•Shivangi Khedkar• {Pallavi}•AT#4| Kabhi Pikachu, Kabhi Atom bomb| - Page 71

Originally posted by: Diya2021

no private conversations here. Join anytime. Absolutely, I just love all especially the one she writes Main tumhe miss karungi and the whole monologue..

Yaa the way she falls in love and how he has become an irreplaceable part of her life but she can't show it 😍

Even the last part , I resonated with it so much where she tells that now she has stopped complaining to god

A lot of her complaining and being angry to understanding what happens with us is for a reason , that entire story is so damn good , I felt like life lessons for our generation 🤩

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I am agreeing with you!

Haha, sometimes I wonder, does it come across like I flip flop on Sharda too much? In my heart and head, there's no flip flop, but I'm not sure I express it very well, so it comes across as me 'switching sides' a lot. I do acknowledge her affection and love are legitimate, and she truly considers Pallavi a daughter, but I still feel like she burdened Pallavi too much in the past, albeit unintentionally and she needs to learn to function without her. Her behaviour after the wedding, I still want closure on, which is why I'm rooting for a heart to heart between them.

I do want more Sharda/Raghav scenes, they have a lot of potential, for all the reasons you've mentioned!

@bold- not flip flop per se.. but I get the sense that you have some trust issues with her that you had touched upon in your very first post on IF.. I know you empathize with her especially when she is unfairly judged but you always feel she could've done more for Pallavi...that's the sense I get...

I agree with what you said earlier about circumstances affecting your cognitive abilities as a way to explain some of Amma's questionable actions... I extend the same benefit of doubt to Ayi for some of her past lack of actions.. that's the only difference..

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yaa the way she falls in love and how he has become an irreplaceable part of her life but she can't show it 😍

Even the last part , I resonated with it so much where she tells that now she has stopped complaining to god

A lot of her complaining and being angry to understanding what happens with us is for a reason , that entire story is so damn good , I felt like life lessons for our generation 🤩

Absolutely, they maintained her character so well till the end. I just loved the way she kept expressing her love only through those monologues and the slight smiles which never let any of her emotions out.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I am agreeing with you!

Haha, sometimes I wonder, does it come across like I flip flop on Sharda too much? In my heart and head, there's no flip flop, but I'm not sure I express it very well, so it comes across as me 'switching sides' a lot. I do acknowledge her affection and love are legitimate, and she truly considers Pallavi a daughter, but I still feel like she burdened Pallavi too much in the past, albeit unintentionally and she needs to learn to function without her. Her behaviour after the wedding, I still want closure on, which is why I'm rooting for a heart to heart between them.

I do want more Sharda/Raghav scenes, they have a lot of potential, for all the reasons you've mentioned!

Logo ko isse badi badi galtiyon pe maaf kar diya gaya hai... even before their attempt at any redemption..the only thing going for them is that they are either the ML or ML's mother... That is a fact..Ayi is in the wrong camp and she pays the price for it..that's a fact..not saying that's how you judge her because I know you well enough to know that's not true but majority do..

Funnily enough, I was one of the very few ones here who supported Amma when she forced Raghav and Pallavi wedding😆 My justification of her actions was loosely what ur's and Jeans was about Pallavi wearing white saree today.. sometimes characters have to be made to act out of characters to suit a particular plot or narrative... Raghav Pallavi's wedding was on the cards and there was no way it was gonna happen unless and until Amma forced them into it..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold- not flip flop per se.. but I get the sense that you have some trust issues with her that you had touched upon in your very first post on IF.. I know you empathize with her especially when she is unfairly judged but you always feel she could've done more for Pallavi...that's the sense I get...

I agree with what you said earlier about circumstances affecting your cognitive abilities as a way to explain some of Amma's questionable actions... I extend the same benefit of doubt to Ayi for some of past lack of actions.. that's the only difference..

