Originally posted by: ketty84
Malini stand I understood. Why she letting Aditya go. She thinks that she will become bitter like her mother if she fight for her with Aditya. She always despise her. She thinks If her mother let her father go that day he claimed to love mithi. She never became so vulnerable for love. She never craved for Aditya n his family love the way she wants it desperately. She always somewhere deep blamed her mother for her weaknesses. She always made her mother see good in Aditya. She neglected her warning about Aditya and imlie. As in one episode she told her mother. They are separating but never be bitter towards eachother as Anu and Dev. Somewhere this implies her reaction. She knows their is nothing left for her. She is already in trauma because of her mother and father relationship. Mithi existence and imlie her sister. For accepting Aditya actually is selfish like her father will be another trauma for her. She have to accept anu is always right about Aditya. She have to accept Aditya is not what she thought. She made him her anchor of life. Letting go anchor made her drown in sorrow. She don't want to face. So she made herself believe that she is the one who came between imlie and aditya. She is not victim but culprit. She made story about her and kunal . So no one will see her suffering. The day she have to accept the truth. she have to accept she is in Anu place. She can't face it. Twisted and heartbroken Malini. She can't punish Aditya ever as she loved him core of heart. That will cut her into two half.
Wonderful post. Malini is trying to accept the truth in bits and pieces. She is trying to brush off the hard and ugly parts. She must be hurt that Aditya so easily fell for Imlie and disrespected their relationship. She must be angry at herself that she invested her heart in a relationship that didn't exist from Ari's end for 7 years. She foolishly thought her love and his liking for her would be sufficient. And Imlie being her sister and a victim makes it hard for her. She is scared of becoming like her mother, bitter and vicious. If she lashes out, accuses Aditya, said mean things to him for all the humiliation he caused her, she will be her mother. That she doesn't want. If she reveals the actual truth.....She already has the image of a faint hearted woman. Adi will be guilty and sympathize with her. But she wanted love and respect.
She continued the story of Kunal to escape without confrontation and closure.
I personally think Adi is at fault. If he can faint dreading Imlie left him, Malini who loved him and was with him for 7 years and was about to marry him, can faint upon hearing the truth as well. Adi could tell the truth through his family and let Malini chose. Adi always find reasons to not feel guilty for his mistakes in my eyes. Whether it's Anu or Meethi or Malini or even Imlie has right to be angry with their respective spouses. Confront them, show then the mirror and even say hurtful things. And then let it go. Don't hold onto the betrayal and become vengeful.
Edited by pratyay - 4 years ago