My Guide, My Strength, My Dad||Happy Father's Day

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Posted: 4 years ago
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As they say you are a daughter’s First Love and a son’s First Hero,

Daddy, as much as we can’t live without Mother, we can’t live without Dad either.

On this day, we want to pay you a tribute, though you deserve love every single day.

You are that Value of Love that cannot be compared to all the loves of the worlds combined,

You are the Definition Of Sacrifice and Unconditional Support,

You are that strong brick that makes a house not fall,

You are the coolness of our eyes and the joy of our heart,

You cannot be replaced ; a deadly void fills our home when you leave for work, only to become alive again when you return.

You are the one with whom the most cherished memories we share,

From the very first glance at you in the hospital ward

to the endless messy feeding sessions we attempted while mother fell asleep.

The first time we tried to walk slowly slowly copying your steps,

From the fearful first cycle ride,

To the fearless first car drive, your courage has been there every step of the way.

You console us when we are sad,

and give your precious goofy smile when we are happy

You are always supportive at every step even when we get it wrong,

You are always forgiving and the most patient being around us

You are the one who taught us the importance of values and principles in one's everyday life.

The love hidden behind your scoldings is evidently clear always and we know, no matter what you'll always have our back. Without You, Our Universe is incomplete.

Daddy, this five letter word means everything to us and defines the reason and purpose of our existence.

You have been created to be unique and there cannot be anyone else like you.


In each and every step of our life, your support reduces all heavy burdens.

Daddy, if you were not here, who would have given us our Wings To Fly in this cruel world ?


Daddy, remember this, you are our First Hero, Our First Love, Our Superman, Our Batman, Our Everything.

Even death will not be able to wash away your teachings and your legacy.

Simply because You Are Unique and You are Our Protector. With you, we feel safe and secured.

Nothing can happen to us when You Are Around Daddy.


Celebrating The Man Of Each Daughter and Son’s Life. Daddy, 5 letters that hold A POWERFUL MEANING.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Fathers share a unique bond with their daughters, which differs from the sons. But despite the differences, the one thing that remains is the unbreakable relationship connected by the heart and soul. Let us explore the varied colours/roles of a father:



The first man in life

A father is the first male a girl encounters in her life. Her ideas about the opposite gender are molded into being by observing him. Her views on men are a direct consequence of her relationship with him. A loving father has a positive outlook on men, makes her feel confident, able to love and trust, commit to serious relationships. Conversely, a distant father who constantly argues and disrespects her mother leads her to assume that all men are the same - disrespectful and authoritative. She easily gets attached to her father as she learns what a man might be, and sees in him what a man ought to be.




The protector

A father conventionally views his wife and daughters to need protection and security, and he ought to provide that for them. This is also the reason they view fathers as judgmental and apprehensive about boys their daughters date; they know how men think, and can occasionally identify the destructive men from the genuinely good ones.




Opposite always attracts

Fathers are more likely to yearn for a son for the experience of raising a boy in their image, they change this preference when a daughter is born. When a girl is born into the family, a father’s attention inadvertently shifts towards her, often making her the center of his universe. Fathers who have experienced parenting both a girl and a boy almost always favor the experience of raising a girl, finding it more fulfilling than that of a boy.




Daddy's lil girl

They found fathers to forgive their daughters' blunders more easily than they do their sons'. Yet they are also most hurt when a daughter defies them, since he holds the belief that she can do no wrong.


Girls who don't have a secure attachment with their fathers develop behavioral problems and have difficulty adapting to situations later on in life. As mentioned earlier, an absent father figure, or an emotionally distant dad, can cause a girl to be moreintrovert, with prejudiced views of the opposite sex, and with difficulties in creating lasting bonds with men. But this isn't the case with everyone.


On this wonderful day, we would like to wish all fathers out there a happy Father's day and welcome you all to share an insight into your relationship with your fathers.


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Graphics: proteeti

Edited by Yuvika_15 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Happy belated father's day everyone.

Apologies for the delay in getting this thread up as a GA. There were some issues with moving the thread.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautiful topic Maria

Happy Father’s Day

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thanks Papa for being my savior always from Mom's Jhadu

Thanks papa for being my Phuchka,Golgappa,street food partner

Thanks papa for always giving your shoulder 2 sleep peacefully n securely during journey

Thanks papa for being a motivator of my experimental cooking n despite being wahiyaat sometime u whole heartedly finish n praise

Thank papa for considering me always similar like 10 sons not a tension ❤️❤️


Happy belated Fathers Day to all Fathers in this world. wish their happy and healthy life. ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Dad, a daughter’s first love.

DAD means,

D - Debonair (gracious, kind)

A - Amiable (friendly)

D - Devout (earnestly religious)

Papa is pamperer, amenable, possessive and admirable. He always thinks of his family before his own self. He is one who gives all sacrifices for his children. To give his children a better future he compromises with his present.

My Papa has always been an adorable person, a lovely talkative individual. He loves to speak a lot. He constantly keeps on guiding us, all our problems are solved at an instance when told to Papa. He teaches us to work safely, take care of ourself. He is very cool person, World’s coolest Dad!

He’s the searchlight or the light house in the ocean called life. The ever guiding angel. He knows all the answers we may ask, answers them with a lot of patience. His patience is really amazing. Any situation comes in front of him, he faces it with the same cool understanding behaviour. He analysis the situation and then gives the required input.

From him we learn valour, sensibility, being careful, not hurting others, forgetting n forgiving. He not only preaches or teaches us the lessons of life, he shows us how to live life!

The sacrifices that he gives for us can not be repaid by any means. They can only be understood, felt. Anyone can be a father, but not a ‘Dad’. He always gives his children nothing but the best.

song ‘Laadki’ -

I would end with my favourite lines of “ तेरी लाडकी मैं.. रहुंगी तेरी लाडली मैं

कितनी भी दूर तोसे चाहे रहूं.. तेरी लाडकी मैं छोडूंगी ना तेरा हाथ ।”

With Loads of Love,

N 💖

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Belated Happy Father's Day! 🤗

Beautiful thread by you, CC's! ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya185

Beautiful topic Maria

Happy Father’s Day

Thank you Priya but the thread wouldn't have been possible without Yuvika, Proteeti and Aditi 🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DreamyButterfly

Thank you Priya but the thread wouldn't have been possible without Yuvika, Proteeti and Aditi 🤗

lovely work by everyone😊

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