I've warmed up to her considerably since that first post, tbh. It's not trust issues- I trust her to act in Pallavi's best interest. The only thing, frankly, that I have taken major issue to was her anger at 'why aren't you telling me if there's a problem' because well...that responsibility, of creating a safe space for sharing, is the parent's, and she could have still stayed angry at Pallavi, but also introspected on how her constant 'Pallu, mujhe pata hai tu sambhal legi' may have contributed to Pallavi feeling too protective of her to share her burdens.

Plus, we've discussed that as a parent, you can't stop your child from falling, but you should be there for them when they fall. She believed Pallavi jumped into a fire by marrying Raghav, and had Pallavi's life actually gotten as bad as Sharda feared when she begged her not to do this, she should have been there for Pallavi more, rather than alienate her. Unresponsiveness even after Raghav told her how miserably Pallavi had missed her when very ill also upset me.

But that's literally all of it at this point, all my other previous concerns with her have been alleviated and addressed by the show itself, so I've long dropped them, and these mistakes very understandable, human mistakes, which I don't hold against her, exactly, but I would like them to be touched upon in show. It doesn't require any kind of redemption or apologies, but a little discussion and closure would be good.

I do empathise with her a lot though, her home life sucks, and her loneliness these days punches me in the gut.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

Absolutely, they maintained her character so well till the end. I just loved the way she kept expressing her love only through those monologues and the slight smiles which never let any of her emotions out.

Yaa so true

I think finite series have that advantage you can a play out a story really well and in zgh they kept the essence very intact till the end .

I just loved the yoga scene today. Shivangi has such a good posture and I really appreciate PH utilising her skill to give out such a great scene. She looked so different.

Also I have tried to look at this from a different angle..from Pallavi's POV... why she was hesitant sharing her problems/burden with her family back then when she lived with D's... Ofcourse, its parents responsibility to provide a secure open environment where a child feels free and confident of sharing everything under the sun with their parents... But it still is a two way process..and a part of it depends on the child's psyche too... Pallavi, if I have read her character correctly is, over protective for her loved ones..that's a default setting she has..She tries her best to shield them..that's one of the main reasons she is going out of the way to protect Keerthi from Sunny too..and in the process is not being open to her about a lot of things, her instincts and experiences with Sunny because a.) yes she knows Keerthi won't trust her b.) she feels its in Keerthi's ''best interest'' for now.. Somewhat same twisted logic applies to how she was with D's as well... she was and still is (for Ayi) very over protective of them and always tried to shield them away from any problem, be it related to shop or Raghav.... ''unhe dukh na phocohe, unhe taqleef na ho..mein handle kar lungi..'' With Amma, she is very close but its different here...here she has Raghav with her so she doesn't have to be the one to burden herself with all the worries.. But I can bet, her instinct will be to keep Amma and Keerthi away from any potential problems related to Ved or Mandhar or whoever poses a threat to their family in future..Krishna Rao or BWA...so she will keep things from them too..even Raghav if she feels ''its in his best interest'' to not know.. much like Raghav feels when he keeps things related to Ved from her.... I know a lot of times when I get sick I underplay it infront of my parents, just so they don't worry too much... its a small example but the intent is the same..

Aai is topic ?

I honestly never warmed upto her character, she has flipped many times . Though I understand her problems , there has not been much growth in her character . As viewer it starts irritating you after a point 😆

Aai bas bolti hi hai , karne ki baat aye toh we can’t trust her much on that.

Mandaar track main choices that Aai and Pallavi are most important and crucial to further storyline.

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

Aai is topic ?

I honestly never warmed upto her character, she has flipped many times . Though I understand her problems , there has not been much growth in her character . As viewer it starts irritating you after a point 😆

Aai bas bolti hi hai , karne ki baat aye toh we can’t trust her much on that.

Mandaar track main choices that Aai and Pallavi are most important and crucial to further storyline.

Topic closed from my side😆 ab aur himmat nahi bachi hai..