry at herself that she invested her heart in a relationship that didn't exist from Ari's end for 7 years. She foolishly thought her love and his liking for her would be sufficient. And Imlie being her sister and a victim makes it hard for her. She is scared of becoming like her mother, bitter and vicious. If she lashes out, accuses Aditya, said mean things to him for all the humiliation he caused her, she will be her mother. That she doesn't want. If she reveals the actual truth.....She already has the image of a faint hearted woman. Adi will be guilty and sympathize with her. But she wanted love and respect.


She continued the story of Kunal to escape without confrontation and closure.


I personally think Adi is at fault. If he can faint dreading Imlie left him, Malini who loved him and was with him for 7 years and was about to marry him, can faint upon hearing the truth as well. Adi could tell the truth through his family and let Malini chose. Adi always find reasons to not feel guilty for his mistakes in my eyes. Whether it's Anu or Meethi or Malini or even Imlie has right to be angry with their respective spouses. Confront them, show then the mirror and even say hurtful things. And then let it go. Don't hold onto the betrayal and become vengeful.

You are absolutely right.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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At least she should let Aditya know what he did is also wrong .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why would Malini want to stay married to a man who doesn’t love her? That would be a miserable life. No one deserves to live in a marriage knowing the spouse loves another. Resentment will make bitter like AC who to save face in society is warring with DC all the t8me. Malini probably decided she didn’t want to be another AC.


“When you love someone set them free, if they are meant to be yours they will come back to you otherwise they were never meant to be”.Imli was always ready to let Adi be with Malini but he kept returning to PD for her.😆


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